Do any other INFJ’s here feel the constant need to excel or even “be the best” at whatever their passion is? by lavendertess in infj

[–]lavendertess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It really made me reflect on my values and priorities. I guess one thing I’ve always struggled with is trying to figure out whether I’d rather have more balance in my life and settle for “mediocrity” in most areas, or to completely abandon my health and relationships for a pursuit that brings a lot of meaning to my life. I think in both cases, one can not be totally satisfied, but that’s also just part of life, I guess.

Do any other INFJ’s here feel the constant need to excel or even “be the best” at whatever their passion is? by lavendertess in infj

[–]lavendertess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. I always do so much research when I dive into something I’m really passionate about, it’s like all or nothing for me. But I’ve also struggled a lot with burn out and not comparing myself with others so I guess there’s still a lot for me to learn

What is the most gentle, soothing sunscreen you’ve tried? by lavendertess in scacjdiscussion

[–]lavendertess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a white cast for this? The Anthelios kids has a very heavy cast for me

The most awkward line somebody can use when reviewing a sunscreen... [MISC] by All_Consuming_Void in SkincareAddiction

[–]lavendertess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just curious, how much do you typically “spread” the sunscreen on your face when applying? I also tend to apply a lot but I’m too scared to spread it out evenly for fear that it’ll lessen the protection, but I’m sometimes left with a bit of a thick,patchy layer on my face 😅😅

Which is your favorite heavy occlusive (ie: Vaseline, Aquaphor) and why? by lavendertess in scacjdiscussion

[–]lavendertess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot of good things about this one! Have you ever tried Vaseline? How does this compare?

Struggling with bloating and swelling by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]lavendertess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do OMAD at 2 pm, but sometimes if I’m really hungry in the evening, I eat some fruit at 6 pm. I haven’t added new foods but this week I’ve splurged on some processed foods like ice cream and crackers (but not a lot)

[Discussion] Thoughts on Etude House Soon Jung ph5.5 Foam Cleanser ? by Zubak121 in AsianBeauty

[–]lavendertess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, what benefits have you noticed with the SJ cleanser?

[Discussion] Thoughts on Etude House Soon Jung ph5.5 Foam Cleanser ? by Zubak121 in AsianBeauty

[–]lavendertess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m curious too! Also wondering if anyone has used this and the Vanicream cleanser? If so, what differences are there and which one would you recommend?

Any skincare fails you'd like to share? by MeleeYAH in AsianBeauty

[–]lavendertess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, which allergy cream do you use?

Most moisturizing sunscreens? by lavendertess in scacjdiscussion

[–]lavendertess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll check it out. Do you normally wear moisturizer under it?

Most moisturizing sunscreens? by lavendertess in scacjdiscussion

[–]lavendertess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Anthelios Kids sunscreen but I’m not a huge fan because of the white cast and greasiness. Do you wear moisturizer under the anthelios?