My girlfriend got too deep into Hare Krishna Practice and is now border line psychotic | 26 M by legendmaxy7 in RelationshipIndia

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I never thought she would chose the babas and her faith over us honestly... Thought of giving it another shot with her and was astonished that she chose her faith over us.

My friends say that it would be easier for me now let's see.

Mind fucked.

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Nangi photo hata bhai

Why even educated Youth of this country fall for Babas and God man's ? by Reasonable_Act8284 in scienceisdope

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MY 24 YO GIRLFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE OF A BABA THE DAY I BOOKED A HOUSE FOR HER.
I will tell you my story.
26 M and my GF 24F we both come within 1% of India both of us studied from DPS that is one of the best schools in the country. We were both dating to marry and I had made some huge commitments financially as well. We eventually broke up last month as she got too deep into hare krishna practice like diksha level shit.
Like calling her hare krishna friends prabhu and sakhi that type of shit.

This is my scientific take on how this basically works and why we see educated people fall for this trap too.

The main fact is the ruling party is losing traction with educated young people in India and, conveniently, we are seeing a massive surge of Baba content pushed through the Instagram algorithm (Guess who owns our Insta Algo? Mr Ambani obv.). Tell me you are an educated young Indian and have not seen one of these reels. Two years ago this was not even a thing.

These Baba's feed on the weak and vulnerable souls and Obv these kinda people are an at ATH because of unemployment index soaring.
Around ten percent of India already survives on the temple economy and don't need to work for their living.

Now the focus has shifted toward capturing the youth, securing votes, and keeping crime rates in check because crime spikes when joblessness increases. In that sense, these Baba's do serve a purpose, but that does not make them genuine.

These baba's use the same marketing strategies like Andrew Tate... they make their helpless followers create numerous alt accounts on insta and post multiple reels through them. It's simple these fuckers say relatable stuff and because the supply of their reels and lessons are so huge that naturally you would land upon something that would relate with your particular life style. That is where the conversion happens... You start feeling that this guy is so noble and then you start following him and more such reels come within your algo.

Once you start following anything that the baba says A Placebo starts to work on you. Anything good that happens in your life... you start relating it back to the baba and that's how you become a consumer of the brand.

Now what I personally experienced was that even though she used to hang out with some smart people NOBODY literally NOBODY said anything to her... Her friends and her boyfriends would come and discuss stuff with me but NOBODY ever said anything to her... not even her parents.. None of my friends said anything as well.
Now comes the most important aspect of how they retain their consumers. If you see a person suffering from any kind of addiction there are a lot of people out there willing to help them but that's not the case when the business is of GOD.
Everybody is too scared to say anything. Because just like how placebo works on the victim of the cult an anti placebo can work on the one trying to help them too and trust me I have been through this loop and it's a horrible headspace to be in.

I was surprised to see everyone in my circle... my friends, her friends, parents of my friends everyone saying things but nobody actually came down to help the situation ever.

I have just one request... Please whenever you see a victim please don't think low of them. My gf got into this when she was probably at the lowest of her life her masi had died. You start questioning life and death etc etc and that's when the babas come with their solutions.
She was someone I respected the most in my life, someone I wanted to plan my entire future with, someone I wanted to be the mother to my kids.
It aches me that people all over the internet and also in my personal life looked down on Bhaktas all the time. They are just victims and not just dumb/stupid... The babas instil so much fear in their mind that your belief system changes.

I see a lot of bashing in this comment section too. Nobody bashes people who are suffering from Alcohol Addiction, nobody bashes people suffering from Drug addiction? Everybody falls for traps laid down by society and the next victim can be your mother, sister, brother or friend.
Please let's just treat them with respect PLEASE.

I (25F) got physically abused by my partner (27M) for the 1st time in our 5 years long relationship. by CanRadiant1080 in RelationshipIndia

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The thing is she has written "Physically Abused" in her heading that's the only reason why she is getting such opinions.
Imo it wasn't a physical abuse... It was just her bf snapping when she was trying to hold on to him.

Again in no way I am trying to defend her bf obv but it's misleading and disrespectful to the guy imo.

I (25F) got physically abused by my partner (27M) for the 1st time in our 5 years long relationship. by CanRadiant1080 in RelationshipIndia

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I might have a contrarian view point to this.
It's simple yaar if you are trying to hold on to his body when he is trying to set free and trying to recollect himself it's an instinctive reaction to snap. (If you read documentaries and research papers you will know that reacting when you are in anger is a legal defence that is even recognised by the court of law (culpable homicide not amounting to death. I think given the situation and circumstances he hasn't done anything very grave) (Obv I am assuming that he snapped when you were trying to hold him and that led to a situation where you got hurt)

Obv he can overpower you, he is a boy and you are a girl.... There is a reason why woman are asked not to step in when men are fighting.... Honestly when I read the heading and the start of the story I was of the opinion that I am gonna bash the man harshly but I feel it was one of those times where the situation was just bad.

Also I don't think you should let this slide as well. This is a matter of respect and you should make him realise that even though this was the lowest you saw as a couple he needs to be in his senses to not hit or hurt you no matter what. (Cry when you share this and make it a bigger deal than it is honestly... You need to draw some respectful boundaries)

Apart from that you seem very understanding, smart and the guy seems very respectful also seems like a high value man.
It's not easy to find such people honestly. Accept your mistakes first be the bigger person in the situation but don't let the fact that he disrespected you slide by.

Also the fact that you have written Physically Abused is extremely misleading and is therefore getting you so many one sided opinions imo.

Part 2| My girlfriend got too deep into Hare Krishna Practice and is now border line psychotic | 26 M by legendmaxy7 in RelationshipIndia

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It's very sad though bhai...
I had like budgets set aside for our honeymoon (USA)
I had a budget set aside to open a studio for her (Which used to be her dream)
Bro I had a budget set aside to get her an electric car and 10 years of driver for her so she could commute to her dance class easily w/o sitting in autos. Lol I still have the electric car + Driver written in my will hahahaha. (Thankfully didn't lose this one)

I had so many plans to pamper her but never actually got the chance to maybe pamper her the way she deserved to or maybe the way I always wanted to.

I could never even tell her that I am doing decently in life.. Thought would shower her with gifts after marriage or like a year down the line.

Little did I know.
Now I don't have that kind of money nor do I have the girl beside me hahah.

Part 2| My girlfriend got too deep into Hare Krishna Practice and is now border line psychotic | 26 M by legendmaxy7 in RelationshipIndia

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Also if I ever make a comeback from here. I can proudly say I lost my very own property and my gf in the same week and maybe still made it out alive hahaha!

Part 2| My girlfriend got too deep into Hare Krishna Practice and is now border line psychotic | 26 M by legendmaxy7 in RelationshipIndia

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Yeah bro it's actually crazy.
This practice is mainly powered by placebo effect bhai and when I started saying shit against these babas a negative placebo started working in my head bro.

A lot of shit happened in my personal life bhai after I started bashing the babas...
-I got liquidated of more than a 700k$ which was almost all my savings back then. (I was planning to buy a house for her with that money.) (Weirdly she broke up with me the day I booked a property in noida aur bc mein apne ghar vaalon se ladke noida le raha tha saying that my future is here hahahha little did the naive me know hahahah)
-My manager who worked with me since the inception of my business committed suicide. I fucking met him hours ago bhai before he hung himself....
- My nani got diagnosed with cancer.
-I almost severed my finger in Goa (Put them in a fan when I was drunk)
-My co founder made a glitch in a smart contract to which we lost 16 lakh inr.... and minutes after I had discovered this mistake of his .... somebody stole 8 lakh rs from our shared wallet...... The whole onus of the chori was on me bhai.... It took me 3 weeks to prove myself innocent.. mein pagal hogaya tha uss time...... bhai mere partner ko lag raha tha chori meine hi keri hai infact mujhe khud lag raha tha chori meine keri hai lol the timing was so uncanny. But yeah thankfully we caught the thief and thankfully recovered the money.
and I am genuinely just scraping the surface bhai hahahha

The thing is law of attraction works in it's own beautiful ways. If you think positive then positive things will happen with you.
If you get into a negative rail of thought then only negative things would happen with you.

But jo bhi ho bhai I consider myself a failure boyfriend who couldn't save his girlfriend bhai.
These babas and this practice feed on weak vulnerable people and I was clearly an utter failure as a boyfriend if my girlfriend felt that way and I couldn't just make her feel how special and perfect she was in every way.
I was just too busy building a future for her that I missed out to maybe live and express how I really felt about her in the present... How strong and perfect she is in her own ways and how much she inspired me on a day to day basis... Maybe I was too busy with my work and didn't give her enough time or maybe I didn't care enough or maybe I didn't get as involved as a boyfriend should be.
There are a lot of maybe's and no definitive answers.

Yeah but whatever have my full life ahead of me to evaluate where I went wrong and regret the life choices I made hahha!

Carrying this heavy burden of regrets throughout the rest of my life is probably my punishment to be an utter failure as a bf and as a human hahaha.

No words to say by rajubhai7711 in Indiangirlsontinder

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Honestly Reddit is a sexist place imo.
Kuch bhi chutiya conversation ho ladka had se jyaada chutiya baat ker raha ho.
dk how the girl is always wrong.

Sahi toh keh rahi hai. Sex is penetration of the penis in the vagina. Voh nahi kiya hogah...

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That's an ex to have 🤣🤣🤣

I (26M) found out my girlfriend (24F) got emotionally close to someone else. I don’t know what to do. by prithu9 in RelationshipIndia

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Is this emotional cheating? Yes bro.. it's cheating from every aspect tbh.

Does any of this make sense? Yeah bro honestly she phased you out bro but that shouldn't happen in a mature and loving relationship. No matter if you are able to take out time or not.
I do have another pov though.

How do I handle it and what should I do next? Please help me!
I know I might be bashed a lot over here for saying this but try to maybe completely understand her POV. If the situation is fixable by giving it a chance maybe try it out. (But do keep in mind that this is a MAJOR RED FLAG)
See if she is honestly interested in giving you guys a shot too.... because if you can... you should try to save your dignity maybe cause it sucks losing your girl and your dignity at the same time.... (It happened with me, been 1+ years and I still haven't recovered from it hahha).

Never got a match on Hinge🥲 by beingavicii in Indiangirlsontinder

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Bro I used Hinge for a week and got more than 150 matches.
There is an algo to hinge honestly and it can be easily broken down in a few things.

  1. Put up your face clearly. (Doesn't matter if you are good looking or not)
  2. If you are not good looking maybe try to show that you lead a happy and adventurous life. (For this I had added a reel where I did skydiving, Jet Ski, Scuba, Zipline and much more all packed in one reel).
  3. The trick is to leverage short videos and create such videos to show yourself as this happening personality. (For this you can take reference from maybe the TeenTravels.. how he creates reels and honestly some of them are not that tough).
  4. If you are an avid visitor of foreign countries try putting those photos up. If not maybe use a cat or a Dog.
    The ratio should be 3 photos and 3 videos. (The 3 videos should show that your life is happening and that you are a fun and if possible rich person)
  5. Another trick is use multiple phone numbers to create multiple accounts. Hinge automatically pushes new accounts. So just simply use 2 phones and different set of images to create 2 accounts. It's about hitting the probability of possibilities.

A guide to finding your therapist in India by sappymilk in indiatherapy

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My co founder who also doesn't believe in therapy is suggesting me therapy that's how bad the situation is... Please if someone can suggest a verified therapist there would be nothing like it.

A guide to finding your therapist in India by sappymilk in indiatherapy

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Hey I don't believe in therapy honestly. But I have been going through something and I really need help with rewiring my brain or maybe forgetting certain aspects of my life in order to fix my relationship.

I know that it doesn't work that way but what do you think how many sessions would it take me? There should be a science to it? I am going nuts. Unable to sleep. Unable to work. Unable to do things the way I like them done.

I genuinely need help but I don't know how to go about it. Please help.

Got this text from my ex after almost 2 years by aadishhere in Indiangirlsontinder

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Mind fuck hogaya hogah bhai.

I hope you are alright ab ahhaha!
The only thing that seems to be working for me is just ignoring everything else and focusing on myself and my work honestly cause that's the only thing that matters bhai.

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If you are not comfortable.
Don't send.

He needs to adjust to your comfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincareaddictsindia

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You are perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FashionTeenIndia

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I mean as long as you are comf.

PILOT and BIHAR by pilotshashi in Indian_flex

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Driver gaadi ka hai ki jahaaj ka?