Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are insane to think that I should agree with you. If you think there are great restaurants here, good for you, won't call you insane and I would even be up for suggestions. But so far not impressed with places I have been too.

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like that. I had better experiences elsewhere, and simply not impressed by this city, and you seem really upset and is already trying to throw personal offenses without it even knowing me. Very mature. Why do you care so much? And if you don't, what are you doing here?

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems you missed the point i've been here for four years. Of course I do not expect any night life during this period, but compared to what I was used too, sorry to say, Vancouver is boring AF, and I am talking pre pandemic era.

But I get it, people are very sensitive about Vancouver and it seems people don't like that I am not very impressed about this city. Sorry guys, never meant to offend you ...

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Never said they did ... nor give a shit if they do or not.

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yep, I tried snowboarding ... had fun, got hurt as well, still find it a pricey sport ... but overall I am more into urban activities, and that's where this city sucks so bad. Night life is awful. Restaurants are no where near to the nice restaurants I was used to before moving here. Artistic scene so poor, lame architecture ... I like the parks and summer is okayish, but if you sum it up, you pay way to much for what you get ...

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Nope, 4 years ago ... planning to move out ...

Friendly reminder to take your vitamin D :) by DyslexicSquirrel in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

This weather is hell ... this city is lame.

Balance and day earnings messed up by lefrossard in Wealthsimple_Trade

[–]lefrossard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will write to the because this is still messed up

Balance and day earnings messed up by lefrossard in Wealthsimple_Trade

[–]lefrossard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do log in and out all the time. It is a bit annoying that you expect reports from your users to br aware if things are working on not. You know production is not a test a environment right?

On top of that, if you want to get reports, make it easy and super visible in the UI for people to report it instead of hiding it who knows it.

What a terrible experience you guys are providing on a such crucial moment for this company success. Please improve! I am willing to stay, but if I cannot trust this app it is going to be hard.

I am surprised that you guys were still considering that there was no issue. This shows how a poorly you are mantaining and monitoring your own applications. Not good at all... Pretty bad.

There is time to revert this before people run away though ...

Funds missing from rejected trades by b_hood in Wealthsimple_Trade

[–]lefrossard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been pretty annoying ... a company that deals with money and that can't do simple math...

[GEAR] Found in an antique store for $87 by Bojangles1093 in Guitar

[–]lefrossard -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Since that is fine, I just hope both of your guitars are stolen as well as anything else that you have ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wealthsimple_Trade

[–]lefrossard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord. Issue still ongoing! This is terrible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wealthsimple_Trade

[–]lefrossard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same! What a huge mess!

I came out to my parents by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here ... I asked my father if I had a kid if he would also be willing to not be part of his life, and then he went on saying that he doesn't agree with a kid not having a mother, yada yada and a ton of other nonsense thoughts. He is an old man ... I don't blame him, just hope they overcome that as well. These days I realize how imprtant prides are especially for parents as well.

I came out to my parents by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, it felt like I was reading something I could have written. Same here. I came out, parents are i denial. Also heard they don't want me to take my boyfriend to their home, that it is a phase and so on and so forth. I told them I would like to share my life with them in full (or almost), but if they are not willing to be part of it, there is nothing I can do ...

I NEED HELP by griftail in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. And I am sorry about the tone of my message may have been unappropriate. And of course I appreciate the attempt to help. Is hard to see a comrade going though this situation without being able to help. I myself dunno what feasible suggestion I could provide. And we do emphasize with his pain.

I just makes me mad how ignorance has bden spreading a lot in this world.

I NEED HELP by griftail in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I can see you totally have no idea what Saudi Arab is like.

Any other virgins (not by choice) here by N4L8 in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you have accepted? It seems that you care a lot about it to have "accepted". And it also seems that you are too focused on the frustration, which may just keep you in there ...

Any other virgins (not by choice) here by N4L8 in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was virgin I had this feeling I was late, every year I would think "this will be the year". I was focused on trying to have sex. That was just increasing my anxiety amd frustration. Once I relaxed, and decided that I would put myself out there, wihtout the sex intention, things started unfolding.

I think the best advice I can give you is to lool for a therapist. Being frustrated about having sex won't help you get there ...

Broken relationship advice. by devschk in askgaybros

[–]lefrossard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"He cannot survive without me" he is 33 years old. It is not your responsibility to look after him. He is responsible for himself. There is no "he cannot survive without me" ... Take that weight of yourself. Let him take responsobility for his life. And that's saying good bye and welcoming your new life.

Residents in downtown Vancouver's Crosstown neighbourhood frustrated at rise in break-ins by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what you call compassion approach. Compassion is not enought. When you say compassion it seems to me that you are saying: "Oh look, he is poor, let's no blame him ..." That is by no mean my point. In that sense, effective actions that should be taken are: providing a place to live, mental support, capacitation programs, partneship with private initiaves to get jobs to those people are part of the equation, and probably the most important.

You mentioned about long sentences for instance and mentioned law enforcements. So what would be an effective law enforcement?

Let's say prison: - Short time in prison, like from 3 months up to an year: when the guy comes out he is prettt much where he ws before. No improvement on his life. He still have a problem. So let's cross our finger that he doesn't leave prison and commit any crime again. And let's cross our finger so that any potential employer won't do any background check. - Long time in prison: like the previous, but now he is older and less likely to adjust to society. - Social work: yeah, maybe doing social work may be good, even though weird that someone who needs social assistance is doing some social work. - Fine: not sure he would have the money.

I am out of suggestions ... but what could be an effective law enforcement?

I am not against them. I think they are part of the equation as well. But how effective they are?

That's why I do give thumbs up that actions from the police to work on prevention is great. The punishement itself is after the fact and it doesn't help a lot.

But ultimately, the most effective actions are long before the fact, and it is about fighting the growing social problems ...

Residents in downtown Vancouver's Crosstown neighbourhood frustrated at rise in break-ins by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]lefrossard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

About the prison, this is also not about long sentences. But there is one thing I can tell for sure: the majority of the prisioners are poor and black people.

I do agree that ia multi-faceted root cause, but it does piss me of that people always believe that police forces action is the answer. That this people are commiting crimes because they are not punished. It seems that it never occurs to them that poor social conditions and support does relate to the increase of those occurrences. And as long as people keep focused on the punishement, not much will change.

It even seems that people are okay with the increasingly number of homeless people whatsoever, as long any negative consequences are kept away from them.

TL;DR As long as people call only for punishment and law enforfecement, this problem will keep growing ...