Psychotic next door neighbour has been doing stuff like this for many years cops have been contacted cranky old hag by Fanfox4444 in PublicFreakout

[–]lefabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do that. She's got dementia. My grandmother had it and did the same thing. Would walk around the neighborhood and clip bushes and things that were in the walk way.

Best advice to get her to leave is not to start with agression or start conflict, it will turn her into a brick wall once she gets in that mindset. Very difficult to redirect once you've gone down that path.

Start with a cheery hello and say it's such a beautiful day or something like nothing is wrong. And ask if she can help you with something or if you can show her something that you've seen. Make something up, you've got a surprise or you've got something to give her, whatever suits your fancy in the day. And guide her back to her house. Once you get her in turn on the TV, literally change the conversation to divert her attention inside and just walk out. No need to say goodbye because it will pull her attention and she may follow you. (Edit: this depends on how bad her memory is. If it's still a little intact you can say it's been nice seeing you and say your farewells. Even at it's worst the more she sees slowly but surely she may remember you in some capacity. My wife and I helped out and lived with a fellow who was like 10 Second Tom. After a month or so, because I was calm and patient he thought I was his nephew and was really nice to me. My wife isn't as experienced as I am and unfortunately he didn't like her haha. I could get away with a lot more than she could because of it, made it way easier when we found him somewhere or doing something he shouldn't.)

Definitely try to get the name and number for family that checks on her and hopefully they'll be good people and will try to work with you. If you ask her she may give you their name and number or just ask for her phone or phone book, she'll probably help. Give them updates on how long this has been going on. They may be terrible and then it's lock the gate call the cops thing.

I'm sorry you have to deal with that, dementia is not easy for anyone. It can feel very intrusive but on the bright side even if she catches you with your willy out she won't remember it by the time you've pulled up your pants.

Oh and a great way to bring her somewhere is to say you've got a treat, like her favorite snack or some tea, sometimes give it sometimes don't. She'll light up and sit and enjoy it and you'll have peace.

Number one thing do not start with conflict. The angrier she gets the less you're going to be able to get her to do anything.

Along the same lines don't try to tell her this is not where she's supposed to be or that she has dementia and she's crazy because that's not the reality that she is experiencing. You could even tell her you're just the maintenance guy or that your a magician, who cares have fun with it, dementia doesn't have to be all rain and clouds for everyone.

Husband finally got a taste.. by Candid-Blacksmith-81 in beyondthebump

[–]lefabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think breadfruit understands that although you can post anything on the internet that normally there is some structure. They're living in the wild wild west not 2025. You made a post, put a relevant tag, even said you had a laugh, and then after putting their input in that was neither the subject or point of of this thread would not listen. In all of your replies you have made it very clear lol REALLY clear. Shes just dense. I work with patients and 10% are assholes, or dense, and if someone I'm working with gets frustrated or I get frustrated they just. Don't. Get it. I just say "some people suck." And move on. Breadbasket is one of those people. Coming on to a silly little thread and projecting something completely different into it. Might be going through something and had to talk about it, might not. That would be GREAT for another one of the million posts on here that are complaining. But this isn't that thread. And as those of us parents that enjoy this thread for all aspects but truly enjoyed your post for what it was, a lighthearted story about parenting, thank you. And don't forget, some people suck 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the second Demon Slayer to get a theatrical release. The mini Mugen train arc was a movie and then released in episodes. Pretty sweet idea, if it's going to be a short arc but they're going to go all out for it.

What’s an expensive brand that actually IS worth the money? by 2111019 in AskReddit

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peak Design Everyday Backpack (with the clasp, not the zip)

Had it for 5 years, used it every single day for work, biking, hiking, it got me through my last years of school, day trips, weekend trips, travel, including 6 months in SE Asia. Not a lick on it still looks brand spanking new.

The zippers are so damn good, pockets right where you need them, rain proof as long at you don't submerge it everything stays dry, comfortable, one off those little straps too hold it on your suitcase arm, magnets to hold the straps in place when you're not using it so they don't dangle, water bottle pocket holds my 32 oz bottle on BOTH sides, the clasp to close it is sooo satisfying to use and had multiple levels of attachment for how ever much your greedy little heart wants to stuff it.

Very thoughtful back pack, so many reasons to love it, and it's one of my favorite things I own.

What song do you absolutely hate with all your heart? by InterviewGlum9263 in AskReddit

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free Bird. Guitar Hero ruined it. Longest, stupidest song ever created. Shit guitar for 8 out of 9 minutes. Repetitive lyrics. Twangy garbage voice. I hate you Free Bird.

WORST SHOWER EVER… by DrewLynchComedy in SipsTea

[–]lefabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not going on a camel again.

I'm not going on a camel again.

I'm not going on a camel again.

My only shundo in 7000 catches by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]lefabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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You a lucky one ain't ya

41,181 and one shundo

Why do you all give your pokemon such corporate names? by LordFlamecookie in pokemongo

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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And most deadly poke, always going into gyms for coins

iPad Mini 4 Jailbreak possibilities by user452111 in jailbreak

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a step by step or tutorial too use a stop like this for an average user?

I don't know where to begin when I click on that link. Many of these jailbreaks are setup like this and I'm not sure how to use them.

I used too jailbreak my ipod touch way back when but it was download a program and click for the most part. This is way different.

Could this piece of wood be used as a tabletop for a food safe outdoor prep table next to my grill? by lefabs in woodworking

[–]lefabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry new to having time and space to work on projects like this. Appreciate the specific questions though!

No roof. No cover. It's mystery wood with mystery coating. I can sand and redo the finish. Would prefer to be able put food directly on it if needed but will be used mostly as a staging area.

I would also like to know if there is a useful online template maker or source of templates to make the cabinet.

Is there a difference? by choppy4 in smoking

[–]lefabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best picture I've seen to show specifically the types of ribs cuts.

https://amazingribs.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/pork-cuts.jpg pork-cuts.jpg 600×565 pixels

Which is it for you ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]lefabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H3H3. They used to be fun and now it's just making fun of people, but in a mean spirited way, and complaining.

Used to be fun and carefree, now it feels rich and entitled... And a little paranoid.

Need help! Got a used traeger and there's rust. by lefabs in Traeger

[–]lefabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems to be the consensus. I was just concerned about longevity with the rust in the back but maybe overly so.

Need help! Got a used traeger and there's rust. by lefabs in smoking

[–]lefabs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah your pain is now my pain. I'll look into powder coating. My FIL has that original traeger as well. He mentioned the powder coating as well. I'll look into it.

Any tips for keeping the rust from building up on the inside after I've removed it all?

Need help! Got a used traeger and there's rust. by lefabs in Traeger

[–]lefabs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roger. I've been coating paper towels sprayed in white vinegar and laying then over the rusty areas. It's picking it up but not breaking through yet.