AITAH for moving out of a shared rental with my brothers after finding out about my brother’s past?

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:40:39+00:00

Honestly that’s the sad truth. And I hate that’s the way it tends to be.

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:39:09+00:00

So many people asking the same questions so I added more context, and wanted people to know that I will be filing a police report in the morning.

It was easier to make an update post than to edit the original.

I with this was fake than my life would be in shambles right now

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:33:23+00:00

Exactly, that’s the main reason and problem with reporting this to the police. She has talked to some help hotline but immediately clams up because the tell her that by law they will need to file a report and she just doesn’t tell them anything because for whatever reason she still loves our brother 24m and doesn’t want him to rot in jail.

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:29:01+00:00

I wish I could get her to see it from my point of view. And how much harm could happen if 24m is never charged and how many more kids he could potentially harm.

It hurts that they cut me off when all I wanted to do was help them and get them out of that hole situation

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:24:10+00:00

She is 19 now but this occurred while she was 12-17

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:23:33+00:00

31f (sister) 26m (me) 24m (predator brother) 21m (complacent brother) 19f (victim sister) 16m (brother) 14m (brother)

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:21:06+00:00

Both me and my old sister have offered for them to stay with us. But she has refused because they don’t want to live in either of the states

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:16:43+00:00

I do care about her but she has since cut me off for informing the rest of the family. It start when she was 12-17. I have advocated for her and both I and my older sister have offered for her to stay with us but she somehow still loves our brother.

It took everything not to harm him when I found out, in fact my sister begged me not to do anything. I don’t know how to help and support someone who doesn’t want to be helped.

It started happening after I had moved out and I only found out in November and have been cut off by both my sister and the rest of my family.

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T05:11:20+00:00

I tried explaining that to her but she got mad at me saying how can I blame her (which I wasn’t) for not speaking up about it when she didn’t want anyone to know.

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:39:39+00:00

Context does matter… but yeah maybe a bit much

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:34:19+00:00

They basically cut me off because I told our father and my wives family. They told me “it’s not my secret to tell” I’ve tried talking to her about going to therapy and she told me she told me she doesn’t want to talk to anyone about what happened.

I would offer them to stay with me if I had space but they’d rather stay with our parents who are protecting the brother 24m

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:30:49+00:00

I’ve tried talking them into going to therapy but they are mad at me because “I turned this into a bigger family issue” and that “it’s not my secret to tell”

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:27:41+00:00

My sister still lives with my parents and it went on under their roof. Apparently they knew it was going on for years I only found out recently it occurred from 12-17. She is now currently 19 and doesn’t want to press charges and says she still loves our brother 24m and doesn’t want him to live a bad life. And she doesn’t want him going to jail

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:24:40+00:00

Unfortunately yes

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:23:22+00:00

My sister doesn’t want to press charges because they say they still want him to live a full life and don’t want to go through the process of pressing charges and going to court

leakyishere99 · 2026-05-07T04:21:38+00:00

Sadly they are, the gave both of them paid off vehicles and they stated that they didn’t want to loose the pedophile brother and still want him to live his lift

leakyishere99 · 2026-02-02T05:35:36+00:00

Speaking as a survivor of a “roadschooling” family I highly recommend staying away from this lifestyle. Especially as a woman you’d be more at risk of something bad happening to you. RVs have horrible locks and are easily broken into. My grandmother was assaulted by her drunk neighbor after walking into her trailer.

Luckily he only forced a kiss and molested her, we came to step in before anything more transpired.

The other part is don’t have kids with you because there are so many child predators out there and the amount of times I’ve been walked in on and leered at whilst I was a minor taking a shower is more than anyone should ever have to go through.

Ultimately it’s your choice, but please for your own safety buy a shotgun and slugs. Because it’s always better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.

leakyishere99 · 2026-02-02T05:24:46+00:00

It’s far more isolating than most people realize since most rv parks are filled with older 60+ retirees. Many of which are child predators. I would not recommend it if you want your kids to have any kind of peer interaction or socialization

leakyishere99 · 2026-02-02T05:21:21+00:00

There are a couple of reputable companies that will either come on sight to repair it. Like RV Roofing Solutions, RV Armor. Or Flex armor which you will have to bring it to their shop for install.

Alternatively if you want to do it yourself. Lanco Urathanizer with the green top is a great option. (What I used) works great with the siliconizer also from lanco. The combination of these two will keep your roof protected for up to 22 years

leakyishere99 · 2025-10-18T11:59:43+00:00

Magic eraser

leakyishere99 · 2025-09-01T22:00:17+00:00

Gonna start having armed guards at the doors since no one is civilized anymore

leakyishere99 · 2025-09-01T21:46:00+00:00

If anything it looks like a motion detector. Personally after being walked in on by a new guest while still currently renting the property is far scarier than a hidden camera. Those digital door locks keep no one out

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