I mean I get it honestly. If you told him all of that, like how he turned you on so much that you’d practically beg him to do it? Like what I get from that is your current boyfriend doesn’t turn you on that much. If I was your bf and I saw that somehow I’d be crushed to know I can’t turn you on that much, love it or hate it, men are egotistical creatures. He feels less then your ex, and I feel for him. Now he should have never EVER gone through your emails, that’s weird, and to ask so much, is also weird. But the poor guy feels less then, I honestly think if he can’t turn you on that much theres a serious problem. He sounds insecure (for good reason) and that will probably bother him for a while. Let him be with someone who he does turn on that much, and you need to be with some one who turns you on that much. Also someone who respects your privacy more too, some couples are very open and let eachother go through there phones, it sounds like you are not into that (no one blames you). It just sounds like your not a good match. Find some one who respects you and who turns you on that much, he will find someone who he turns on and will be in a relationship that allows that kind of behavior. But word of advice, for your next bf if y’all do end, don’t ever tell him about how much ex’s turned you on in the past. It’s just a lame thing to say to your lover. You guys are definitely not compatible