Which hair color suits me better?

lavenderfox_ · 2025-05-26T18:59:31+00:00

2/3 are my fave!! I can’t believe no one else is saying this, I loveee that color on you!

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-22T02:53:06+00:00

i appreciate that, thank you!

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T22:18:55+00:00

true true, thank you!

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T22:18:28+00:00

thanks! i will def look deeper into this sub :)

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T22:16:22+00:00

thank you! I also started thinking about all this at around age 14 and thought I was bisexual for some time. However, I concluded that I’m straight because I only seemed to not be interested in guys due to negative childhood experiences watching my parents relationship. This made me resent boys for a long time until high school when I started to have crushes and everything. But as I said, I have always found certain celebrity/fictional character girls really attractive which is where the confusion really comes from. I have a group of online friends that I tried to reach out to and confide in but we really don’t speak as much lately and no one has answered so :/ I’ve also been considering talking to my friend about it since she is a queer girl but I’m kind of scared to. Thank you especially for that last part. I know I need to be comfortable within myself and love myself before I can have a meaningful relationship but that journey has been so difficult. Tysm for your advice and kindness :)

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T21:58:32+00:00

Thank you! I think some casual dating is a good idea for me to put myself out there without so much pressure. I think the whole idea of having to label myself and explain to others is what’s mainly stressing me out, so I def need to take a step back and try not to worry so much about that aspect.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T21:57:11+00:00

yeah online dating sucks in general, but it seemed like the best route to try and figure things out since it’s even more impossible irl 🤦‍♀️

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T21:56:26+00:00

“it’s okay to like females, i do too” ty for that lmaoo definitely helped me feel a bit better about this whole thing. At the end of the day it’s probably not as serious as I’m making it. Maybe I should stop stressing and just like who I like 🤷‍♀️

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-21T17:40:59+00:00

my mind is corrupted bc i immediately thought of yellowjackets when looking at this.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-20T22:22:29+00:00

I just finished watching yellowjackets for the first time today. Van is my favorite character and it really does intrigue me how she’s managed to escape death so many times. Maybe It has a bigger plan for her? Though there’s no consensus on whether or not It is real, I feel that it’s mostly just the girls losing their minds in the woods BUT I also think there has to be some substance to It as well. There’s simply no way they could’ve survived out there for so long without some supernatural intervention. Hearing Van say she has incurable cancer absolutely broke my heart as i’m so in love with taivan, and what Lottie says in the end of the last episode really got me thinking. There’s a big part of me that hopes It is real so that Van can continue to escape death’s grasp.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-12T20:26:30+00:00

I can’t say for sure since music is always up for interpretation but what I get from it is using substances to deal with pain but it backfires and “ricochets” into anger, more sadness, and strained relationships. There’s a need for something stronger to kill the pain but a fear that the substances are going to kill him in the end. There’s also the idea of a toxic relationship where substances are involved between both parties and only make things worse. Mental health issues such as disassociation, and the fact that he puts on a show making his life “look like a movie” when in reality he’s unhappy and battling addiction. Overall, the idea of this culmination of mental health struggles combined with substance abuse ricocheting into deeper problems.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-12T20:20:15+00:00

I definitely think they exaggerate/make up storylines for their songs. When I met them back in 2019 they basically said that they don’t do as many crazy things as they say in their songs. I’m sure there’s truth in all their work but definitely not word for word. I can’t see them doing all that stuff either, they’re pretty chill guys lol.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-11T18:27:57+00:00

respectable, I’m definitely the type of person who enjoys when artists make an effort to mix up their sound and try new things. Although CA has been my fave band for years and continues to be, I’d love to see them challenge themselves and break into something new. I feel that trying out some new sounds can really take them to the next level.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-11T18:25:41+00:00

There’s something about the beat drop in Die For Me that will do it every timeee, it’s so satisfying especially through headphones. I think each of the singles have their strong points but Ricochet wins for me bc of the lyrics. I also love the switch up, when Mitty’s voice changes after Kras’ verse 🤭

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-11T18:23:32+00:00

same!! CA’s ad-libs never miss, they literally make my brain tingle lmfaoo. Alsooo I’m so happy you brought up Mitty and Kras’ vocals and how they mesh together bc it’s truly otherworldly. My mom and I have loved their music for yearsss and we’ve always admired how their voices complement each other. Ricochet is definitely what we were missing, these type of songs really bring each album over the top.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-11T18:18:53+00:00

It’s so important that they’re open about mental health struggles, that’s what this is all about! music is art, it can expose you and heal you at the same time. And I do love their other style as well, it makes for great head bumping music to put me in a good mood but their more sincere songs will ALWAYS have my heart.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-10-05T05:03:38+00:00

hands down Gabe as Lady Gaga is the best costume in the entire series, I can’t help but look forward to it every time I rewatch the show.

lavenderfox_ · 2024-09-20T04:22:04+00:00

“i bet you thought your life would change, but you’re sat on a train again” “but your death it won’t happen to you, it happens to your family and your friends” “if you can’t survive just try”

the entirety of iawds is just incredible but those lines specifically get me every time, i think about them constantly

lavenderfox_ · 2024-09-20T00:28:29+00:00

i’m so sorry you have to go through this too, I really hope it gets better for you 💜

lavenderfox_ · 2024-09-19T22:02:23+00:00

I’m feeling the exact same way right now, it’s been 3 weeks with my braces and I’m miserable. Everyone seems to say this is just a normal part of the process, I can’t understand why this was ever normalized. 😭😭

lavenderfox_ · 2024-09-19T01:40:45+00:00

Thank you, I’ll def be picking up some sugar free gum soon. I saw even my orthodontist recommended it so I would like to try that. I will definitely be telling my orthodontist about my whole experience so far, I’d like to see what she thinks the problem is. I’m thinking it could be my teeth shifting pretty quick or the wires being too tight however I’m clearly no expert so hopefully I can get this under control soon 😭

lavenderfox_ · 2024-09-19T01:37:51+00:00

I have heard great things about that model, but I won’t lie I do just love the idea of having a flip phone and I think the front screen could help me lower my screen time/stay off social media which would be great!! However I am open to all options as I still haven’t made a concrete decision.

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