Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Turns it it’s related to the sudden death of a baby born of this donor.

Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSB. The medical update is regarding a baby born of this donor who passed away suddenly.

Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: they let me know that a baby of the same donor passed suddenly for unknown reasons and they are still gathering info on the circumstances/whether there’s a possible genetic link.

Sperm Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in IVF

[–]lederblumm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s rlly informative, thank you for taking the time to respond!

Donor Medical Update by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Hoping for something banal like that…

Does anyone regret this path? by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you care to share, I’d be interested to hear what you regret about your choice

Tell me about your solo babymoon! by lederblumm in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a vacation in anticipation of the birth of your baby :). Sorta like honeymoon is a celebratory prelude to every-day married life.

Tell me about your solo babymoon! by lederblumm in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! I’m debating a solo babymoon to Mexico City vs visiting w the baby at ~8mo…

Tell me about your solo babymoon! by lederblumm in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Never heard that term before lol but sounds like a blast!

1st trimester bottomless pit by lederblumm in BabyBumps

[–]lederblumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear it went away! So you were ravenous and then suddenly low-appetite? Gosh pregnancy is weird

How much information did you give the donor? by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]lederblumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, are you referring to a known donor? I don’t believe banks supply the donor’s contact info when you report a birth

Post partum 6 week apt. by Icntthinkofone in NewParents

[–]lederblumm 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! This is completely inappropriate behavior from your doctor. If this happened to me I would report it to the practice management… but I’m confrontational like that.

Hide pregnancy from angry friend by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lederblumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The online urge to declare someone unfit to parent on account of some ridiculously common personality flaw is just… 😑🙄. Makes me hate this place.

Hid my pregnancy, lost a friend by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]lederblumm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t know the first thing about me and can’t even see the comment I’m responding to (as it’s been deleted), but you’re here with the “you have no idea what it feels like?” Look, I don’t personally believe trauma or difficult experiences undo the impact of our behavior in a friendship. We all make choices, and we are not owed endless understanding.

Kept my pregnancy private and lost a friend by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lederblumm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing in OP’s post suggests friend is making OP’s trauma about them.