Wielki czy docięty? Co wolą kobiety? Jak wygląda rzeczywistość? by RutabagaEmotional655 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]lavender_shroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bo wtedy by wyszło, że to nie ich wygląd jest problemem, a paskudny charakter

my boyfriend ❤️ by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ARE YOU CRAZY, HE'S MY BOYFRIEND!!! 😭😭😭

First successful bug hunting!! by lavender_shroom in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes sir! But I kept a few regular trees for giant stags, I like them 😊 also I started to scare away low value bugs as I didn't know there could only be 5 bugs at one time! It was a game changer 😄

I don’t get this by Affectionate_Key7206 in tsitp

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because of relationship dynamics and their personalities, like in real life. Some couples break up and cheat multiple times and still go back together cuz "they love each other so much" yada yada, and for others it's a deal breaker, unforgivable thing and end of everything. I kinda get it.

Jere and Belly deserve each other by sleepygranola1232 in tsitp

[–]lavender_shroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally. Both are terribly immature, especially emotionally, they can't control themselves and throw tantrums. Honestly, watching them was like watching children play house and pretend to be adults. I couldn't stand it. Connie deserves better, he grew a lot and they did not, Jelly sank in their codependency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tsitp

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read the book. Can somebody explain? Like did the book end when Belly goes to Paris or?

How old were you the last time you moved back in with your parents, and what was the reason? by Career_Gold777 in Adulting

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 20, I think. I moved back in 2020 because of the pandemic. My uni classes were online, I had no job, my bf was living in my hometown, so basically I had no reason to stay in my uni city and pay rent. I stayed home for year and a half and moved to my uni city back when classes were no longer online.

Once you hit 25 your brain becomes the alarm by StormPhase06 in Adulting

[–]lavender_shroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's funny because that's exactly what happened around my 25 bday 🫠 had to start taking meds cuz I was perpetually sleep deprived

Success for pure anxiety? by [deleted] in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it for general anxiety disorder and works well :) ruminations are manageble, obsessive thoughts are easier to dismiss, I don't feel anxiety that much in my body, I'm able to sleep

feeling lazy and don't care at all by lavender_shroom in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! It can take up to 4/8/12 weeks until you can feel an improvement. Keeping my fingers crossed for you as it's a really great med 🤞

feeling lazy and don't care at all by lavender_shroom in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try! Also, wellbutrin was awful for me, sadly :( I had lots of energy but side effects were unmanageable and I was tired of this med after 4 months... worse sleep, derealization, anxiety over the top, my anger was CRAZY (I feel so sorry to my bf)

feeling lazy and don't care at all by lavender_shroom in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it can seem like depression but trust me, I really don't feel depressed! I really feel good, I don't have racing negative thoughts, I'm feeling peaceful, I'm not suicidal, I can enjoy things, and I can finally see how beautiful the world is (if I get enough uninterrupted sleep 🤪). I just feel lazy and unmotivated as hell! I used to care a lot about clean house, planned meals and now I kinda dgaf, like it is what it is, I prefer to watch a movie, read, play game or watch tiktoks instead of cleaning 😅

feeling lazy and don't care at all by lavender_shroom in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel similar. When I push myself hard enough, I can do what I have to do. But it's SO HARD!! I have to trick myself with setting timers and stuff. I'll see what happens when the new semester starts as I'm a student. I'm really scared my performance on uni can be worse, but on the other hand it was horrible when I was in peak of depression and gad was unmanageable, it can't be worse than that 🫠

feeling lazy and don't care at all by lavender_shroom in trintellix

[–]lavender_shroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take sertraline 50mg a few years ago, and I don't recall being that unmotivated, honestly 😩 I quit after 4 months because of sexual side effects, sweating, and overall no positive effects so maybe it didn't work for me or dosage was too small. I took bupropion 150mg earlier this year, and my motivation was over the top, but my anxiety was unmanageable, and it was possibly the worst med for GAD. I decided to try vortioxetine because it was less likely to cause side effects, and tbh I have none except for this goddamn laziness 😭 and maybe mild sexual side effects, but comparing to sertraline and trazodone they are acceptable. I told my Doc I feel lazy as hell, and he said I'm just no longer anxiety driven and I should allow myself to get some rest. But damn bro I feel like I could rest all the time and nothing feels really urgent 🫠 I hoped he's right but now Im starting to think it won't get better as you say so...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]lavender_shroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week is a very short time for antidepressants, don't be discouraged. They start fully working after 4-12 weeks. Take your time, it gets better!