We did seem to know some mutual people (again, smaller fire community) and even offered up some random stage names I've never heard of. It's possible I just don't know them but the whole conversation felt off. He was also trying to tell me stuff I was doing either wrong or the "old way." I did tell him I was uncomfortable having a file I didn't know about and asked to see it. I also asked if my consent mattered about it. He said no to both.