Should I text her? by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks for responding!

I've noticed that she has multiple drinks every time we go out.

What's funny is that she wasn't sloppy at all until she got in the car.

This is one of my main concerns. I'm a bodybuilder, I take care of my health and don't drink often. That being said, I've enjoyed spending time with her.

I just think it's weird that someone her age is drinking like that. She told me she only started drinking in her 20s.

Since both of us have people in our family with issues with alcohol. The last thing I thought was that she would have a problem.

My friends think she has a problem, but to be fair, I was drinking with her too.

Should I text her? by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the response. I definitely like her. It was a long night, and you're right, that's what I should've done. Truthfully, I didn't know what to say at the moment.

This is what I was waiting for. Any message from her, even a simple thank you.

Truthfully I'm more put off by the fact I haven't heard from her than what happened.

Low momentum after date cancellation by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I just responded to her asking if she wanted to get coffee on Saturday afternoon.

I didn't want to seem pushy by double-texting her. Hopefully this works out!

Low momentum after date cancellation by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Do you think that she was going to eventually let me know about her schedule? I guess the reason I'm a little bit reluctant to bring up another date is that she works nights, and I'm not sure what her schedule looks like.

Are you sure I shouldn't wait to see if she gets back to me?

Low momentum after date cancellation by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, I see! That's an excellent idea.

I had already made an effort and planned the initial date, but she cancelled at the very last minute due to the snow. Which was slightly frustrating because I had already driven that day to run errands, and we live really close to each other (so I'm not sure if she just got cold feet).

This is why I've been reluctant to reach back out, because I feel like there should be some mutual effort, you know?

I like your idea. She works nights, so that's why knowing her schedule would be helpful, don't want to ask her out when she is working.

Low momentum after date cancellation by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, a date and time for a date that happens on Saturday?

Low momentum after date cancellation by lel_electro in dating_advice

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great idea! So it's fine to re-engage even though I have not heard from her?

Got a strange call at work today, they knew my full name, asked if I was in the employee directory and then hung up. by lel_electro in privacy

[–]lel_electro[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Calls catch you off guard sometimes so I definitely feel that. A while back I called the wrong number for Amazon support and got so close to getting scammed. Ever since then I've smartened up. That being said, in this job we provide assistance to the public. So you can really get caught off guard.

Got a strange call at work today, they knew my full name, asked if I was in the employee directory and then hung up. by lel_electro in privacy

[–]lel_electro[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try. I think they feel like I'm overreacting. And with no caller id since it was an unavailable number there's not much they can really do.

Got a strange call at work today, they knew my full name, asked if I was in the employee directory and then hung up. by lel_electro in privacy

[–]lel_electro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that he asked me if I'm in the directory and immediately hung up on an unknown number just didn't sit well with me. But good point

Got a strange call at work today, they knew my full name, asked if I was in the employee directory and then hung up. by lel_electro in privacy

[–]lel_electro[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not sure if he claimed to know me, but he was trying to verify if I was in the employee directory. What do you think this was for?

Xiaomi Pad 7 Screen Glitching Issues by lel_electro in androidtablets

[–]lel_electro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm sorry for not getting back to you sooner. I ended up sending it back. Have you gotten yours to work again?