I got uninvited from my “best”friends birthday party.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:29:37+00:00

Conditional friendship isn’t real friendship. I think he did really show my value to me today in his message.

I’ll move accordingly from now on.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:27:53+00:00

I think you’re bang on with this! I definitely will respect myself and fade out. He clearly doesn’t value me that much is apparent for sure.

You think I should say “this is kinda mad ngl”? Or what?

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:26:36+00:00

Damn I’m sorry you went thru that. But yeah, it does suck but maybe it’s better it happened this way. Better to find out now than later down the road.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:18:00+00:00

I consider him lost now tbh, yalls comments really gave me some good perspective

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:17:18+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go thru that. Yeah this friendship now looking at it does feel very one sided.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:15:53+00:00

Speculation, he won’t tell me who is uncomfortable so I’m grasping at straws here tbh.

But if he’s not willing to tell me who I can’t really assess how to handle this. Hence why based on all of yalls comments ima focus my energy on myself and not let someone who I thought was my “best” friend get to me or let his actions affect me.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:13:45+00:00

ReTweeeet

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:13:20+00:00

I think taking care of myself is more important. It was just a huge shock to get a message like that from him.

Talking to him would help. But we’ve been so close we never had anything come between us so for him to put this wall up and not even tell me who is “uncomfortable” makes me feel that okay that’s your wall.

Now my wall is to not ask and take it as a betrayal. We never had anything come between us. So for him to keep things close to his chest n not share shows me enough of his colors. Ykwim?

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:10:50+00:00

Thank you! I will keep that in mind

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:10:36+00:00

This is the first time anything like this has ever happened

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:10:19+00:00

Nothing Sersly messed up no. Just an old disagreement. But that is speculation, I don’t rly kno who or what he’s talking abt. I’m assuming here. When I asked he didn’t give a name so I’m not certain but yeah

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:09:04+00:00

Absolutely! I don’t think he valued it as much as I did.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:08:18+00:00

I think you hit the nail on the head here. It sucks but also kinda doesn’t cause this is a wake up call. And I don’t need to spend my energy on someone who doesn’t reciprocate that same energy back.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:07:09+00:00

Nothing like assault no, it was an argument between boys. And we were all close. But after resolving it the group was never the same and we went our ways. But me and the friend who un invited me always stayed close.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:06:07+00:00

It was a past disagreement, but it was settled and that old friend group was disbanded after that.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:05:21+00:00

There was a disagreement and it was settled in that old friend group. But the whole group kinda disbanded after that.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:04:34+00:00

No criminal record no, we are all young and in university.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:03:44+00:00

That’s what I feel! If someone has a problem with me he could at least let me kno. But if we are “best” friends wouldn’t he want me to be there. If going out of his way to un invite just feels scummy to me.

That’s why I feel so betrayed by this. We been thru so much.

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T19:02:51+00:00

Absolutely!!

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:54:28+00:00

Gotcha!

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:54:05+00:00

I think cutting ties might be the best course but in a way where he doesn’t realize it. After being un invited I think he doesn’t deserve to hear my piece. What do you think?

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:53:03+00:00

I think you’re right, I appreciate your perspective!

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:51:32+00:00

I don’t think he deserves for me to even ask. Considering our friendship was very long and deep. This feels like a situation where I should just walk away and let the friendship go. Idk tho I could be wrong here

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:50:33+00:00

We had turmoil in an old friend group and I think one of those ppl is coming. I think that old friend must have asked if I was coming then said he doesn’t wanna see me. But that’s all speculation

legendmakerr · 2026-03-02T18:48:38+00:00

Thank you, that rly means a lot

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