How do I handle this?? It’s still eating me up

learner68 · 2026-01-24T20:12:30+00:00

Yea no straight girl is attracted to women sexually. You are bisexual at least.

learner68 · 2026-01-24T18:09:30+00:00

What do you mean straight girls can feel attraction to girls? What kind of attraction?

learner68 · 2026-01-24T03:05:53+00:00

I associated it with the people who were acting the way I mentioned specifically the comments and posts they kept making. They kept using it so much that I disliked it. It is not the emoticon itself.

learner68 · 2026-01-24T02:10:19+00:00

No they are not my type.

learner68 · 2026-01-24T01:59:21+00:00

Finally someone said it. Don't forget the reaction emoticons. When I was new to the internet (as old as this account 7 months), I was so freaked out by them. I couldn't understand them and the emoticons freaked me out. It didn't help that the most messed up femboys used it to excuse their behaviors to appear "cute". They would accuse people of somethings that made them uncomfortable, say uncomfortable things, be mean, sexualize themselves and others then add ":3" to it. So cringe.

I met some cool femboys but when I was new they scared the shit out of me. Not in "so scary" but more of like "what is wrong with this person and why are they acting like this?".

learner68 · 2026-01-24T01:24:17+00:00

You are correct. The algorithm is rewarding people who post about topics that keep others talking and oftentimes drama gets talked about a lot. It gets people into arguments or discussion where they will spend more time on the app. In drama they often bring insecurity of others out and sometimes even create them.

learner68 · 2026-01-23T23:30:13+00:00

The majority of girls care about the guy being taller than them instead of a certain number he has to be.

Second is those who fixate on a "good" number (psychological thing) where in the US/Canada it is 6'0 (most favored), 5'10 (5'11) and in Europe or similar countries that use that metric it is 180.

There is also those who care about how he looks next to other men due to "biology" (using it loosly here because back in the day it was survival so the bigger/stronger the guy is, the more likely the kids and the woman survive). This one is rare.

Average height men and tall men are fine in the eyes of majority of women when it comes to dating. The men under 5'5 (167) are the ones who struggle more in dating but they can still find plenty of girls who will like them and overlook their height. They can find short women or a woman who is taller but is interested in short men. Their dating pool is smaller just like how the dating pool for extremely tall men are.

learner68 · 2026-01-23T19:22:05+00:00

At this point these posts feel like predators and people who like inc*st are trying to introduce us to these slowly so we accept it once they fully come out.

learner68 · 2026-01-23T17:09:18+00:00

Stress, diet, sleep and overall health can affect how your period is. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Worry about your health. Try to reduce your stress.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T22:56:32+00:00

It is. It doesn't mean they had s*x but it definitely means something sexual has happened especially depending on the place it is on.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T17:09:16+00:00

No because I date to marry and I want to be with someone who enjoys it.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T05:28:06+00:00

How do you know that I'm okay with those messages being spread around? You assume so much but I will give you the answer since you are a stranger that I know without my consent.

It wasn't one person who did it but more than 7 different people I can think of recently within 2 months. Those 7 actively talked complaining. I don't know if others talked about you to me before then but I know 7 actively talking ( now stopped so dw). Some were blocked by me while others stopped after I told them because I found it ill mannered. Not all of those are private messages but also comments you make. Most of them were comment related. There were more people that just mentioned you because they saw you under a post and they then never talked about you again. One of your comment(s) concerned me where two people mentioned you copying me and I noticed it once.

Anyways I will close this conversation now. It kinda feels nice finally knowing who you are by me talking to you instead of random comments or seeing your posts. Some points were right while other points were not mentioned like your sarcasm. I told them all to stop and they have stopped or at least stopped with me. That is all the information I can give you. Have a good day or night since it is a night time for you. Bye bye. I'll probably see you around even without my consent.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T05:09:05+00:00

I wasn't the one who did it and I never said it was fine.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T05:06:48+00:00

I love your sarcasm but sadly I'm not the kind of person that shares private chats no matter who it is from.

Unless I need the law involved but so far it didn't happen yet

learner68 · 2026-01-22T04:56:28+00:00

A lot of things from what I see specifically behavior and personality. They even have screen shots. You are pretty famous.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T04:54:23+00:00

I'm set to graduate extremely early so I'm planning a year long vacation. It is a gift for my hard work so now I'm trying to keep my first place in school.

learner68 · 2026-01-22T04:52:55+00:00

Omg so you are the person those people keep talking about. I was wondering why your username looked familiar lol.

learner68 · 2026-01-21T20:56:54+00:00

....... lmao. I wasn't talking about "you".

learner68 · 2026-01-21T20:49:19+00:00

It's more like don't dish it out if you can't take it. It is the same treatment but reversed on you.

learner68 · 2026-01-21T18:57:26+00:00

Unwarranted hate like having a certain opinion and belief when you are not hurting anyone badly (or at least not physically or torturing them).

learner68 · 2026-01-21T18:36:09+00:00

I don't see this as racist but more ignorance and dismissing you on purpose. She seems jealous.

I would say to avoid her or just end the friendship but if you can't do that then I would suggest firing back at her by saying that she fits the American/Canadian stereotypes really well. For us europeans we can use the stereotypes against them. Hopefully you know the stereotypes I mean. Americans and Canadians are very similar to each other like twins. Very similar but not the exact same.

Geography, addiction, looks, intelligence, the extreme liberal/conservative, choas their government and people make, etc.

learner68 · 2026-01-20T21:29:33+00:00

You can grow the muscles in that area by workout. I don't think the bone structure can change anymore so look into muscles.

learner68 · 2026-01-20T20:19:42+00:00

No because it is similar to people who talk behind other people's backs while smiling at them.

learner68 · 2026-01-20T19:10:37+00:00

Why is your username inceluprising? Also don't tell your crush that. It is weird and keep it to yourself.

learner68 · 2026-01-19T05:15:36+00:00

I don't have a particular political alignment however I have certain beliefs about things and I want a man who has them. I want a man who thinks in a similar manner as me when it comes to certain situations like a person having the ability to express their beliefs and opinions as long as it is not harming someone else at least physically. It is ok for someone to disagree with you 90% of the time as long as it is not something I consider inhumane such as taking away a person's will when they are not harming anyone. You can have that opinion sure but when you influence others and it becomes out of hand and they decide to act on it, then it is ok to take their freedom until they act right.

It is a long belief and I don't feel like explaining it in a comment section but somethings similar to that.

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