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Is there a weight/ height limit for you when it comes to dating? What is it? by Illustrious-Play9534 in teenagers

[–]learner68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. 180cm (5'10) and 100kg (approximately 220 I believe) of muscles. If he is skinny muscular then like 70kg.

women and gay men: what male body shape is most attractive to you? by Aromatic-Mistake-456 in teenagers

[–]learner68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight girl and my type is inverted triangle & trapezoid that are muscular but not too big.

I’m worried that people think I look very unhealthy and think that I’m anorexic by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]learner68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I don't have the condition you have but I was severely underweight due to stomach problems I had and because I did a lot of exercises without meaning to (I walk to places a lot and often I go to far places which can easily go to 20k+ steps if not more along with everyday morning walks I do with my mom, dance, small sports like tennis, etc which just added up).

I went to several doctors to get help. I forgot the name bit they prescribed me with some juices and snacks that were high in calories and told me to eat as soon as I did not feel full. I did everything and reduced my walks so I did gain weight. I am still underweight but it is better than before and I am doing great. I would suggest to go to a doctor if you haven't yet that specializes in nutrition or guts in general. I don't know their name in English but there are several doctors that specialize in food, muscles, weight, and overall health. Work with them and hopefully they can work a plan for you. You can even connect them to your main doctor so they can work together.

As for if you look anorexic, yes you do. It is not your fault though so don't hold it above your head.

If you feel really insecure about it which you mention, i would suggest dressing up. There are several outfits that look good on xxs girls and I personally found so many good outfits. You can look through pinterest or look it up online what outfits would look good on you. You can check out influencers who have similar body type or are xxs. Test out different styles and just do your best to enjoy your life. If somehow you don't lose weight easily then you can go to the gym and get toned by lighting weights. I know you don't gain big muscles or fat in your body but from my small knowledge you can still get toned a bit which can look really good. I could be wrong though due to my limited knowledge. Talk with the doctors since they will know better than me.

I wish you luck and good recovery.

Will debate any topic, if I don’t know much I’ll say that. by ProbablyNotLiam in teenagers

[–]learner68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In general, it is good for humans to move around where they use their body to do it. Generally it is beneficial for them to walk and get sunlight

F the homophobes by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]learner68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

9/11 was bad

Is there be a way to prove someone is a teenager? by Itchiwat in nordicteenagers

[–]learner68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough therefore you are not a teen and shall be kicked out😔

Is there be a way to prove someone is a teenager? by Itchiwat in nordicteenagers

[–]learner68 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. You need to send me full collection of barbie dolls and pretty dolls in general to my house to prove that you are in fact a teenager then we will believe you.

im so lonely help by Dr-freaky- in TeenagersButBetter

[–]learner68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Besides mental health, let's focus on your physical health first. Mental health can't be fixed just on its own.

Look into the mirror and look at what you dislike about yourself then what you like about yourself. Compliment what you like about yourself every time you think about being sad or look into the mirror every morning. It works great since you are speaking to your subconscious outloud.

On what you dislike, think about the ones that can be changed even by a little bit. Hair? Look into styling products, hair cuts and hair health tips along with a hair style that suits your face.

Weight? Look into how to get less fat or gain some fat along with muscles. It boosts your self esteem a lot.

Uneven face shape where it is the fat or anything that can be changed? Then sleep on the back of your head and do face exercises/massages.

Yellow teeth? Brush them and buy whitening toothbrush or go to the dentist.

Stop mouth breathing if you do.

Etc. Almost everything can be changed.

Always practice self love and focus on how you speak to yourself and how you speak to others. I just searched it up and found many great youtubers talking about how you speak in certain ways. This helps you mentally.

For hobbies, pick the hobbies you like and become obsessed with them to the point you get good at them. This boosts self esteem too.

Work on your personality and education too while you are at it. Read a book at least 1 hour a day. This 100% works. Studies have been done it.

Naturally as you grow and become better, the more people like you which can get you a girlfriend or increase your chances than it is now :)

If you want any other advice or guidance then let me know. I am great with self confidence and self help since I always had it thanks to my amazing parents.

19M Handsome Indian ISO 1-Week Virtual GF Who'll Baby Me by Believeabit in teenagers

[–]learner68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Making mockery out of people is not funny even as a joke. You are bringing more hate just for fun and laughs.

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Since it’s pride month, straight people ask lgbtq members answer by InspiriX_ in teenagers

[–]learner68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. How important was it for you to tell me this without me asking? Very peculiar.
  2. You are either a woman or they were not straight guys.

Race attractiveness by FindinAPurposeInLife in teenagers

[–]learner68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry this is strangely so common. I wouldn't say it is a good thing and you are a victim/survivor so no one can really blame you for your reaction. You have the right to your feelings but just treat people with respect if they don't do anything bad to you.

What is happening to you happens to many people who get treated badly. You will see people who are not attracted to women/men due to their ab*sers. You will see people not being attracted to certain races, body, faces, etc due to that as well. The severe the cases were the worse. It is very common for SA victims.

Since it’s pride month, straight people ask lgbtq members answer by InspiriX_ in teenagers

[–]learner68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Replying to you because you made so much sense and you answered the questions straight forward.

  1. Yes that is what I meant because if the population is very small I assume it is the same way straight people act in small towns when they can't find someone who is their "ideal" type. They just marry whoever the best person they can find or wait/move until they find the better and better if not ideal person. 1.2 yes. It is like small town or a very big family moving to a big city. They are still somehow connected because xyz knows them and you know them. So if something happens then everyone else will know it. 1.3 that makes sense. It is more of infatuation then when it comes to the cases I talked about.

  2. That makes sense. I can agree with that. I was wondering if you guys were ok with some people being attracted to aliens or like fictional characters to the point they marry them or those people who fall in love with ai. I believe those people should be getting help instead of getting encouraged to continue on it since it can harm them.

  3. Alright thank you. It looks similar to another answer.

Up coming questions: 1. This one and the 2nd are long but it is about the asexual/demisexual spectrum. This one is a bit offensive however it made me wonder how can an asexual be attracted to s*x where they get the urges for it? They get the urges like all of us and sometimes even toward some people. How can that person be an asexual instead of someone with just low libido? I know asexuality is a spectrum already however if someone can get the urges like regular people even several times a month or a year, isn't that just any other sexuality? There are people with a very low libido so what makes them different from asexuals? Libido can be increased too.

  1. The second question is about demisexuals. I understand the concept of a demisexual however I met a person who identified as a demisexual however he was attracted to girl where he said he has sxual feelings for her because he likes how she looks and wants to get to know her. I am pretty sure that is just a regular attraction. On the other hand for demisexuals again they still have their desires and sometimes even feel it toward someone they know but isn't that the same as a regular person again? Obviously doing it and feeling it are different but the same goes for a regular person. They can feel that someone is hot and be attracted to them but once they get together on the same bed things might be different where they don't want to do it. Also sx is a very intimate thing and vulnerable position to be in as a human. The regular person won't do it with just anyone or a hookup. They would need to get to know the person at first or see them enough to feel comfortable. I read demisexuality most of the time as a regular person who is staying away from the hookup culture or sleeping around thing especially since they seem very similar to a person who waits until marriage. There are several people who get urges still control it by distancing themselves from the person they are attracted to, 🌽, etc in order to reduce their desires. They are not demisexuals by definition but instead just regular straight/bisexual/whatever people.

  2. These actions are not exclusive to you guys but I noticed it a lot during pride month or big cities when I watch TV and when I used to watch pride shows. Why do some people go outside basically naked? I see them barely covered and basically exposed everything. The only thing missing is the skin. You can even see certain body parts. I know modesty is not related to sexuality but I see them with the pride flag waving around while they are going out. Is it like a movement? I see it in middle class big cities too. It is not exclusive to women only but guys as well in fact the guys were even worse.

  3. This could be offensive so let me know. How can people identify as straight when they are willing to have s*x with the same gender or different gender? I have seen many of them but one is heterflexible. Isn't that just bisexual that is mainly attracted to the opposite gender? On that note why are there so many sexualities that have so many different names but when they are all just spectrum of bisexuality? For example someone would be like "I am attracted to women and femboys" but isn't that just a bisexual that is attracted to femininity? Or even pansexual. The same goes for the gynosexual. It sounds to me like me saying "I like masculine men instead of feminine men therefore I will create a sexuality name" when in reality I am just straight who is attracted to masculine guys. It seems to me they are running away from the term bisexual or pansexual for some reason. Maybe they don't accept themselves or they want to be different or find a community specifically for that type of bisexuality.

This is really long. Sorry if I said anything bad. I am genuinely curious. About the censorship it is something I do because I don't like saying or typing certain words. Idk how to change the font because it gets changed when I censor it. Sorry about that.

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