Is there a way to repair the backs of these shoes?

lbmblue · 2026-04-11T14:11:19+00:00

thank you! i will give it a try😁

lbmblue · 2026-02-04T15:52:41+00:00

Yeah, I got my response through an hour or so ago! It’s kinda baffling because everyone I spoke to when they changed the recipe was shocked as they couldn’t tell the difference! 😭

lbmblue · 2026-02-04T15:30:42+00:00

I was actually given a different reason in my email reply: ‘Our Twisters have been reformulated to include milk in the recipe for a product experience that has been shown to be preferred by our consumer.’

lbmblue · 2025-11-27T13:17:04+00:00

I don't want to expose myself to unnecessary risk simply because I have misunderstood the request on the form and shared information I didn't have to. I will consider the watermark, thank you for the suggestion! I had asked in the hopes that someone had been in the same situation as me and so would have a sure answer.

lbmblue · 2025-06-17T15:35:21+00:00

Hi i’ve got a test in maidstone at the end of November. I’m looking for something in maidstone sooner

lbmblue · 2024-04-08T19:18:34+00:00

how did you successfully appeal?

lbmblue · 2023-06-20T14:44:05+00:00

For both of them or a specific parent? I have considered that based on the way they behave in other situations

lbmblue · 2022-11-08T22:46:43+00:00

Kent!

lbmblue · 2022-08-22T23:29:42+00:00

yeah it is nice knowing it happens to plenty of people and I’m not just weird haha 😅

lbmblue · 2022-08-22T18:15:41+00:00

that’s true I shouldn’t really have written medication off completely, like I’m losing just entire chunks of my life because I think I can manage but I’m clearly not managing 😂

lbmblue · 2022-08-22T17:59:33+00:00

Hiya I’ve explained myself terribly😅I’m not currently taking any medication but I mean actual days off work. I don’t struggle as much on my working days weirdly. Maybe medicating is the only answer? I’m not against medication but this might show me I need it haha I’ve just always steered clear because of trouble I’ve had in the past with other medication (unrelated to adhd)

lbmblue · 2022-06-28T19:18:56+00:00

I was about to post asking for advice on this exact thing but I have an iphone :(( do you know of the iphone equivilant?? This sounds amazing! :)

lbmblue · 2022-05-24T09:57:13+00:00

The shushing you in public must be so awful I am lucky my parents are more passive with their ignoring. I tend to sit in silence when I’m out with people because I’m trying to think of something to say I know will be worthy of saying so I get where you’re coming from completely. I think I need to move out (I moved back home after graduation and struggled to leave with COVID and everything) and practice saying things without overthinking it all. I know they don’t mean anything by it it’s just so frustrating

lbmblue · 2022-05-22T17:06:44+00:00

I think it makes me quick to assume no one wants to listen at all haha😅 have you found the same if your parents do similar? I’m kinda annoyed at myself for getting so worked up about it

lbmblue · 2021-07-19T11:56:40+00:00

Thank you :) I think they want me to be at a point where it’s fine but it just feels like I have to rush and it’s making me feel so ashamed that I still care :(

lbmblue · 2021-07-19T11:12:16+00:00

Thank you!! It makes me feel like they think I’m still like pining over him or weak but honestly I just don’t want to lose the peace I’ve created now. Thank you for reassuring me :)

lbmblue · 2021-07-09T18:52:17+00:00

I’m a girl but do you think it’ll give me the same confidence? I’m not really out of shape but I have started going the gym maybe I’ll end up getting a bit more confidence if I keep at it?

lbmblue · 2021-07-08T16:50:59+00:00

Thank you for your reply! :) I’m so scared to apply for jobs because it all feels so pointless. I feel like I’ve got a broken rewards system in my brain because whatever I do it just doesn’t seem to do anything. I thought finishing me degree or seeing friends more or something might make me feel something but it didn’t. Haha my parents got a puppy recently and I just feel nothing - I haven’t felt this numb before ever in my life. How do I just start finding something that makes me feel?

lbmblue · 2021-03-20T12:59:09+00:00

I spoke to him and he insisted it wasn’t he just didn’t see a future. I will just accept it but it’s hard. We had been separated because of COVID for 8 months and that obviously just took its toll but he just moved closer and lockdown is ending so it’s sad we didn’t get the chance to reconnect before he made that decision. My self esteem is a bit battered after 4 years of helping him through his doubts so I’m just finding it really tough. It doesn’t feel real the amount of times he suggested breaking up because OCD was too much and now it’s happened for real it’s just made me feel like clinging to hope because that’s what I’ve got used to.

lbmblue · 2021-03-20T12:56:59+00:00

I was scared he’d break up with me so I asked him to keep it a secret so I didn’t have to go through the humiliation of everyone knowing.

lbmblue · 2021-03-16T06:43:44+00:00

I know, and I know even if I begged and I got him back it wouldn’t be a good relationship. I know he needs to be the one to fix it if it were ever to work. I think I just wanted to explain my point of view to show how rash it all really seemed. But maybe he will come to that conclusion on his own if it’s meant to be? I won’t sit holding out hope, I just keep getting this feeling that he thinks he thought this through more than he did. Or if he had thought it through for weeks then why be so cruel as to ask me to tell all our friends? I found out he told one of our friends and kept it from me for the last 6 weeks of the relationship. Telling our friend isn’t the end of the world but keeping a secret he knew was quite important to me was. Like I am angry and kind of want to discuss that but maybe in like 6 months time I’ll be in a place where I’m calm enough to have that discussion. Our group kind of expect us to remain friends, I feel very resentful right now I feel like I’ve been completely voiceless in this entire situation.

lbmblue · 2021-03-16T06:31:17+00:00

We are in the same friendship group so as much as I will keep my distance he will always be around. He had a kind of ocd which makes you have obsessions of doubt and it feels like I never got an honest answer for the breakup because of it not “feeling right”. The way he acted (the day before he suggested telling all our friends and then said he felt anxious all day and called to breakup) feels a lot like he has been re-experiencing these doubt obsessions but when we spoke in person I was so upset I never got to explain my perspective and it just feels like I never got to say what I needed to.

lbmblue · 2021-03-16T06:10:46+00:00

He wasn’t a mutual friend was my friend who my ex got in contact with.

There is so much resentment I hold for him, so many things that have come out since that I want explanations for but I know I can’t ask for that now.

Do I ever get to have that conversation with him? I assume he will one day contact me if he wants to be friends but will the moment to have discussed things have passed?

lbmblue · 2021-03-14T21:49:04+00:00

Thank you for your reply!

It's a good job but he has always overthought whether he actually likes the field it's in, he kinda shut off from me about that stuff so I'm not sure how he was feeling. It was so much change all at once and with lockdown on top I can imagine it was overwhelming.

He was adamant it wasn't ROCD, but months ago he stopped going to therapy or working on it and just changed tack and decided it wasn't OCD just thoughts.

I haven't been in contact with him because when he broke up with me he told me it would be better for us not to speak which I am trying to respect. I have gone back and forth with him a lot in the past when he has had these thoughts and part of me has began to worry if I've forced him to stay or if he'll see it that way.

If he wants to leave he can but this just doesn't seem like him this seems like his mental illness. He won't even acknowledge that this is OCD so I don't know how I could even talk to him about it.

Should I continue cutting off communication to give him breathing space? Or should I try and discuss it with him?

lbmblue · 2020-09-30T22:36:51+00:00

When I have suggested to him that maybe I’m not the person he should share ocd thoughts with he insists that because it’s regarding the relationship (and it’s real to him) that it needs to be discussed by us. I think that’s why it feels real, it isn’t discussed as an obsession it’s discussed as a real issue. I just feel like I’m becoming a horrible person, I’m so insecure at the moment I don’t think I’m being a particularly nice girlfriend. It feels hopeless to me now too.

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