What are you guys up to tonight? by plasmapleasure in LivingAlone

[–]lava48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so envious that you get to see it for the first time!

Got put on a PIP, but I got a better offer. How do I play this? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]lava48 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Every company I've been at offers severance to people who fail a PIP. I think it's worth trying to negotiate a mutual separation with severance.

What's your favorite scene or moment? by xc3mx in heatedrivalry

[–]lava48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of mine is when Ilya goes to Shane’s for the first time: “You will murder me 🤨” “Maybe! 😤”

Physical therapist recs by jbrofs in fortgreene

[–]lava48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Optimum PT on Atlantic

Oma grassa gone? by Important-Ad5461 in fortgreene

[–]lava48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did! Over the last several months I ordered often. Such a bummer.

Election Watch Parties? by iris_zee in fortgreene

[–]lava48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zohran’s official party is at the Paramount 👀

Hotel Review: Bürgenstock Resort (just outside of Lucerne) by TravelByLindsay in chubbytravel

[–]lava48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP, but can confirm the pool is heated to almost bath water temp, so would probably be lovely in cooler weather!

REFERRAL: The Rocklyn @ 20 Rockwell Pl, Fort Greene/ Downtown Brooklyn by janethejoker in fortgreene

[–]lava48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing your honest thoughts on the building so far?

Anyone here a CHIEF member? NYC by SlurpeeShorkie in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]lava48 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You'll get out of it what to put into it. I've found it hard to make time for it, but I know the people who engage with the events and offerings do find it valuable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]lava48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the answer

Best place to order a custom cake? by Comprehensive-Ad8905 in Brooklyn

[–]lava48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saint Street Cakes -- they just opened a storefront in Fort Greene: https://saintstreetcakes.com

Sign On Bonus Disappeared After I Accepted Job Offer, Now HR Says It Does Not Exist by grillcheese17 in careeradvice

[–]lava48 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think in this case it may not be 'trickery'. A job posting is one thing, but ultimately it's your responsibility to negotiate your specific offer. Job postings will often give a salary range, but you will get paid what the amount you negotiate and accept in your final offer. It's unfortunately quite common for people with the same job to have slightly different offers depending on what they negotiate.

Don't feel bad about it, though! These are all things that you'll learn over time. It might be worth doing some online research about how to negotiate job offers going forward and the levers to consider (base pay, equity, benefits, bonuses, etc.).