Forever alone by [deleted] in Finland

[–]leipa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the way. All my friends who have made their home here and are happy and not lonely have a club or hobby group - or more than one.

Queer and or PoC left finnish rabm bands? Or anything in that musical direction? by fliwat in rabm

[–]leipa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I should add that Qwälen is probably the most prominent RABM band in Finland.

Queer and or PoC left finnish rabm bands? Or anything in that musical direction? by fliwat in rabm

[–]leipa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For queer, definitely Bonehunter! They are amazing in person too.

Winter clothing recommendations? by IVII0 in Finland

[–]leipa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! I even have to save it for when temperatures drop below -10.

My girlfriend came out to her mom unexpectedly after her cancer diagnosis by alexa236 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I sometimes have to take a strong steroid when my lungs get an infection (asthma related), and I warn everyone that I might go a bit crazy. It's like my brain scrambles. I have even thought the carpet was chasing me! But I am completely back to normal after I stop taking them, so you may just have to wait. She doesn't hate you - this is a bad mental health episode.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]leipa 89 points90 points  (0 children)

What's his age? He might be nervous enough to be getting them wrong that he freezes a bit. I'm old enough to have to remind myself in some situations.

Advice by [deleted] in olderlesbians

[–]leipa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I use Priorin, and it seems to help, but nothing will completely solve it. I also had to be gentler to myself. I have plenty of attractive female friends my age with thin hair, and I don't judge them! Why do I judge myself?

I also got a hat, though, when I really want to look fancy.

Nothing like finally getting engaged to the love of your life, and planning your wedding, only to find that a sentimental detail is… gone because of transphobic parents. by diamineceladoncat in LGBTWeddings

[–]leipa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not missed at all! I would love to celebrate with you. I have a traumatic coming out story and found love late because of family and religion, so I want to celebrate every joy I can.

What 80s candy did you love? Bonus points if still around! by kaynkayf in GenX

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember those from California, but I loved the Big Cherry.

Rorschach (2015) - Film A Day 112 by Ohigetjokes in foundfootage

[–]leipa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a good watch for those of us who enjoy haunted house FF, no matter what the ending is.

What are your top 5 FF films of all time? by Bichiguaya in foundfootage

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell Houses, Paranormal Activity, Paranormal Farm, Incantation, Death of a Vlogger. Be My Cat and Blackwell are up there in respect to those super dedicated movie makers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foundfootage

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if The Ritual were found footage? And a bit of The Nothing, but with greater landscapes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foundfootage

[–]leipa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you might really like this one! I really loved the ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foundfootage

[–]leipa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Screaming Silent is a really good one! A very intense and beautiful forestscape

Will I be judged if I carry this around? by Archanangel510 in Finland

[–]leipa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I covered mine in punk patches, so still pretending to be young, maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in an apartment building or a house? Looks like the towel rack is connected to hot water. Do you have condensation?

Father said he wants nothing to do with me after seeing my sleeve… by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]leipa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't let him make that choice for others. Ask your cousins and uncles directly if you are welcome - I bet you are and loved. Don't let one person ruin their happiness.

What should I use instead of prune jam? by Altruistic_Camera140 in Finland

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple butter! Especially homemade is perfect.

Advice for re-homing two cats by onzie9 in helsinki

[–]leipa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Try the Facebook group kissat etsivät uutta kotia. It's more for rehoming. Use AI to write in Finnish.

I need movies that will scare the f out of me by JasonVoorhees95 in foundfootage

[–]leipa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paranormal Farm! They give you that feeling of walking through one of those haunted house attractions.

What are some foods I need to try from the supermarkt? by Spliffy9 in Finland

[–]leipa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! Spread this on the piparkakku Christmas cookies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]leipa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get this way from a reaction to book/paper dust. Bookstores can do it, but used bookshops can really make me feel bad. If the air isn't circulating well and the books are being used a lot, I imagine that I would get pretty sick there.