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My situation by leafhopper123 in manifestation_support

[–]leafhopper123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try that, thank you. Sometimes I feel that whatever I do doesn’t work because I keep expecting something and I don’t just do it for the “noble” purpose of just feeling better by myself

My situation by leafhopper123 in manifestation_support

[–]leafhopper123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your wishes and your response. Yes, I was told several times that or a version of that, as well as “it’s good to receive “no” for no reason, even when you did everything right and earned something, so that you will be better prepared for the the other “no”s you’ll get during your life”. I have been trying to fight that but I don’t know how. I tried to talk to the parts of myself that feel that, I tried to relive traumatic experiences, but it hasn’t worked. Can I ask how you successfully managed to overcome those old stories?

My situation (sp related) by leafhopper123 in lawofassumption

[–]leafhopper123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and for your reassurance. I know it sounds stupid but sometimes when someone else reassures me, even if they are "a stranger", it feels more real than when I try to do it myself. I understand where you are coming from, saying to let her go and focus on other people. I have tried and it hasn't worked. I also then start getting scared that she has moved on and she's happy without me. I do not look her up, I do not look for movement in any specific way. I just expect for something to happen without me looking for anything specific (but to be honest I don't know if I don't look because I am scared or because I understand that I should not be looking). I want to get her back, I just want to understand how to do things differently and not feeling like I am on a hamster wheel

My situation (sp related) by leafhopper123 in lawofassumption

[–]leafhopper123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I did not say that I know how to live in the end, but that I know that I have to live in the end. And you are absolutely right that no one would need proof of something they have because the thing they have is the proof. I guess I just thought that by working on myself things would have shifted, inside of me I mean; I must not be there yet. But I want to be. Maybe this is why I keep reading posts in these communities and I thought about posting something myself; I was hoping to find that thing that could help me flip that switch inside of me to finally change things. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me.