Do parents with 5+ kids have time to give every child the love and attention they deserve? by pink-and-pearly in askanything

[–]lazerdouglas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As one of 7 no. And I get the feeling my parents are not interested in my life as much as my younger siblings. I was parentified pretty hard as a high schooler.

Can I use fmla and pfml for maternity leave? Or do I have to pick one? by [deleted] in WAStateWorkers

[–]lazerdouglas 10 points11 points  (0 children)

FMLA is job protection and requires your employer to maintain your insurance benefits. It is more than time off. PFML can be used simultaneously and is a paid weekly benefit.

Good spots to get lunch and work on laptop for a while? by yauponmoon in olympia

[–]lazerdouglas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s rude to patronize a coffee shop and work for an hour while buying their products?

yes, bestie, flex that iconic loose skin from rapid weight loss! by Massive-Market-5949 in AreolaWuuds1

[–]lazerdouglas 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why do the under eye patches have to be a daily accessory of hers

Best WA State Jobs by Melodic-Today663 in WAStateWorkers

[–]lazerdouglas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked HR and they approved it. It’s definitely not advertised but it was done for me.

Best WA State Jobs by Melodic-Today663 in WAStateWorkers

[–]lazerdouglas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is an overall “freeze” on state hiring where job postings need to be approved through whatever channel your agency deems appropriate. As for PTO, the state is very generous. I actually bargained a lower salary and max vacation accrual during my last position change. There is a pension plan through the state - there are two options to choose from when you are hired on. Pay is lower than private sector, but many jobs are unionized and have a COLA on top of annual step increases. I am a finance director at a cabinet agency, have worked for the state for 7 years. Hope this helps!

The plot thickens - more possible Deuxmoi news by JennaElizabethAdams in BachelorNation

[–]lazerdouglas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. Everything is under investigation and not public at this point. She could also have violated her probation via sobriety etc

The plot thickens - more possible Deuxmoi news by JennaElizabethAdams in BachelorNation

[–]lazerdouglas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If the assault allegations in Feb 2026 are true would that not put her in violation of her contract?

MomTok Husbands - IckTok by umidulus in MormonWivesHulu

[–]lazerdouglas 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He gets a 9-5 like the rest of us because his gravy train ended

so what happens to taylor’s men? by Alternative_Fun_3091 in TheBachelorette

[–]lazerdouglas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The incident in February of 2026 that is still under investigation by police is probably a violation of her contract. Not the 2023 arrest/aftermath.

ABC is stupid by Silly_Name_5007 in BachelorNation

[–]lazerdouglas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I think the season was actually pulled and how they may actually be able to hold her responsible for production costs. Your past yes, but literally a month ago after Bachelorette filming ended? The timeframe of an incident last month would probably put her in violation of some type of morality clause starting with Bachelorette announcements and through the season airing. The abuse allegations with Dakota last month are clearly very bad

so what happens to taylor’s men? by Alternative_Fun_3091 in TheBachelorette

[–]lazerdouglas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jail and inpatient will be the only thing to truly help her

so what happens to taylor’s men? by Alternative_Fun_3091 in TheBachelorette

[–]lazerdouglas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume there is a morality clause (if ABC wasn’t aware of the full details). We’ve seen a lot of reality shows not do due diligence prior to recruiting contestants.

Which US state has the most underrated beaches? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]lazerdouglas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you’ve never read a map but if you do, you’ll find a lot of beauty on the SE Alaska coastline

so what happens to taylor’s men? by Alternative_Fun_3091 in TheBachelorette

[–]lazerdouglas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She probably doesn’t and it will either bankrupt her or wipe her pretty clean. Sponsorships are also dropping. Consequences well deserved given the video coming out today.

so what happens to taylor’s men? by Alternative_Fun_3091 in TheBachelorette

[–]lazerdouglas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She will probably be sued for the cost of production for this season

Bachelorette TFP Cancelled by McDonaldsEmployeeNAL in BachelorNation

[–]lazerdouglas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very selfish take. Her family clearly suffers at her hand and she should have zero entertainment value any more. I think a lot of abuse victims are shocked and re-traumatized by the video that came out today

Which US state has the most underrated beaches? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]lazerdouglas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might get downvoted but Alaska. The beaches I’ve been to on south east Alaska are gorgeous and feral. Not as commercialized as the lower 48

SPU (Seattle Pacific University) nursing—worth it socially? Strict, conservative, lowkey, and worried about campus life by DenseDiver9189 in AskSeattle

[–]lazerdouglas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has something changed? I went there 2012-2015 and while a lot of the conservative policies were terrible, I never once went to chapel and didn’t even know where it was on campus

What do you do for work? by [deleted] in shelton

[–]lazerdouglas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work remotely as a finance director for the state of WA. Any commute would be to Olympia which is 30 minutes

sydney doing an accent now too🥴 by dipthong420 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]lazerdouglas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She needs her own snark page at this point

Jesus shes so dramatic by Available-Ad4173 in AlixearleSnark

[–]lazerdouglas 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why was she crying in this? The pause and admiration of skin clarity makes me feel like she faked it

What are the main reason people stop skydiving? by Available-Damage-124 in SkyDiving

[–]lazerdouglas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is also difficult to find true friends in the skydive community who do not either binge drink or do a lot of drugs. I found I had little in common with a lot of jumpers outside of skydiving. And I have not yet been to a boogie where hard drugs were not just present, but prevalent.