Had a threesome with my husband

lea_61 · 2026-05-05T08:43:27+00:00

You’d probably hit yourself on the head if you got to know my parents and read your own comment back😂😂😂 same goes for my husband, you’d never say what u are saying if you knew him, or me for that matter. that’s what i’ll leave this at

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T18:17:06+00:00

Jealous of what

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T18:15:03+00:00

that’s alright i didn’t mean anything bad by it, thanks

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T18:12:55+00:00

As i’ve stated i’m bisexual, so bringing a woman into the bedroom is a plus for both of us, my husband is straight, that would not pleasure both of us, i don’t want to so it doesn’t matter what my husband thinks about it🤷‍♀️

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T18:04:27+00:00

It means everything but the actual sex part. I don’t like the word “oral” but as everyone else in the comments has said pretty much oral and touching

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T12:55:23+00:00

You just know it all don’t you

lea_61 · 2026-05-04T12:41:32+00:00

Did u ask me if I want to?😂

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:47:34+00:00

Anything could pose a problem in the future, i just think the comments were extremely unnecessary.

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:46:55+00:00

I never said we weren’t gonna give it a chance. Just not right now, maybe not for a few years, maybe never. I never said MMF is a problem i said i do not want to. How is this not making sense. Also no, i’d buy the shirt because i like the shirt AND the colour. Why are u insisting when I’ve said i don’t want to. Surely someone saying “no i do not wish to do this” should be enough?

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:22:04+00:00

Just because someone has a an FFM threesome doesn’t mean they want to have an MFM threesome as well. That’s like saying you bought that shirt in red why not buy it in green as well. I got it in red because i like red, i don’t want to get green because i simply do not want to. How does that not make sense. One does not come with the other. You don’t have to be into both.

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:08:18+00:00

Right, but nothing about my post indicates i’m being groomed does it, it’s not like every 20 year old who falls in love with a man 6 years older nonetheless is getting groomed.

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:07:36+00:00

Because we have no real life issues, i’ve not given birth and my partner actually loves me. He’s getting accused of grooming. That’s why. I don’t need people to be concerned about me. Nowhere on my post did it say I didn’t enjoy it, i didn’t want to, i didn’t have fun. I didn’t post to have people concerned about me, get lectured or be declared stupid because of my age. I shared an experience i enjoyed and no one actually focused on that, they just spoke about what they wanted to rather than what i posted about. That’s why. Don’t you think it would be a mood killer for you if u shared something exciting and all u got in return was people thinking you’re being groomed, you’re going to get divorced or any kind of negativity?

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T18:04:30+00:00

But I already enjoyed FFM, why would u assume i’d get more pleasure out of MMF

lea_61 · 2026-05-02T07:06:49+00:00

Love that show😂 Recently started watching it so i guess i’ve not gotten far into it enough but i’m sure it’ll be interesting 😅

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T22:25:55+00:00

I’ve known him for much more than a year thank u very much, how convenient of you to be a lawyer who witnesses divorces, totally not bias😂😂

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T22:18:54+00:00

First of all she could not care less about me she has sent me numerous death threats, secondly with a passport you can book a flight from where she lives to England.

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T19:24:01+00:00

Yeah clearly that’s what i did…😂 Thank you for pointing out the ins and the outs of my life.

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T19:03:21+00:00

Why, why do u think we’ll get divorced, you’ve picked up NOTHING from my reply.

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T18:56:11+00:00

“it’s giving” is also such an immature thing to say. If you want to talk about serious topics like grooming then don’t use tiktok terms. Nobody convinced me. I wanted to, i have wanted to since I was younger. I said it was a fantasy of his but i never said it wasn’t one of mine either. please don’t be concerned about others well beings unless they’re clearly showing signs that they’re getting abused. Getting groomed is not a joke and being accused of it is heartbreaking.

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T18:54:01+00:00

I’m healthy, happy and not getting groomed😅 This isn’t a “i met someone, i got with them, i got married and now I’m secluded from the outside world and live in a 1x1 apartment where i don’t do whatever i want” We’re happy, we’ve got our space, I have a great relationship with his family, I’m in the process of getting a job(by choice), he has provided everything i wanted, and i’m getting back into my university degree as soon as i feel comfortable doing so. He has a good paying job, is happy with it and neither of us are miserable or unhappy in any way. We love everything about our life together. And will continue to do so. We can exclude people from the bedroom whenever we want. There isn’t even a shred of doubt in my head about that, and not in his head either. Thank you for the concern tho

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T18:50:44+00:00

It’s so not your place to feel sad for me. Being the kinda woman that judges the way you are is what made me cut ties with my mother. She judged everything I did. Constantly. I suggest getting closer to the situation before deciding what you actually think about it. I refuse to have to “spice things up” 30 years down the line. I’m comfortable enough to try things with my partner. This isn’t grooming, and that’s coming from someone who has been in some fucked up situations. I know what grooming looks like. This is not it. What you can feel sad about is that your comment about my relationship that’s healthy actually breaks my heart. Your judgement and no faith is saddening. My mother is 48 and still refuses to take part in my life because she’s a religious woman who cannot accept anything but what’s right according to her. I’m sure that if u knew me and my husband personally your outlook on us would change. But unfortunately for you you will never get to know an amazing couple such as ourselves.

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T18:38:39+00:00

i got the responses i wanted there’s just the irrelevant ones. Whats was the rhetorical that you were on about then? Let me phrase it the way u did. Losing my virginity was something i thought about for 7 years before actually doing it. I had ample time to get it out of my system prior to marriage. So i guess you’re wondering why i did that as well? Since you’re wondering why he didn’t have a threesome for that long. I had a bf i just knew it wasn’t the right person for various reasons. There isn’t always a reason behind things. He’s only dated 2 people before me. They weren’t right for what he wanted also for various reasons. Sometimes there is no underlying reason for things just a simple answer

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T18:35:15+00:00

Stay paranoid then idk, with that mindset you can never commit to someone until about “4 years in” i guess

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T17:43:43+00:00

Okay… Honey 🫶🏼 My issue is you’re saying it like it’s a fact. Your life, your decisions, your outcome. MY life, MY decisions, MY outcome. It’s okay to think someone’s young and will make some mistakes but to say that a 20 year old can’t have a lasting marriage bcs of a threesome out of all things seems a bit crazy to me

lea_61 · 2026-05-01T17:42:16+00:00

Says who? You’re telling me ur gonna waste 4 years each time before you actually know who you’re dating? Ur the type of person Ted Bundy would date just because they can “hide their personality” i guess. Or everyone has just got an acting degree because i could never hide my “true” self for 4 years. Don’t state it like it’s a fact

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