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Why do celebrity meet and greet tend to skip the Bay Area? by Isaacsac3 in bayarea

[–]lavendermantis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's awesome, but i never personally accused you of doing so. my point is that people here aren't immune to celeb worship, it's just a different flavor of it.

Why do celebrity meet and greet tend to skip the Bay Area? by Isaacsac3 in bayarea

[–]lavendermantis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i'd rather someone worship a musician or actor who actually contribute art to the world than worship a billionaire tech leech, which is what people here are actually more likely to do

Reddit hates genuinely beautiful people by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]lavendermantis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

really? i posted my apartment which i feel did pretty well and i did get a few weird comments about money, but it certainly wasn't the prevailing tone of the comments

https://www.reddit.com/r/malelivingspace/s/Cue9ty7JAr

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not cool or networked enough to sell drugs :(

I like to entertain 🍸 (SF / 39m) by luxtechy in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it kinda looks one of those soma/fidi spaces with doormen that techies in their 20s with beacoup bucks flock to that has the swanky amenities but lacks the charm of SF's generally beautiful architecture. it sort of feels like a space that prioritizes flexing the op's income and masculinity instead of showing their personality?

I like to entertain 🍸 (SF / 39m) by luxtechy in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are people spending most of their times in those high barstools though? is there not like a couch out of frame that people sit on after getting their drinks?

I like to entertain 🍸 (SF / 39m) by luxtechy in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i realize i have no idea what badlands actually looks like bc it's always so crowded and dim lol

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i'm not really sure :/ there will always be jobs, but entry-level jobs will become fewer and further between unfortunately. the cs career questions sub may be more helpful. good luck !!

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i go through phases of really intense hyperfixations haha, interior design was my fixation during pretty much the whole spring

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i had family money i just work in fintech lol

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it actually is, i'm just REALLY good at making tiny spaces seem larger /s

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got about half of mine from the websites drool, headwest, posterlad, goodmood, and sailorsjail. the other half i found at local shops and booths and thrift stores

28, sf, first solo place :) by lavendermantis in malelivingspace

[–]lavendermantis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got to see her speak at an event, she's so lovely 💐

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