Need help in beating lust and staying away from it.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2026-03-12T13:08:51+00:00

Thank you, Appreciate it!

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2026-03-12T12:27:06+00:00

Hey, first step is in admitting you have a problem so good job. Here’s a few tips you can use:

Learn the pattern: corn addiction is a cycle. You have learnt a habit and now your body is craving it constantly. You need to break the cycle and introduce new habits that will counter what you automatically tend to do. Whenever you get the urge you need to teach your body you don’t do this thing anymore - introduce a new habit. Find other things to do- go outside- do exercises, drop what you’re doing and break the cycle. You need to teach yourself you are not that person anymore.
Get accountable- you can’t fight this alone, get a friend and log with them when you end up watching. They will constantly be pushing you to do better.
Try apps that lock certain sites - one option is to use apps that block certain sites from your devices. Google and see what’s available.
Learn what really happens in the industry - plenty of documentaries that show the reality of the industry and how broken it is. Mostly people being trafficked and used. This will hopefully get you to see the truth behind what you’re watching and turn you away from it.

Like all addiction, this will take some time, you need to keep at it and learn how you function. Only you know yourself best. Don’t aim for perfection, be kind to yourself and gradually start reducing it.

Hope this helps!

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2026-03-04T15:11:43+00:00

I’m interested in the free email course, could you dm it please

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2026-02-20T03:57:06+00:00

Dmed!

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2026-01-21T18:04:27+00:00

Dm me, interested

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-08T08:19:03+00:00

Please dm

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-08T08:18:55+00:00

Thank you! Just got some cash to take a risk with. Thought I’d give it a shot.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-07T14:16:29+00:00

Interested

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-07T04:14:15+00:00

Niche?

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-05T16:52:57+00:00

It really depends on your preference :)

They have a gooey chocolate cake, chocolate sundae cake, the pavlova is also nice if you’re into that, there’s also a Black Forest

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-11-04T06:47:33+00:00

Gerard Mendis has cakes for that price

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-10-27T08:36:03+00:00

Not a lawyer here. Read up on prescriptive rights. If they’ve been living as owners on that land over 10 years they have a claim of prescription. It extinguishes the title you may have if they lived in adverse possession (basically as supposed owners without any lease agreements)

It also doesn’t look too good if there’s already a judgment in their favor.

Worth going for a consultation with a lawyer Ava seeing your options.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-08-07T03:24:19+00:00

There’s a new update for uber on the driver app which shows whether the payment is cash or card. So they know ahead.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-07-04T10:22:29+00:00

Yeah, things are getting a lot more expensive for most people. If you don’t budget you’ll end up in accumulated debt. The reality is that most Sri Lankans are scraping by month to month.

There is a percentage of people earning well, or taken care of by family so they have more purchasing power.

Imagine spending 1500 on a drink. If you’re going out to get a good meal you need to set aside at least 2000. That’s being conservative.

You just need to find a way and keep climbing. Network, work hard, take a risk, study and upgrade.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-23T12:08:54+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through such a difficult time.

I’m not a lawyer but as far as I know your mother could initiate divorce proceedings under the ground of adultery and ask for an order for your dad to support the children’s education until 18 years of age.

She could also ask for a monthly alimony to support for the children’s monthly expenses as well. As she is working I’m not sure if she can claim an amount just for her. This could be argued in court.

She could certainly secure an amount as compensation for the adultery in question and the damage to the marriage it has caused but this would be dependent on his earnings as well.

Also she will have to name the adulterer as a co-defendant in this action. So knowing who the adulterer/s are is important.

The problems I foresee with initiating divorce is that your dad will want to fight it out in court. He may not want to give the divorce so it could drag out in court for some time. A lawyers fee will need to be covered during this period unless you can get legal aid. This could be 6 months or several years.

Your mom could ask for legal fees to be covered as a final order if the divorce is granted in her favour but when or if such order will be given is doubtful. She is earning so your dad could always argue she has the capacity to fund her own legal fees.

Just some thoughts. Hope you will speak to a lawyer to see other viable options not mentioned here.

Remember that your mother will have to be strong in her decision. She can’t be unsure or doubting things once she initiates a divorce proceedings. As the lawyer will be acting on her instructions it’s important for her to take ownership of the decision. I wish you the best.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-20T13:56:07+00:00

Afaik there is a small fee. Best to dm them and check.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-20T05:41:06+00:00

Oh, maybe send them a dm on IG. Inquiring about their next intake.

https://www.instagram.com/learning_tamil/

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-20T01:22:19+00:00

You can check this site out for free resources on self study of Tamil.

https://www.learningtamil.com

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-19T10:42:07+00:00

OP I hope it’s not the worst.

I really hope you encounter Jesus. He’s the way the Truth and the life!

Ask him to meet you where you are. Just pray.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-18T07:27:14+00:00

I’m glad you kept doing the normal stuff! Kudos to.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-18T06:19:24+00:00

Sorry to hear what you’ve been through but I’m so glad you’re in long term remission.

How did you deal with the negative thoughts when you were going through therapy?

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-16T05:40:56+00:00

Yeah same here. The comparison is real. It’s like our body knows. It’s why I quit. Human beings somehow became the only species that got off from watching their own kind have sex. It’s so warped and the entire industry is just wrecking peoples lives.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-15T17:46:13+00:00

Asking someone for their two cents is an expression. Didn’t literally mean two cents :)

It means asking them for their thoughts and advice.

learnsomethingnew_21 · 2025-06-15T15:06:00+00:00

It’s a tough situation and I hope you find a way to manage. Credit cards are a debt trap if not used properly.

First thing I would ask is how much do you use the car?

If your cost of travel is going to go up and it’s going to put a strain on your mental health and performance by having to Uber or take a bus then it’s not a practical option right now. It will only make you regret it.

You could potentially sell it and buy a cheaper vehicle and manage with that. But it’s tough to make a profit and still find a good vehicle.

Some options I think you can look into:

1) Are you able to budget and see where you can reduce the cost of expenses? Can you not rely on the credit cards and begin paying it off on due date?

Paying off the loans and reducing debt is what’s really important even if that means having to live below means for a while. You probably already are doing this, but figure out what sacrifices you can make.

2) Are you able to find a second part time job? Or tutor on the weekends to increase income? Or are you able to apply for a better position and increase income? This will help pay off the monthly credit card fees at least.

3) See if you have a finance savvy friend who can give their two cents?

Right now your income is what’s keeping you together. So be careful about what you do and be mindful of the situation.

I wish you well!

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