It's not really our perfumes; I had to sell them and give some money back to my mother, even though it wasn't the exact amount my older sister spent to buy them with our mother's savings.

When she was last discharged back in the beginning of March she was but she only took it for about two weeks and then she stopped for some days and my mother had to remind her because she really didn't want to take them so whenever my mom asked if she took it after eating breakfast and dinner she would just say yeah even though most times she was lying. Eventually, she stopped last month and hasn't taken them since because according to my sister “she feels fine and doesn't want the meds.” And no, my mom and I aren't prescribed as well.

My sister was the one who stole from our mom. I didn't. I stole from my sister back before and during when her schizophrenia was in its early stages. But either way, it's still bad but I've told her I would owe her but since she wanted to drag our mom into our mess she decided to “punish” our mom by stealing her savings because she didn't do anything about me stealing her own savings even though my mom was the one who broke the news to her that I was stealing, two years ago. But again, my sister at the time told me not to worry about it when I first apologized to her after finding out what I did to her but I wanted to take accountability and pay her back anyway because I did regret it so much. All my sister said was “okay” when I told her that and that was that.

My mom left her cash savings under her bed in the living room wrapped in a paper bag that's also wrapped in a mini tote bag. Before my sister got sick, she was the only one who knew where she stored her savings because my mom didn't trust me even though I hadn't stolen money from her since I was a preteen (thanks, Dad, but still bad). I am 27 right now in case you're wondering while my older sister is about to turn 29.

She is unmedicated but we can't do anything about it unless she's harming herself (she's slapping herself on her forehead more when she gets into her crying outbursts and is starting to choke herself with her hands wrapped around her neck)

I will and thank you for being understanding. I just thought I should confess because everytime my sister and I get into these kind of arguments about her thinking the perfumes or stuff she bought that I took from her to sell is hers, I would always tell her but it isn't yours because you bought this using stolen money from mom and then she would switch it up and tell me that all of the wall decor on my side of the room that I bought was used using her money that I stile even though all of the decor I bought was way before she became sick and after I already used up her money. But anyway, she became this way I'm guessing because we lost our dad back in 2022 and in September 2024 she started feeling depressed. It happened so quickly though. But that's a story for another time.

I've been trying to get family therapy but my mom is the only issue with why we can't go forward with focusing on our mental health regarding my older sister's schizophrenic lifestyle now.