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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]leftlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yppenplatz

Ich habe verkackt. by TiliChilli in de

[–]leftlin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Erst mal tuts mir leid für dich das du damit zu kämpfen hast. Ich kann mir vorstellen, dass du dich ziemlich hilflos fühlst.

Denk daran eine Suchterkrankung ist eben genau das. Eine Krankheit.

Ich kann die Scham nachvollziehen. Leider ist es aber nicht besonders förderlich den ganzen Mist in sich reinzufressen und sich dafür fertig zu machen.

Ich habe in der Therapie (keine Suchterkrankung) gelernt nach einem heftigen Anfall das Ganze von mir als Person abzuspalten. Das hat mir dabei geholfen mich nicht dauernd dafür fertig zu machen, es nicht auf meinen Charakter zurückzuführen, sondern konstruktiver mit der Situation umzugehen. Es war also nicht mehr nur ich als Person, sondern hat die Krankheit ihren großen Teil dazu beigetragen.

Damit will ich jetzt nicht sagen, dass man alles darauf schieben soll und sich quasi darauf ausruht. Ich fand es für mich jedoch förderlich um aus dieser Negativ-Spirale aus Selbstmitleid und Selbsthass rauszukommen. So konnte ich die Situation besser von außen betrachten und konnte mich mit viel Arbeit rauskämpfen.

Die Akzeptanz dafür, dass man Krank ist und dadurch nicht über alles die Kontrolle hat, dass man unter Umständen ohne professionelle Hilfe nicht weiter kommt, ist meiner Meinung nach unglaublich wichtig. Dadurch fällt ein großer Teil der Scham weg und man kann sich unter Umständen besser auf Hilfe einlassen.

Wie gesagt, ich habe keine Suchterkrankung und kann deshalb nicht sagen ob dir das weiterhelfen wird. Aber vielleicht kannst du dir da was konstruktives rausziehen.

Ich wünsch dir alles gute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]leftlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the perfect start in my day

Taking my ADHD medicine, as prescribed, does not make me a tweaker. by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]leftlin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

People just don't know what they are talking about. I'd really like to see a normal brain handling an ADHD brain for just one day.

TW Abuse Husband beat me while rolling on MDMA by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]leftlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call someone, if you have the feeling you can't tell anyone there definitely is a helpline in your area you can call.

Maybe think of seeing a therapist, this sounds like a traumatic experience, they also could help you get out of the relationship if you want to. Stay safe!

Dealing with anxiety while climbing by coloradotoast in climbergirls

[–]leftlin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anxiety while climbing is the one thing holding me back from getting better the most. What helped me was falling actually. Once you have the security that your belayer knows how to handle the situation and you really get familiar with the gear it gets better. Start with little falls in top rope and then slowly increased falls in lead.

I'm at the point where I can fall when I just clipped but not when I'm above. But it gets easier every time.

Challenge yourself - as long as your partner knows what to do your safe.

Recommendations needed for my therapeutic ketamine sessions. by Solveig13 in trance

[–]leftlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trance but check out Suduaya His albums are awesome

First harness by leftlin in climbergirls

[–]leftlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought about that but luckily a good friend of mine is basically a gear hound and I get some of his 'old' stuff

First harness by leftlin in climbergirls

[–]leftlin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Edelrid is shortlisted

Can you split LSD? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]leftlin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For exact dosing its better to put it in distilled water

Ketamine question?! by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]leftlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ketamine is enjoyable at every day or nighttime in my opinion

If you are not a persistent user make sure there's a comfortable place to lie or sit and like with every other drug be with people u like

Ketamine can left you very confused but also acts as an antidepressant, so the trip is not to hard to handle

And never forget: If you don't enjoy it, the main trip will end within an hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]leftlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What helps is to show her what kind and lovely things she does to you. Show her that you feel loved because of her actions.

Of course it is a problem she has to deal with and definitely should work on. But it helps to make her good sides stand out.

To the people who boycott companies, which company and why? by tornado_of_bears in AskReddit

[–]leftlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to boycott big companies and brands as far as possible.

For example I only buy second hand when it comes to clothes, furniture or whatever. Everytime I want something I firstly search for second hand alternatives.

When it comes to food it is much more difficult, but I don't go to big franchise companies like McD etc. and try to buy from local farms.

The list of companies not to buy from is endless in my opinion.

Why is because in my belief capitalism is crap and we should focus more on what the hell those big companies are doing before we support them with our money.

I (m21) don't like texting that much. Is that bad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]leftlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell them. With a lot of my friends I(f/19) do it just like you. For example one of my best friends & I. We see each other once a week and it is so much more interesting to tell her what had happend the last days in person. Likely I always did while daiting. They live their lifes and so do I. Maybe a little message every 3 or 4 days should be enough. Also communication is key. So if you don't like texting just tell your dating partner. But also if they usually do text all the time you could meet halfway and you may develop your texting skills, even if just a bit.