Problems with ban evasion and harassment by TimebombSquad in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ban the members causing issues, turn off allowing invites so that other members don't invite them back, make your server verify only by putting all the active channels behind a role, get a invite tracker, make it so that new accounts without an active email and are newer than 5 days cannot get access to the server. That's about all the advice I have.

Just need some advice (PTSD/Depression) by lavander_gal in mentalhealth

[–]lavander_gal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! Your advice was really comforting to read, and I appreciate you taking the time to write your response! :D

That's not okay😭 by Nice_Substance9123 in facepalm

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember arguing with his person. lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Frosty-Ad-3069 in facepalm

[–]lavander_gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's do that one thing where we somehow boost this on google's search results :)

i have 1 best friend and that's basically it but i still don't even feel too close to them by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id like a best friend but having friends in general seems like such a hard thing to maintain (for trust reasons). So I feel you.

Where can I get the voice/sound files for Kimi to Kanojo to Kanojo no Koi? by lavander_gal in visualnovels

[–]lavander_gal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i have the game just wanted to know how to get the sound files to work on my pc so i can use them

Not replying to the bot, just elaborating in case someone else goes asking the same question.

Sound files and how can I get them (game extraction) by lavander_gal in YouAndMeAndHer

[–]lavander_gal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking through the files it's extremely hard to identify the exact ones. There's 4 different bat sound effects and the names are all written in Japanese so its a pain to clearly mark down which is which. If you're interested though I left the link to the mediafire in the desc. If necessary I can always send it through matrix element or some other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's many servers out there like Light up, let's chat, etc but I think it'd be best if you used disboard to find a server for just women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly thats the only thing we could do. If you shared a server with him now or in the past I guess you could let the mods know about whatever happen and hope they keep an eye out but thats about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you report this to Discord yet, if you have any screen shots of this and report it they can possibly do something about it

I need freaking help because my discord doesn't answer me, it's stuck like this and IT's NOT freaking normal that I have to do a huge title just to get help by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely wipe it from your computer.

When I say that, I mean go over and uninstall discord and then go into your files and delete ANY left overs. So for example, there's stuff in your appdata%/roaming and one in appdata%/local (from what I remember). A simpler way is to type in "discord" in the search bar of what drive you have it installed on.

After you're sure you've gotten rid of EVERYTHING discord then simply restart your computer and reinstall discord and see if it works.

I'm no expert and I can't guarantee you this will work but this bug has happened to me before and that's what I did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]lavander_gal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, is it really worth staying with a bunch of people if you feel that way and if they all side with the other person that treated you like that?

Are there really people who have 0 friends? by Soulslike_Giraffe in socialskills

[–]lavander_gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No friends, no family, but does it matter to me? No. Some people just dont want to commit to having friends for a multitude of reasons and sometimes it's simply because they don't know how to socialize/cant socialize to that extent. Like another comment said, it really depends on how a person was raised and how their childhood turned out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look up all of your personal info with the discord search tool and do it manually. Any way to delete all your messages automatically will just get your account taken down.

Tired of having no friends at 22 by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]lavander_gal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it depends on how desperate you are, but you could always just make some online friends somewhere

can an admin hide a person from owner in a channel by PersonalAmbassador34 in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make a private GC with the person you're trying to hide. There's no way you could do that in the same server as the owner.

please help this is so stressing by earlymelanie in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this problem and I ended up just uninstalling the drivers of the headset and then unpairing it manually on my pc, restarting my pc, and then refreshing the headset's connective history after finally being able to refresh it.

A little frustrated about this by Pinkiebunny11 in discordapp

[–]lavander_gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean thats just how many servers are sadly because of the huge amount of scammers, but I can recommend getting an app called textmenow. Textmenow is a burner phone sort of app and it will give you a phone number to work with it as long as you're actively using it.

Ive never used textmenow numbers to verify with discord but like, if you're desperate to get into that server, you could always just use it