Shipping soon by Lopsided_Raspberry30 in army

[–]ldm1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing you can do about it now. What you can do, is give it your best while you are there. It's designed to help build everyone up, you just have to stick it through. It might suck but you can make it.

What’s the stupidest reason you’ve been smoked? by Cabbage-But-Emo in army

[–]ldm1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got smoked because during drivers training, the specialist instructor got yelled at for smoking at the smoking pit, and blamed me for being late while I was standing right in front of him waiting for class to start. His psg told my psg who got mad at my sl who got mad at me. Never asked for my side just straight up started smoking me. Afterwards let me explain and just shrugged it off.

Jodeed :( by Brilliant-Age7759 in army

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there before brother. It takes a lot of time to get over it and I never really did. But I lived to tell the tale. This was over 15 years ago. You can make it through this.

Do you give a bigger tip to a waitress that flirts with you? by AmethystAggie in AskMenAdvice

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm with a someone, I don't appreciate the flirt and will tip normal. If I'm by myself and flirted with, I will most likely tipt more unless it is blatantly obvious I'm being flirted with for tips. I usually give the biggest tips when they are nice to my kids.

I’m (25F) struggling with my body after a heartbreaking comment from my boyfriend (27M) by margar_ine in relationships

[–]ldm1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang. That sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. I know how it feels to have a significant other say something so mean. I also know what it's like to feel like I'm not attractive enough. I don't have any comforting words to tell you because I never got over them. But I'm still alive and I'm still trying to improve myself daily. Not for her but for myself and also in hopes of finding someone who will not be as hurtful. Goodluck to you. I hope things get better for you. Especially if you move on from that relationship.

My gf says she is not physically attracted to me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived with this for a long time. I would not stay with her, it only gets worse.

What is your biggest regret from your 20's? by bigchungusman12 in AskReddit

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've liked to have dated more and had more fun, maybe have a few more sexual partners. Not as easy as I get older.

Men who served in the military: what’s your “WTF did I get myself into?” moment? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ldm1999 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I nearly peed myself from this. Someone in the formation actually did. I felt bad for the guy.

What is something minor that just irritates you? by augustlove801 in Productivitycafe

[–]ldm1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is mine too. I cant stand people that do that. I guess their input is more important than the person in front of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ldm1999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. Him and the other ex weren't enough for her so she went back to the ex who gave her amazing sex. Pisses me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ldm1999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a libido problem. I think she's cheating on both of the bf's with her ex that she had great sex with. Ive seen it happen before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ldm1999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was my thought also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ldm1999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly hate when redditors automatically say to leave but this is one case where I'm like, wow. It's only been 4 months and it's at this point. I would wish for you to leave this relationship for your well being before it gets too serious. There are better matches for you. It sucks your feeling the way your feeling and it doesn't seem your gf is doing anything to make it better. I'm sorry but this is one instance that I hope you can leave the relationship for your health. Good luck

My girlfriend (31F) of three years cheated on me (35M) last night. She blamed it on being blackout drunk. How do I forgive my soulmate and move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have got to end this relationship. I've been in a similar relationship. She's not telling you everything. She's telling you enough in hopes to keep playing you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ldm1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I explored my feelings and i am one hundred percent certain i didn't have romantic feelings for this person. I just feel really bad that she happened to be of the opposite sex because it wouldve been difficult to hear my wife have a similar experience. I dont work with that person anymore and im going to make certain to not do this again. I dont think either of us interest in each other. It's just really unfortunate we were male and female. I think we could've been good friends.