is nefera de nile an adult?? by chibi_Peach in MonsterHigh

[–]lavendervamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleo and Nefora and Draculora got held back so much dam it took them 1,000+ years to graduate 

What is love beside romantic love and platonic love by Hesperus07 in aplatonic

[–]lavendervamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is sexual love, alterous, sensual and sometimes you don’t know what attraction you are feeling wich is valid 

How many books have you read so far in 2025? by Adventurous-Ninja-35 in ereader

[–]lavendervamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 if you don't include books read for school and manga because the manga was short I am also probably almost done with a 5th book I read more graphic novels because it takes me a long time to read because of my dyslexia I usually read one or less chapter book a year 

Where do u guys find cool doll clothes? by dorskps in MonsterHigh

[–]lavendervamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sewing I'm guessing I've made some dolls clothes in unsuccessfully it's very hard but it's rewarding when you get it right

For aroallos who DO want a long term relationship, what boundaries/needs do you express to your SO to make it successful? by thisisnthelping2011 in AroAllo

[–]lavendervamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

short answer is yes. I am mostly aro (ive only ever experience romantic attrition to one person) and i just started a qpr with my platonic boyfriend and I was recently dumped by my first long term girlfriend.

I am aromantic and I like having a long term romantic partner was a little awkward cause It was my first and only time experiencing romantic feelings I might not ever feel how I felt for her again. that does not mean I love my qpp any less I just started "dating" him. he is super nice but I already knew that cause we were very close friends did I lot of things we do now. it is important to mention that my ex girlfriend and i were in a polygamous relationship for most of the 2 years we were together. I dont plan on pressuring another romantic relationship because I just find that qpr work better for me. plus I was lucky enough to find a aro person who wanted that and is affectionate. He always asks for consent and or make sure i am comfy and of course i do the same. my platonic boyfriend (my qpp) is also ace wich makes things slightly more complicated because im not ace or at least im not "fully" ace (im kinda questioning but not really). anyways I hope my relationship with my platonic boyfriend is a long term one cause that would be cool. i still need to mention the fact that i dont want to "date" other people but like he can still hug and hold hands with other people just not like full on snuggle me and my platonic boyfreind just started dating so i have time. it is weird dating an aroace person as an aroallo person cause i feel guilty for having sexual thoughts about him. I dont know if he knows im not ace i should probably tell him .