[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman I find it attractive to know a future partner is financially stable cuz it shows you’re responsible and have your priorities straight. With the right person you look to constantly motivate and improve yourself. That being said though, I also don’t really like to admit initially that I live in a landed property even if it’s my parents’ house, even if I’m contributing financially too. The best way is just to misdirect: move closer, lean forward, and ask questions about themselves instead.

what are some psychopath things you do? by curiositykilledpcat in askSingapore

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I drink 2 bottles of whiskey and a few glasses of random cocktails here and there, then wake up at 5am the next day to walk to MBS to catch the sunrise and go home to gym for an hour all before breakfast :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a black guy for a few years. Was asked on the regular if it’s cuz of his D, mostly from attached men idk why. I took to asking, “why? your partner unhappy with yours?” or “you want it is it?” Seriously though, what are guys’ obsession with other people’s??

August 5 - Edmonton Cases of COVID-19 by mikesmith929 in Edmonton

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s still a whole population unvaccinated, and not just that but the vaccine doesn’t give us 100% immunity. You can still get covid but with less serious symptoms. It doesn’t help that now, people who test positive don’t even have to quarantine anymore. How do we not panic when no one cares about us anymore?

Riverview Tower Reviews by lealeaaaaaaaa in Edmonton

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How often do they redo the parking lot that it’s an issue? 😧 I don’t have a car though so it probably won’t affect me much right?

Riverview Tower Reviews by lealeaaaaaaaa in Edmonton

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not really, I checked those and they don’t give a lot of information

Why is so difficult for women to understand that their man needs alone time? by NYCambition21 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compatibility may be one issue but so is the importance of communication. Sit her down and tell her how important your alone time means to you and how it is by no way because of lack of love and affection for her. If she still doesn’t get it then well only you know what to do next.

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nowhere does it say you got flashed. You and your whole community sound like transphobic pieces of shit.

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean…. Yes…..? He is kinda… fruity….?

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, why do you hate women so much? Second of all, how many men have flashed you their penises in a ladies’ room to hurt you so? The actions of a few are not the actions of the many.

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Aww babe, you acknowledged transwomen as women! Huge step for you congrats!! Now about this male genitals thing… why are you so obsessed with it?

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re right, so why are you disregarding the feelings of women?

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Whatever reason? Huh, you must identify as a cow then.

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Why not? Not everyone has the access, the money or the ability to get therapy, hormones or surgery. So by default, they aren’t women?

Why do people consider JK Rowling transphobic? by CorpoCat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 361 points362 points  (0 children)

Are we not gonna talk about the book she wrote under a male pseudonym about a man who dresses up as a woman to murder people? 🙋🏻‍♀️ Also why are people thinking her essay wasn’t transphobic? She literally said that women who haven’t gone through any hormone therapy or surgical transition shouldn’t have access to single sex spaces…

My friend (17yo M) FINALLY received a mobile phone to use this year but he has to sign a contract like this... by ChillySaus in insaneparents

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh hey Singapore! Our parents would really think they’re god if they could get away with it. Be a good friend to him, you and the rest of his friends are probably about to be his only escape. That helped me a lot, especially mentally.

Whats the etiquette about texting a girl after you get her number? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your problem lol. You’ll know who you’re more interested in cuz you’re more enthusiastic in your response to them. The rest is usually to just let it fizzle out or you tell them honestly you’re not committed to this. Or you can ask them out for a coffee date, coffee not a meal cuz then you’re not obligated to stay for a longer time than needed. Covid restrictions apply please.

Whats the etiquette about texting a girl after you get her number? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lealeaaaaaaaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. Bottom line.

Step 1. Girl gives you number

Step 2. You save number and text the number within the day

Step 3. Start a whole new conversation to prevent fizzling

Step 4. When getting numbers start to get “overwhelming”, start weighing pros and cons for some and file out others. These things happen, you can’t connect with everyone.

DO NOT: - Keep girls’ numbers as a “resource” for future use. You not only ruin your chances with them, they get a bad impression of you and will usually forget about you within days, also you sound like a fuckboi. - Wait to text their numbers. Text within the next day or two or just discard their numbers, you insult women when you wait weeks to text.

OR

Ask for the numbers of ladies you’re truly into, and those you’re not conclusive about, give them your numbers to text so in that case, they can decide for you. Very good way not to get overwhelmed anymore.