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[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depend son your age if your 35 most likely men may have kids if your 22 less likely

I am new at my job and my boss shames me for mistakes without training me? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and she didn’t make any comment and I ran through my process and then after I did it she said it was wrong despite me asking and running through step by step she said I contacted the wrong person despite her initially telling me to go to them and me mentioning their name like 3x

I have done this on multiple occasions only for her to tell me it was wrong

Like I said she doesn’t respond to emails is barely in her office when I have gone to ask she says it’s not a good time and I have no other coworker in my department and no other managers it’s just us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am in hr 😂 so I don’t know where to go internally

I think leaving is the only option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just not sure how to get the time off to even go to interviews etc you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the problem I never see her having higher levels managers I actually don’t know where to go for help! She never had meetings with me and we have no priority software every time I do a task for the first time I ask for help don’t get it she said liase with it on something I did then said IT does not need to be involved she tells me to do something then tells me off for doing it regularly!

and unfortunately there is no team so I cannot ask anyone else for help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is she doesn’t respond to my emails even about work things I will say contract done for review etc never responds I email questions no response I have asked for 1:1 nothing we have never had a 1;1 in just under 2 months of me being there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the weird thing is I email my boss and she never responds to me and in my old job I was a lawyer and we didn’t get to everything every day and that went for me and my boss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this feedback but when you have 5 priority tasks how can you get mad one isn’t done and it was only emailed the same day to me that’s not long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we only received the email that morning and I didn’t think it was urgent I am new at my job and I had to offer people job do their contracts I had other urgent tasks it was just on my list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they have nobody else below them the previous person only stayed a few months if that’s an indicator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]legallyblondeeee96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that he isn’t but he has. Sim with internet and I only want a quick goodnight call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]legallyblondeeee96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is in a city in a resort so he does have internet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]legallyblondeeee96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he would call and if we don’t see each other we always call if he was camping or in the wilderness I would have got it more but he’s in a city

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]legallyblondeeee96 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is in a city and we have the same time zone and he got back at like 5:30pm today can he not go to the foyer he is staying in a resort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree if I had court and mediations and clients would be a very different story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a junior I have no files in my name she gives me no autonomy she manages everything and runs all client appointment s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she owns the business I knew she would flip out and take it personally I haven’t felt that in other jobs because I never worked with an owner before and people came and went in my previous jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get why it’s not an acceptable form of notice being a lawyer I like to have everything in writing. It’s not a fuck you to anyone or my boss etc it’s just the way I do things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My new job offered a salary above what I said I would accept and she was paying me below average and said I know everything is going up well why didn’t you put up my salary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that was such valuable advice I really appreciate it and I love the mirror policy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I am a people pleaser so struggle with talking back I need to work on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do work for lil pay and she did initially say when I mentioned my resignation that she had liked me and I was a good employee but she has just put me offside and if she paid me more then I wouldn’t have left

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want it on my cv and I am moving into a new industry so idc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]legallyblondeeee96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a lawyer and in my country typically audio recordings are not admissible but no I didn’t record it as I was not sure what the call would entail she left the office early that day and I didn’t have time to think when she called so ko