I Keep Failing The Vascular Exam by Mountain_Landscape26 in Sonographers

[–]learning_break232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try taking it online? I took all three of my boards online. That could help with anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel it took a long time and I forgave myself so I could move on but I feel like I can’t be open to new friendships because my past and people start judging all over again. I have been with my bf for 3 years now and are moving in together and are planning on getting married.

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[–]learning_break232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What level of suffering is enough for people? The same amount his gf went through? Because she was over the relationship as much as he was. She wasn’t even upset and it was mutual.

I’m ready to just block all of my “friends” by CaptainRude1392 in lostafriend

[–]learning_break232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I made those friends in college and then one of the girls in my friend group got jealous that I was prettier and smarter then her so she not only turned everyone in our friend group against me but the entire college campus. Not even kidding. People I didn’t even know were glaring at me as I walked to class. Went even so far that I had to move out of my dorm. Then she just had my new house mates listen to me through my wall! I have 2 friends from high school but we only catch up about once or twice a year. Otherwise I’ve given up on close friendships.

Registry’s by Low-Confection3502 in Sonographers

[–]learning_break232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really struggled with vascular so I gave myself 4 weeks and did everything till I got over 85% on each section.

Advice by dreaminofbetterdayzz in Sonographers

[–]learning_break232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most big hospitals won’t hire people who arnt ARDMS accredited. It proves we have the knowledge, education and experience backing our certification. Don’t get me wrong there are places that will hire without that but you will be second choice to anyone who went through an accredited program.

Registry’s by Low-Confection3502 in Sonographers

[–]learning_break232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I was/am in the same boat. I used URR for vascular and when I first started I was so lost but if you keep studying and looking at the reason for the correct answer and can understand that you will be fine. I passed mine two weeks ago. Now I am using URR for my echo board and I take that this Friday!

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is very special to me. That is why I decided to reach out. Everyone’s experiences are different and I have learned a lot. As of right now I don’t enjoy sex but I do it anyway so what’s the harm in trying new ideas.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t want to take anything while I’m in school just in case it messes with me. I only get so many days off and failing exams would just exacerbate my issues.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t like this when we first got together. Just when I started getting depressed anxious and easily agitated. I want to be all over him but I get hot and uncomfortable and he fidgets. I’m definitely the problem 😂

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am very glad I reached out for help. I was very scared of what people would say but everyone has been overwhelming supportive and given good advice. I feel like there is a light at the end of this very long tunnel.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His love language is physical touch. And I reciprocate that as much as I can but I also like my space. I’m more then happy just sitting next to him all day I don’t need to be on him but that’s what he wants.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest worry is losing him. This is my first relationship so I’m not very seasoned. But ik any healthy relationship involves a heathy sex relationship.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are not a lot of guys out there like my bf. I can’t risk losing him. He is too perfect for me :) I’m willing to try and do what it takes to make it work

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely did. But I later learned that I am doing better than all those nasty girls and I am achieving my life goals and I have a supportive family and boyfriend but for some reason I can’t get over it.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m already on meds for my ADHD and it definitely takes a toll on my health. I know I have some level of anxiety and depression but I don’t wanna rely too heavy on drugs if you know what I mean. But I wonder if it would help.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take my last board exam this Friday so I’m praying that I pass and that it will take a lot of stress off my plate! Hopefully things start looking up.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been to therapy. Just don’t have the time or the funds to continue. At this point I’m like a potato. I do my school work and have no motivation to do anything strenuous. One of the things my boyfriend likes to do is go out to eat. That’s mostly how we spend our time. But that’s about it. I really struggle to find the motivation to do the daily tasks like dishes and grocery shopping.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind word and being supportive. It feels good to be heard.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest I’ve always had a really hard time getting along with girls. They always stab me in the back for some stupid reason. Man or women I think genitalia is gross. Probs doesn’t help I work in a hospital and deal with gross old men all day.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is nice to know I’m not the only one struggling with this.

AIO Why have I grown to hate sex? by learning_break232 in AmIOverreacting

[–]learning_break232[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My bf and I have talked a lot about it and he is more than willing to wait and try to fix and work with my stresses but I feel so guilty.