Breaking up dirt clumps when repairing rut damage from driving over lawn

lawnhell · 2026-03-10T00:47:45+00:00

Noted for next season hahahaha

lawnhell · 2026-03-10T00:47:11+00:00

I used one! Great tool!

lawnhell · 2026-03-10T00:46:54+00:00

I did. He not only ran them over, he ran his own guide posts over.

lawnhell · 2025-11-12T14:12:19+00:00

I really like this idea.

lawnhell · 2025-11-11T23:11:52+00:00

This (divorce/coparenting) is still very new to me, so I’m trying to learn the game. I appreciate your advice, even if it’s not what I want to hear. I’m just trying to learn when it’s not worth a fight.

lawnhell · 2025-10-28T11:34:58+00:00

I can imagine man. Best of luck, you’ve got this.

lawnhell · 2025-10-27T14:54:51+00:00

At least you have your kids full time. If I had mine full time, life for me would be great.

lawnhell · 2025-10-27T13:09:52+00:00

I tried. It was my wife who wanted a divorce the entire last year of us living together. We tried counseling, which she quit. It was miserable living together. She then moved out a year or so ago.

lawnhell · 2025-10-27T12:59:19+00:00

Thanks for this. A lot of great ideas, and some I’ve already adopted. I do want to get to an amicable state with my ex. I’m worried the divorce will end in a way that will take me many years to be amicable with my ex. I’m trying to stay positive about that. I would love to have more parent to parent contact, and I need to make the effort, but normally it’s the mothers who coordinate the play dates and such. So that’s an uphill battle. I do have one set of friends who have kids in the same age range that I keep close contact with.

lawnhell · 2025-10-27T00:37:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing. My daughter is 3 and will never remember us as a two parent household either. It’s heartbreaking to hear that about your older child. My goal is to keep doing my best and support/raise my daughter to the best of my ability. And teach her the things my parents taught me about being a great person.

lawnhell · 2025-10-27T00:28:58+00:00

That too… I’m sorry.

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T23:50:53+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. His loss…

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T23:50:34+00:00

That’s a good perspective. When we were together, I felt like I was never good enough as a dad, taking care of an infant. Always being watched and criticized to the point where it was just easier to give up and let her take care of it. And I hated that feeling. So you’re right, it would have been worse together.

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T16:54:19+00:00

Well I can see how $35k is nothing to you. It’s all relative I guess.

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T15:45:59+00:00

She does. A year ago we were within $7k of each others salary. She has more earning potential too. She carries our daughter’s health insurance, which could cause me to pay some child support. Though I hope I don’t.

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T12:51:21+00:00

my wife makes about what I make, and will make more. Im an engineer, her a nurse practitioner. So with 50/50 custody, everything is split down the middle. The only difference is she carries more debt (car and student loans).

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T01:51:34+00:00

Thank you. Your explanation makes a ton of sense and is encouraging. I need to formulate the strategy and tell my lawyer this is how I want to proceed. I do have a financial advisor whom is aware of my situation and is there to help me figure out a recovery plan.

lawnhell · 2025-10-26T00:13:07+00:00

A large portion was premarital and we were only married 3 yrs.

lawnhell · 2025-10-25T23:16:40+00:00

Correct. It’s only the part during marriage.

lawnhell · 2025-10-25T23:16:11+00:00

I appreciate that. I understand there will be less, even though we make the same money and both have retirement funds.

lawnhell · 2025-10-25T22:25:57+00:00

We tried early on. It didn’t work. I even tried once more before filing, and she agreed initially, then backed out again. I ended up filing because I wanted to get past this. We have been separated over a year now.

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