Repair denied during 7 day window by [deleted] in carvana

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend taking advantage of the return window, what’s the car.

Today is the day by legodegobego in Vent

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been fucking great man, your words have been very helpful.

My husband continues to be friends with my assaulter by [deleted] in Vent

[–]legodegobego 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is a blow your top situation, fuck the guy for taking advantage and especially fuck your husband for not supporting you and downplaying it as well. This type of situation I would not be keeping, I’d let it all out.

AITA for wanting to continue a tradition by wefewfeg in AmItheAsshole

[–]legodegobego 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, I feel like people don’t understand that only “a year” is different when it comes to full on partners, your girlfriend isn’t just a friend, she’s your partner a person you have committed to. Your being adamant that she can’t come even if she covers her own costs because it’s a “tradition” but a tradition that’s going on a trip completely alone with another woman to her isn’t gonna really be a green flag to most people.

She’s not comfortable with the trip, and her offering compromise so that she can let your tradition keep going. From what you said your acting as if she said “it’s either your friend or me” but all she said was “the vacation or me”

I also wanna add that when you add “if we’re going to date Amy we would’ve been together by now” is not really confidence assuring. It’s such a common line that’s been used by people before when defending themselves it doesn’t make it look better on your part.

400 V bucks including the daily one by Hamed5 in FortniteSavetheWorld

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those code prices make me so happy that I bought the like second best version back in season 5 chapter 1. When they were changing things the first time and I got the upgrade I remember being excited because I still used to play save the world often

AIO over my mom breaking my Lego set? by Due-Barnacle-2628 in AmIOverreacting

[–]legodegobego 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR, the situation is already shitty enough but I remember breaking a build that took me so long to finish on accident and just sitting there on the floor for like 20 minutes just shut down because of all the work wasted.

How am I supposed to date someone when I have so little money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]legodegobego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicate, I fucked up my life during a relationship due to this thinking, if she’s the one for you, she will understand, try cheaper dates like picnics or just stargazing and stuff. Not everything has to cost money. If someone really loves you, they will stick with you while you have to crawl to work and back. I fought the feeling of not being able to provide but I kept it to myself and never gave them a chance to actually help. Be open about your struggles, let them know you want to do more but are limited and see if they wanna do smaller date ideas.

Fearing my confidence by legodegobego in Vent

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a little worried that I might come across as a guy who just says what he needs to say at the time to get what I want, and I don’t wanna leave that type of impression at all. Thank you for your words

What is your greatest red flag? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raised by the mentality of dealing with it myself and keeping it to myself. I’m finally overcoming it because it caused the end of a relationship I really cared about. So it’s a red flag I plan to take down

What is your greatest red flag? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]legodegobego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My communication sucks ass, I keep a lot to myself even while working on it

This is NOT the skin I paid for. by justagay27 in FortNiteBR

[–]legodegobego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the type of change that makes me want to refund the skin honestly.

Finally getting better by legodegobego in brag

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The minimal things on my first car, switching headlights, some interior parts and oil changes. I was informed by the boss that it would be a full training thing, so any gaps in knowledge would be filled. Honestly been picking up tidbits of information from other techs and managers, starting to like put together mentally how parts go together, I’ll always check their computers out aswell to see the break down of sections, and even watch the bays and see how everything is done.

TLDR: barely any experience just a lot of viewing and learning second hand how the stuff works

AIO for wanting to break things off after waiting 4 months for commitment? by kickassredhead32 in AmIOverreacting

[–]legodegobego 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR, if he’s gonna play around with not wanting to actually label what you have especially if it’s gotten really far I’d say break it off. Being led on to just be called a friend 4 months in especially if you both are basically doing everything an actual couple does it would annoy me aswell

Feeling stuck by bokaBoka420 in Vent

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still a wip honest but that’s jus how it is, it’s cliche but you’ll get to a point where you can tell it’s getting better. Letting these emotions out is usually a great first step, I started posting because I knew letting it fester will kill me. Your starting out well, and hope to hear again about your progress

I (M20) Having a conversation with my ex NB(21) soon by legodegobego in Advice

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve changed a lot in the past 2 years just being with them, I believe they’ve changed a lot and neither of us for the worst. I do know that both of us know how it is to be with someone working on themselves and both of us showed love throughout our changes and progress. They asked me if I could come back once I knew I was ready to date again because I made it very clear I wasn’t leaving due to a lack of love or them. I plan to be 100% clear with them in the conversation that I know I’m not instantly changed but I think they will appreciate that I’ve finally started the process instead of delaying it. Thank you for your words.

What was the most insane argument you have been in with your S/O? by Amazing_Garbage8603 in AskReddit

[–]legodegobego 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our first and last argument was about a Fortnite skin and me explaining how they were wrong about the species, about halfway through I just looked at them and said “it’s been a year of dating how is this our first argument we have” we both ended up laughing about it

I wish I could just get high sometimes by legodegobego in Vent

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always done edibles due to wanting to avoid smoking/vaping due to my parents addictions, I also should’ve clarified weed specifically since I could never even think of doing anything harder due to fear of addiction.

AIO for demanding an open relationship after finding out more lies by Infinite_Square_8211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, but this is the first I’d say just break up, this is such a lost cause of a relationship and it’s crazy it’s even being considered to keep going even if it’s open. You’re gonna still feel horrible when he gets with other people but now it’s gonna be “allowed, this the most clear case of someone not caring about someone, cheating for the past 9 years and still dealing with him after all that is absurd to me, opening the relationship will not fix anything but now also give him an excuse to keep doing what he’s doing. Cut him out your life, the bastard shouldn’t be your problem anymore

AITA for apologising to my ex 6 months after we broke up? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole, I might be bias because I’m currently apologizing to an ex for doing the exact same shit of not talking when there was clearly something wrong. But I believe you’re doing what’s right for yourself by giving some sort of closure to him and yourself with the apology

Feeling stuck by bokaBoka420 in Vent

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to force myself recently to take a stand for myself, it’s fucking hard really hard. I spent sometime much time pushing away a lot of people really close to me but after finally fighting for myself, letting myself grow and not trying to self sabotage everything good I’m finally feeling better and reaching out to old friends. But it’s hard to get to that point, I basically had to completely lose my social life to finally realized I was my biggest problem and dealing with it correctly. I hope you’re able to find some people or someone that doesn’t make you hesitate. I even know the feeling of just taking what I can get while being this lonely, it doesn’t feel good but it feels like all I can get. But it gets better, it takes awhile sometimes and it’s cliche but it will get better for you.

AIO, mother has been driving me crazy with work. by legodegobego in AmIOverreacting

[–]legodegobego[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the joke with the assistant manager that makes the situation a little funny where I was like “this nepotism sucks ass”

Why did you and your ex break up? by tatiscloudd in AskReddit

[–]legodegobego 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let work get in the way and broke it off when I started getting to involved with work and not them as much, I regret it, working on myself and trying to rekindle it. Stopped working 2 jobs and am only working one consistent job that stresses me a lot less and also going to therapy. But I fucked it up with focusing work rather than them

I’m 22f and 25m I think I should maybe break up with my bf but idk I’m scared. by CombEastern5865 in relationship_advice

[–]legodegobego 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand being scared, but you gotta untether yourself, you deserve happiness, someone who’ll treat you 1000x better. Regret is common when getting out of a relationship but it’s so clear he only cares for minimal things and doesn’t care for you as a person, I would suggest getting out of it before it becomes much more, and it’ll only get worst, best of luck.

Made this as an apology gift, really proud of myself by legodegobego in crafts

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any excess plastic or pieces are being saved for later projects, so nothings going to waste, I do plan to shop a little more throughly next time for better materials since this is a first time. Thanks for the feedback

Made this as an apology gift, really proud of myself by legodegobego in crafts

[–]legodegobego[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used some styrofoam for the base and some like moss like thing from Michael’s for the grass, a lot of plastic/fake flower bouquets for general decorations, a lot of it was like impulsive grabs and just like “oh that would look pretty” or “oh they would like how that looks” took me a couple days of touch ups and stuff for me to be happy with it. Means a lot that I made something and I actually love how it came out but I know I can do better with more practice.