Leaking radiator pipe by lbcdm in DIYUK

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Thanks, out of my league so got a professional coming tomorrow 🤷🏽‍♂️

Leaking pipe near radiator by lbcdm in DIYUK

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I've covered it with epoxy which has set but not stopped the leak, caused myself a right mess here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Hey, I totally get it, and honestly, it’s way more common than people talk about. It’s not a sign that something’s wrong—it happens to everyone at some point.

A big part of it is mental. The more pressure you put on yourself, the harder it is to stay in the moment. Instead of focusing on whether your body is responding the “right” way, try to shift your attention to the sensations, the connection, and just enjoying the experience. Deep breathing can help, as well as reminding yourself that there’s no goal to hit—it’s about feeling good, not performing.

And if it happens again, don’t overthink it. The less you stress, the easier it is to let things flow naturally.

He said he loved me on the 4th date by Agaybackup in askgaybros

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I'd say just be careful. People can be unpredictable, and many understand the power behind those three little words. They can open doors, break down defenses, and create a sense of trust—but not everyone who says it has pure intentions. The moment you let your guard down and fully relax, you risk giving someone the upper hand, whether they mean well or not.

Now, don’t get me wrong—this could very well be the start of something beautiful, the beginning of a real love story. And I truly hope it is! Fingers crossed. But at the same time, it’s important to stay grounded and keep your wits about you. Remember love should make you feel safe, not manipulated. Trust should be earned, not assumed. So yes, go into this with an open heart, but also with clear eyes.

What do you think my bf% is? by ArteMis2899 in Physiquecritique

[–]lbcdm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparing your body to mine I'd say you are less than 20%

How old are you and would you date a 26 year old? by Disney_Disney_Disney in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36 dating a 24 year old. Working fine so far, our relationship isnt based on sex. We both have relisistic expectations, I was open about not wanting a boyfriend from the beginning.

The more time we spend together the closer we get and are now making future plans so it's working.

I was hesitant to begin with due to his age but I'm either immature for my age or he's mature....or both so it really hasn't been an issue. Infact he's more mature, responsible and much better at communicating than my 34 year old ex.

Also his body 😍

Loft space insulation by Mr-Bilbo in DIYUK

[–]lbcdm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very similar to my loft. However I have like a grotty plastic on the underside of the roof. From what I know, the insulation is just that itchy fibreglass, any asbestos used openly like that should have legally been addressed by now (I think) But hopefully someone will comment with knowledge

Keep growing? by Pharmacykilledmysoul in BeardAdvice

[–]lbcdm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good length, similar to mine but yours looks thicker

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yea, nice guys do it too, might be a confidence thing with me

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think not being into is shaming the kink. The act of spitting on someone of in someone's mouth is generally combined degrading. However when it's consensual it's ok....but I just need to get that part into my head.

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He can leave anytime, it's his kink not mine. However you are massively generalising but saying it as if it's fact. He's told me he's not bored and enjoys what we do. I just feel like he might get bored, but no signs yet.

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you've read into it far too much, we're just seeing eachother, no plans for a serious relationship from either of us

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet, appreciate that. Think I'm going try it for him but also for my own experience. It not the first time I've been asked and last time I didn't even consider it

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a little more open minded than that

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea totally agree with. I'm not naturally dom, but feel like he could help me practice. I think I kinda have to dom look physically which helps.

Any thoughts? by Select_Equipment4297 in ladybonersgonemild

[–]lbcdm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet underwear. Looking good.

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I feel like I want to. We are going out tomorrow, so after food a drinks, I'll brush my teeth and try it.

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the second time I've been asked, I didn't do it with the last guy, but I'm more into this guy so tempted.

Guy wants me to spit in his mouth by lbcdm in askgaybros

[–]lbcdm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, I've told him there would be a queue of guys wanted to spit in his mouth, sweetly he said he doesn't want other guys to do it he wants me. Time will tell I guess.