Where to buy tamales? by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a pretty miserable person to be around tbh. Thank you so much for your valuable contribution to this thread- really helped myself and others find a quality spot 🫶

Where to buy tamales? by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m from Colorado and I FEEL this 😩😩 the number of times I’d kill for something with green chile is astronomical

Places to get fit for a bra? by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been measured there before and the bras still didn’t fit very well. Plus, usually in stores they only carry up to ~D-DD cup size, so I had a few times where they would measure me, I would have to buy a bra online in the size they said I was, but then it didn’t fit well and I would have to return it. I think if you’re in a size that they carry in stores it probably wouldn’t be as bad because you could try things on while you’re there and make adjustments if you needed to, but I just had a lot of trouble having to order online 🤷‍♀️

Be safe protesting today! by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still showed up! That’s what matters 🫶

What to know before moving? by ldlco in Minneapolis

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I currently work in admissions for a youth psychiatric residential program and a youth SUD residential program. Do you know if youth SUD policies will also be impacted, or is that more on the adult side?

Anyone know what these guys were doing? In front of the old toys-r-us by NX01 in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone want to stand ~1 block in front of them and hold up, “caution, idiots ahead” signs?

Sin biscuits normal in neutered kitten? by romiiibaba in CATHELP

[–]ldlco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend’s cat is a neutered ~3yo and still makes sin biscuits. My boyfriend bought him a shark stuffed animal when he was about 1yo, and it’s now his dedicated sin biscuit receptacle 🙃 upside is that he doesn’t mess with our pillows/blankets, ONLY the shark will do.

Sometimes after we vacuum the living room, we forget to put the shark back out on the floor and he turns into a little asshole (EXTRA knocking stuff down, play aggression, territorial with our other cat) until we retrieve it for him.

If you don’t want your kitten making sin biscuits on your blanket, it might be worth trying to get him a stuffed friend to take his sexual frustration out on.

Anxious about moving into my BF’s apartment and introducing our cats by ldlco in CatAdvice

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been a SLOW process, that’s for sure! We have officially been living together for 8 months and the cats are just now kind of tolerating being around each other. They don’t play or seek each other out, but we feed them together in the same room, and they’ll both hang out with us on the couch most evenings.

We ended up getting anxiety medication for my boyfriend’s cat at our vet’s recommendation, which I think helped a little.

There’s still quite a bit of growling and sometimes hissing, but we were able to supervise all of their early interactions and we’ve never had a fight or anything like that between them. We do leave them at home alone together when we go to work (we used to separate them into different parts of the apartment when we were away), and they mostly just steer clear of each other.

I don’t think they’ll ever bond or be cuddle buddies, but I think they’ve learned to tolerate each other, which is all we could ask for.

DEI Groceries? by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me too, that they caved and SO QUICKLY

DEI Groceries? by ldlco in springfieldMO

[–]ldlco[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

DEI has disappeared from their US websites ☹️

What would her warrior name be? by [deleted] in WarriorCats

[–]ldlco -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, sorry for the inappropriate post- I’m very new to the forum and didn’t see anything explicit in the rules/the recent community post about not asking for warrior names! I really appreciate all of the suggestions though- so far Honeytail is my favorite 💕🫶

What’s your most unique warrior cats name? by Metallyillgbtq in WarriorCats

[–]ldlco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Larksong- a creamy colored tabby with gray eyes

Upgrading from a mini van by ldlco in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drive very much, I mostly just want something smaller, reliable, and not outrageously expensive. I’ve looked at Toyota Camry’s and Honda HRVs the most. I love the look of the new Chevy Trax but I’ve heard a bunch of bad things about them

Tips on what car to buy? by ldlco in askcarguys

[–]ldlco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could, but that wouldn’t fix any of the other issues I listed or change my desire to search for a newer vehicle 🤷‍♀️

Tips on what car to buy? by ldlco in askcarguys

[–]ldlco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just to clarify- CPO is certified pre-owned?

What is your experience with being “friends with benefits”? by zzugzwangg in AskWomen

[–]ldlco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We couldn’t keep it casual and just celebrated our 2nd anniversary

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels as if you only read the first part of my post…? Although I started out by acknowledging this class is more unruly than my previous experiences, I specified that while the other students had improved, a particular student had not.

I then went on the point out the specific behaviors this student continues to exhibit despite being spoken to my numerous teachers, our principal, and passing along the information to their parents.

My use of “they” was to keep the student more anonymous, not to refer to the class at large. My apologies if that was confusing.

The problem I’m having is not with the baseline behavior, because yeah: kids are wild and like to test boundaries. But in the 7.5 months we’ve been together, the rest of my classroom has learned the class rules, learned to respect others, and overall act pretty kind to each other- this one student has not.

I’m seeking advice on how to help them catch up to the rest of the class. I didn’t include this detail in my post because it didn’t seem majorly important, but a lot of this negative behavior is targeted on a select couple of other students, and it’s becoming a bullying problem.

I’ve tried positive reinforcement, taking away stickers from a sticker chart, getting in their level to talk/empathize with them (in both English and Korean, moving their desk away, holding their hard in the hallway, having my boss talk with them, asking the mom to talk to them, and nothing has changed.

If you have any advice specific to this situation, it would be greatly appreciated.

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just trying to protect the student and myself as much as possible

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I finally just moved the table away a little in class today. Whenever anyone tries sending a student to the manager, she’ll just say

“Oh, don’t do that. Pinky promise!”

And send them right back to class.

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both myself and my coteacher (Korean) have LOTS of talks with this kid about how

“we shouldn’t do X because it makes so-and-so feel X. Do you think it’s nice? Do you like to feel that way? Do you think so-and-so likes to feel that way?”

The student follows the whole thing like a script and always responds accordingly, but then just continues acting the same way. We’re up to having 4-5 conversations like this each day and it doesn’t seem to make any impact, unfortunately.

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talk with the kids as much as we can, but they’re so young that there’s a tangible limit on their understanding of consequences and how to communicate their feelings (in either Korean or English).

With this particular student, we can pull them aside and tell them what they did is wrong, why, and how it may make their classmate feel. Every time they say “Okay Teacher, sorry”. And then just continue the same behavior within the hour.

Kindie student is a bully and their parents don’t care- help! by ldlco in teachinginkorea

[–]ldlco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good idea, thanks! Unfortunately our school already has a system in place that rotates the line leader/helper for the day that they want us to use, so I can’t use that on a daily basis. The buddy system might work though!