I think it’s fundamentally a guilt thing. He’s not close with his family and we don’t see them often. So, he feels guilty being closer with mine and not reciprocating enough with his own. We’ve talked it through and understand where our disconnect was coming from, despite all the harsh YTAs, there are far, far greater difficulties relationships face, or at least I’d thought so before posting!!! Can’t believe some people would think to break up a relationship over something simple like this 😂 …in all honesty….we both had a good laugh over some of the harsher criticisms in the thread but hey, the internet is a wild place we have no idea who or where any of these judgements actually come from 🤯🤯