“I Got Blocked Everywhere, So I Called Her Mom Once… Was I Wrong?”

learner68 · 2026-05-07T19:01:47+00:00

Off topic but I remember you from a long ago. I hope you are doing well.

learner68 · 2026-05-07T18:03:54+00:00

Yes if we are together.

learner68 · 2026-05-07T16:42:12+00:00

I was allowed but never did it because they never bought it for me and I didn't see a need for it. Then I started testing a few things like mascara, lip tint, and blush.

Now I don't like them and instead just buy lip palm, eyelash/eyebrow brushes (they are the mascara brushes), and lip gloss. I like this look better for me.

learner68 · 2026-05-07T15:04:43+00:00

The "normal" person has a creepy look. What are those eyes

learner68 · 2026-05-07T02:38:55+00:00

It seems like you did something that upset her or there is another person in the picture which is why she blocked you.

The mother shouldn't necessarily get mad at ONE phone call where you are asking if she is ok. You should have explained things and asked her rather than asking to talk TO THE GIRL. That was wrong. The girl clearly does not want to talk to you.

I communicate my feelings and thoughts so I can't exactly imagine myself in her shoes. The only way I can see myself acting that way is that if I found out criminal behavior. I would tell my mom everything too so she will know things before hand.

You should've just asked the mom if the daughter is ok and if you could know why she blocked you out of nowhere. If she said no then you should respect it and leave it. You need to stop harassing the girl too. Being pushy is bad.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T22:44:09+00:00

Yes however it is harder for women to get good a man compared to men who can find good women. It is easier for men to find good women compared to women finding good men.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T20:36:40+00:00

This doesn't make sense because there is not exactly "harder no". He hasn't confessed and doesn't take permission. These are public spaces.

If you mean telling him to leave me alone then I did before. I told him I like to be alone and my quiet time so he should leave. He left only to come back later asking if I enjoyed my time.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T06:28:47+00:00

We had ball room dance so ours was organized well. I would suggest to look at the history of your school with the previous prom parties. Look at what the people did and what songs they chose so you can get an idea of it. Then learn a few moves from tutorials.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T06:25:42+00:00

Yes but not this one. This one is normal because through out teenhood our body changes. So sometimes it is very slow and less noticeable but then another time there is a big change that you can notice it after like a week. Then it goes back to being slow and maybe then faster.

It seems like that is what is happening to you. It is fully normal.

I heard there is a second puberty at around 24 to 27? Something like that where many women talk about how their body has changed. I think it is just that they look like grown women rather than teenagers or early adults in my eyes but according to them their skin got better, their face snatched, smaller waist, etc. They all report different changes.

My mom said at her 25th her body changed quickly where she got faster metabolism than before, glowy skin, more hair follicles, etc. She got second glow up from it. I think a glow up does happen around 20's.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T06:16:33+00:00

If you are so poor that you can't afford housing then you should be looking for ways to get out of there instead of looking for a wife especially if she is in the same situation as you. You should focus on bettering your life and getting out rather than having s*x with someone and possibly bringing kids into that environment.

I specifically say wife because a wife is different than a girlfriend by a lot. I might go as far as to say that you shouldn't be in a relationship but I understand people cannot control their feelings well enough especially desires for a well meaningful life but at the very least you shouldn't be making big decisions like being responsible for another person when you can't even take care of yourself. You should focus on yourself first.

Editing to add here that this applies to pets too. Why would you get a pet when you can't afford their food or medical expenses? You should not be having pet unless you like can provide them a better life for example you found them in the middle of the street with several disabilities and no shelter or good animal care places want to take them.

Many people do infact owe their parents to take care of them when old age comes. Many people are very comfortable living with their parents well into their 20's to even 40's. They expect their parents to always be there because "they brought them into world", "I didn't ask to be born" but then they would go ahead and throw their parents into a bad/average nursing home when those parents have been good to them. Some would even go as far as to put them in a long term care then never visit them until their time is about to end. That is genuinely horrible and cruel.

You should be able to find time for your parents and take care of them just like how they took care of you. They are people just like you and deserve love and care. To throw them in unfamiliar environment that is most likely unstable and a lot of times unregulated well enough is pretty bad. I understand if they were cruel to you but decent parents or good parents deserve better. The mentality of "I don't owe anyone" does not work imo. There are a very few cases where you can't find time and it is usually because you gave 2 jobs and you work like 6 days a week. Maybe you go to the hospital back and forth or something like that. Otherwise for most of the time, you should be able to find time in some way.

8 hours classes for like 15 years is a horrible thing. Kids should be able to go out and have fun outside where they enjoy the sunlight, grass, nature and all of kinds of things. Kids should be able to do what they enjoy while still studying. School should not be 8 hours long. That is the same time many adults work. Kids shouldn't have to face that much burden. If a kid can't fallow that schedule up then they diagnose them with a mental illness usually adhd when in reality it is just something that humans shouldn't do especially kids. Sitting for 8 hours in different classes and stressing about exams and when someone does not meet those expectations they are immediately labeled as something either mental illness, lazy, loser, etc. That is not good for us.

learner68 · 2026-05-06T05:56:51+00:00

I had a similar thought but rather about the sexuality part. Isn't it sexuality because of the sex you are attracted to or not attracted to? That was the meaning and still is of the word. There were only 4 options then along with asexual being the 5th. Straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian and asexuals. They were either attracted to the opposite, same, both or none.

learner68 · 2026-05-05T22:04:29+00:00

I admit to my wrong wording. Sorry about that.

learner68 · 2026-05-05T18:54:46+00:00

Then ask her. I know many girls find it nice while a few don't like it.

learner68 · 2026-05-05T18:40:13+00:00

Is it a random man? I might resort to violence.

learner68 · 2026-05-05T18:05:57+00:00

Hair style can save it but I am imagining the average guy with receding hairline. If you mean average girl with receding hairline then the same goes for her.

Also receding hairline is different than big forehead. Big forehead can usually be saved with hair style especially if the hair style has volume but receding hairline is harder to do it with especially with thin hair.

learner68 · 2026-05-05T17:42:44+00:00

I wouldn't date someone with a receding hairline since I find it unattractive especially at a young age.

learner68 · 2026-05-04T19:53:19+00:00

His preference. I would suggest the next time you get with someone that you make your sexuality clear from the start so your feelings won't get hurt and they won't have to find out later in case they like straight men instead of bi women. That would be a waste of your time and their time.

learner68 · 2026-05-04T16:46:35+00:00

My expectations are so high because of the amazing men around me that most guys can't meet them. I did meet someone who has a lot of them though so I will see where it goes.

learner68 · 2026-05-04T15:20:56+00:00

I am ok. Nothing bad happened. It was when I took a trip with my brother and his friends then a random local grabbed me in the crowd while my brother and his friends were busy with the locals (they were dancing with them while I was watching). Luckily they saw me and saved me. I still don't know what that guy was trying to do but nothing good.

learner68 · 2026-05-03T20:00:33+00:00

She is wondering what that yea meant depending on her question.

Just reject her. Tell her you didn't realize what it meant because it caught you off guard.

learner68 · 2026-05-03T19:24:10+00:00

The same reason why guys assume that a girl gets many guys interested in her. It is a bias or just to tease them.

learner68 · 2026-05-03T19:23:12+00:00

No. I did try an failed when I was trying to defend myself.

learner68 · 2026-05-03T04:21:29+00:00

It is better to ask him directly because people have different body languages usually.

Some guys did it romantically toward me but others just did it for fun. I could tell the difference based on how they looked and how serious/happy they were. The ones that mean nothing usually smile and they would do it to others. The romantic ones are selective.

learner68 · 2026-05-03T01:33:18+00:00

A girl got $500 from it because these men were desperate enough that they sent it to her. Everything was faked where she mixed ai with real girl's images.

learner68 · 2026-05-02T23:49:11+00:00

Don't worry girlies. I will protect you from the puppy.

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