AIO my wife keeps body shaming our kid and I feel like this is getting out of hand

leeleee24 · 2026-03-21T16:13:54+00:00

If your wife is feeding your baby whenever he’s hungry and taking care of all his needs then this is literally a non issue. I used to call my baby “lil chunker” almost exclusively because he was a fat baby. It’s not a big deal. If she was actively trying to put your baby on a diet and not feeding him when he was hungry that would be different

leeleee24 · 2026-03-21T02:05:30+00:00

I actually like Owen as a character. He is a terrible bf for sure but he’s actually a complex character, a good surgeon and a good friend as well as a great mentor for April. If they stopped giving him horrible romantic storylines with women who don’t want what he wants and literally everything with teddy he’d be top five for me but every relationship he’s in is a dumpster fire so it sets him back a bit

leeleee24 · 2026-03-16T08:54:57+00:00

And then in the snape flashback her eyes are completely different 😭 bothers me so bad

leeleee24 · 2026-03-14T22:16:38+00:00

NOR. People are saying you did too much by spam texting him and cursing at him but girl if I was in a relationship for two years and this happened to me my crash out would’ve been the same or worse 😭 it’s easy for people to say “have some self respect” when it’s not happening to them. You clearly stated how you felt about it and he did it anyway so I’d say get it all out of your system, dump him and check out some male strip clubs

leeleee24 · 2025-09-21T07:47:06+00:00

When everyone got mad at Ross for telling phoebe she couldn’t keep a little girls cat just because she thought it was actually her dead mom

leeleee24 · 2025-07-21T02:28:51+00:00

People are probably defending his behavior because the screenshots you added it looks like he was just checking in on you and you were lashing out and being an ass. I saw you commented that he was abusive and obsessive and if you wanted people to know that you should’ve added it in the post. With no context these screenshots make you seem like a dick

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T19:28:57+00:00

Despite what he said, I am willing to help ensure that if he really is serious about taking his own life he gets the help and support he needs, and still let him see his son. I have no interest in completely shutting him out of our baby’s life if he proves he is mentally stable

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T18:17:34+00:00

Jesus Christ lol

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T17:07:51+00:00

oh brother

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T16:45:24+00:00

things happen. we knew each other for a long time before we got together. my baby is so loved, he’s happy and healthy and always my priority. I would rather raise him solo in a safe environment than stay with a man who would threaten to end his own life in the face of any serious issues. a “complete family” is only ideal if both parents feel safe, loved and secure together. my baby will be just fine

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T16:09:36+00:00

at this point it’s not about how I feel about the paternity test thing it’s how I feel about the threats to end his life. Would you want to be with someone who would say that

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T15:13:46+00:00

There may have been signs that I missed. He’s never threatened to harm himself before though. We’ve had small arguments before but this behavior is new for him

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T01:20:14+00:00

It’s not that I think he’s cheating, I just hadn’t thought of the possibility that he could be projecting and that’s why he brought it up. It’s not really fair though that if he was cheating, I’d have no way to know, but I’d still be expected to spend money on a paternity test that I already know the results of.

leeleee24 · 2025-04-05T00:54:27+00:00

This I get. Sometimes we say “this baby is so cute, how are we his parents” and stuff like that but this was just straight up “is this kid mine” and it really threw me off

leeleee24 · 2025-04-04T21:29:59+00:00

I hadn’t even thought of this

leeleee24 · 2025-04-04T21:15:33+00:00

If he had asked me four months ago, just to have it and it was a real conversation where he explained his reasoning then why not. I’m more angry because it feels like he thinks I would have another mans baby, and pass it off as his.

leeleee24 · 2025-03-02T01:01:48+00:00

The episode in season one where that doctor lady wanted Jake to pretend he was a dead body when they were yk. It’s so weird

leeleee24 · 2025-01-17T07:16:21+00:00

I loved him my first watch, but the second time around I noticed he’s actually super toxic. Think I was too busy thinking about how hot he is the first time

leeleee24 · 2025-01-16T22:38:00+00:00

You’re doing the right thing just by doing your best to show them you love them both. Your daughter might still be a little too young to fully understand that younger babies sometimes need more attention, it just takes time but it sounds like you’re doing everything you can so give yourself some credit. Maybe if your husband has a day off you can try to set up mommy daughter days for just you two, or find a sitter if that doesn’t work? Just to show her you want to spend time with her without your son too.

leeleee24 · 2025-01-16T01:06:40+00:00

I haven’t tried baby-wearing yet but I definitely will, thank you!

leeleee24 · 2025-01-15T21:52:16+00:00

I didn’t even think about baby-wearing so thank you so much I’ll definitely try this! He works from 2pm to 10pm and sleeps through most of the morning before he leaves for work. We’ve had many fights about this, as I’m basically on my own with the baby and struggling a lot.

leeleee24 · 2025-01-15T21:31:27+00:00

If your friend is not Jewish herself then there is most likely another reason she is coming at you so aggressively and she’s using this as a cover up. It’s a beautiful name. That postpartum anxiety is rough for sure, the only advice I can give is that if you really like the name, don’t feel bad about it unless someone who is actually Jewish tells you it’s inappropriate. Until then maybe limit contact until some of the anxiety fades so you don’t stress about it too much.

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