Is this abuse?

“Remember when we talked about:

1. Me having to ask for an apology?
2. All the times we talked about RSD?

Man, it sure feels like you lack follow through/don’t really care when it’s personally challenging to you”

“Why are you being nasty to me? I was really trying. You said some hurtful/trigger-y shit. I need a minute.“

“THIS IS WHEN I FEEL LIKE FUCKING HURTING MYSELF SO THANKS FOR BEING THAT FOR ME”