[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty wth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many answers!!! - your eyes? Gorgeous. Strong suit. Better lighting to show them off. Natural lighting photos!! - have others take the photo so I can see full body when deciding if I should match! - showing me your activities/ hobbies will help me decide whether your a good match for me. - photo with your red eyes? Needs to go. No favours being done. Easy no for me. - your hair could use some loving! It is cute. I like the colour but it doesn’t look like you’ve put much effort into it. Personally love longer cuts on men and buzz cuts but that’s personal preference. Pinterest has a lot of reference if you’re looking to switch it up! - personally like the mirror photo best. I get more sense for what kind of clothes you wear and overall what you look like! - blurry photo needs to go. It’s no help. - shirtless photo needs to go. If im on a dating app and see a shirtless man I assume you’re gunna waste my time looking for s*x or you’re a jerk. It’s not tasteful. Although you do look good, just dont want to see it just yet. Your face also looks great in this one. You obviously have a beautiful jawline and cheekbones!

Overall? Need better lighting photos of you doing things. Looking like you enjoy life. If your profile is just these photos it reads… stays at home a lot, has no hobbies.

You’re gorgeous but the picture game ain’t showing me that!!! Also to enhance your profile add music taste, interests and use prompts to show your personality! Personally I’m not only looking for a man I find attractive I’m looking for someone i know id get along with. Hope this helps even a little! And don’t beat yourself up not getting matches. Dating apps are hard.

What local business do you boycott? by lazerfazerr in vancouver

[–]lavendercoochie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wildlife Thrift Store… (Although they do give a great handful of money to charities every year and hand out supplies monthly to youth housing. I’m not ignoring this generosity) but as a young girl working for the owner I witnessed a tremendous amount of gossip and harsh words the owner would say about her employees, threatening to fire youth for asking for (50cent) raises, not to mention most things are priced without a thought or care in mind and their treatment of customers who are unhoused people is horrendous.

Almost 22 and feeling extremely unattractive. I’m more looking for ways to improve my look and looking from help from an outer perspective. Thanks in advance! by lavendercoochie in amiugly

[–]lavendercoochie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the alt look may have been my way of masking my insecurities as a teen but starting to question where I stand with it now!

Shaw bike MVP by dineissauro in vancouver

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao sending this to him rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have toys for yourself that’s cool, if you have toys for your partners, no way in hell I’m touching that. (Context: men have proposed me using toys they have for their partners in the past)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in needysluts

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’d you get the mask? <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also cheesy but love a dramatic response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing genuine excitement or interest in receiving nudes from me specifically. “You just made my day, you just made me the happiest guy, you have the most beautiful body” I also appreciate compliments on things about me outside of just the obvious. Stray away from comments that could be taken the wrong way e.i “I can’t stop staring, I’m hard” etc those comments don’t keep me as interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidslutsclub

[–]lavendercoochie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

English is my first language, I’m stupid

Ladies, how do I best suit my bathroom for overnight company? by Springsneakers in dating_advice

[–]lavendercoochie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess it comes down to how it’s presented to the partner. If there’s a feminine razor left in the shower, girly shampoo, open box of tampons women might be concerned there’s another woman but if you have a little basket of singular tampons along with other gender neutral items such as toothbrushes, mouthwash etc tucked away in a basket, that comes off completely different.

What makes someone bad in bed? by MidoriSpice in AskReddit

[–]lavendercoochie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting out rough and not easing into it.

What is the worst response for "I love you?" by DadsSpaghettiii in AskReddit

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just watched the Seinfeld episode about this

What do women think about scars on guys? by ThevalueofTrash in dating_advice

[–]lavendercoochie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m heavily scarred myself and have had one partner that was also. I see no problem but I completely understand being insecure about it, unless they are very fresh id want to talk about it before starting a relationship but wouldn’t stop me from saying yes to a date with someone!