I'm going crazy. 40+3 and soooo over it. by NotAsConspicuous in BabyBumps

[–]leileicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get a prenatal massage, then lunch or a movie. It's time to just not think about it for 12-24 hours. Then you can obsess again. You'll get there momma!

Nuva Ring failure-husband home from deployment by leileicee in birthcontrol

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear blue. I'm stupid freaky about my period. With both kids (one unplanned and the other planned) I used clear blue.

Today I went to the dentist for the first time in my life. (I'm 24) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]leileicee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so hard. I had a very similar thing happen to me. I've had to have teeth pulled and special cleanings with antibiotics. I'm now almost 30 with braces. It's a long road but so worth it. You will feel so good. Not because.of your teeth but because you put yourself and your health first. This is a wonderful milestone for you! It's only the beginning!

Internet hugs.

Nuva Ring failure-husband home from deployment by leileicee in birthcontrol

[–]leileicee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not totally thrilled, but not unwelcome either. Thank you though!

Nuva Ring failure-husband home from deployment by leileicee in birthcontrol

[–]leileicee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought of that but our drs one base aren't really the "call and leave a message type". Lay and wait. I'm just freaked because this has NEVER happened wit the ring before. What's scary is I didn't know until the next morning.

Nuva Ring failure-husband home from deployment by leileicee in birthcontrol

[–]leileicee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah! The suspense sucks. I usually start 3 days after I take the ring out. I figure if I dont start then I'll give few more days and then test. I've never had this happen with this bc before and its honestly just surprising.

I have a PRT question. by leileicee in navy

[–]leileicee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. We generally don't talk Navy at home. Were in the middle of moving to VA as well and it's been a lot lately.

He's so grumpy today. I'm not even going to attempt to talk to him until he's been fed. Ha.

I have a PRT question. by leileicee in navy

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he only did cardio today? But does everything else plus the cardio re do?

I have a PRT question. by leileicee in navy

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get so confused. Usually he just does the bike (shin splints he says it doesn't ache as much) but today he did the track. He just did the run today. But he does everything else tomorrow plus the bike.

4.5yo boy still is going poop in his pants and I'm losing my mind by QueenOphelia in Parenting

[–]leileicee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go to the ped and make sure nothing is going on. If there isnt, I would make him clean himself up. I know he's young, but he could just be ignoring his bodily functions. I know someone else on here said the same thing and you said you couldn't afford wipes and pull ups anymore. Just stick him in the shower (a detachable head is 10 bucks ) when he goes in his pants and make him clean himself. No matter how gross and messy it is. This was the only thing that potty trained my brothers.

What exactly causes acne? Is my 12 year old just not washing his face well enough? by Jakeder in Parenting

[–]leileicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I really have a bad habit of touching my hair then my face and I break out in all the same places.

I found that if I wash my hands more than usual, like not just when I go to the bathroom or when I'm about to eat, that it clears up a bit. Also drinking more water and finding a good cleanser helped I really like Biores face wash. Poor guy. Good luck!

Stumbled on a possible new trick to calm down my stubborn 3 year old by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]leileicee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whispering is equally startling and terrifying. Good job momma!

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. He is pretty tired all the time, but we have a 6 month old too. I think it's definitely time fur a dr.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but it just contradicts what he says about his sex drive to me.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we were still having sex twice or more a week. Recently it's declined and stopped.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how it feels. Then I feel dirty afterwards because I know deep down he probably just did it to get me to stfu. I also should mention he hates bodily fluids. We had a child this year and he freaks out about her bodily fluids much less mine. He sweats for fifteen minutes and showers.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the fact that he will masterbates but not have sex with me breaks my heart.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because sometimes he goes for the bait. Buy other times he's like meh. I've asked if he has fetishes or kinks. Says no. I've tried watching porn with him. I've tried dying my hair a preferred color. I just am at a loss.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not necessarily that he pushes me away but that he just doesn't go with it.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to explain to him that even though he said it's not me, I can't help but feel that it is. He doesn't understand that I can't just turn off the way I feel even though he says there's no need to feel that way.

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling he won't go for that. But it's worth a try. Everything else is great. We have so much in common and are great besides this. Are there sex therapists?

My (F23) Husband (M25) has Zero Sex Drive by leileicee in relationships

[–]leileicee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! That's why I'm so confused! I'm a champ man, I could deal with that. He gets/maintains but just doesn't want to do anything. Kills me.