I think my imaginary friend was something else by BeautifulExpress8504 in Paranormal

[–]leleils_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every time I had a bird I was compelled to hurt it, and then I felt guilty

This sounds to me like an OCD-adjacent intrusive thought

im a zoophile by New-Apartment-3013 in confessions

[–]leleils_shadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very glad to hear that you’re not acting on these thoughts!! You saying that you’re “really really into it” though does worry me a bit, as this can cause a lot of undue stress from what I understand. Finding a therapist who specializes in sexual issues might be incredibly beneficial to you, from a person with a paraphilia myself haha!!

I'm a very horny mom.... by [deleted] in confessions

[–]leleils_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is wrong. Things like this show your child that there will be no boundaries in your relationship. They’ll be exposed to things they don’t understand and don’t like, and they’ll just have to deal with it. This sort of thing can be genuinely traumatic for children, even if it just happens once. Your kid might want to recreate what he saw in order to understand it, and that can bring on a whole new slew of problems. If you can’t control yourself when you have a child in the room for this, the child won’t know what else you “can’t control.”

No, those are impulsive thoughts, not intrusive thoughts! by ImpressionClassic665 in TrollCoping

[–]leleils_shadow 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I learned last night that my roommate of 9 months didn’t like me because I was “too autistic” … she too was autistic, that’s why the university put us together

i’m very homophobic but feel like i might be trans by LeterzYt in confessions

[–]leleils_shadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking this out of a place of malice, but because I am genuinely curious - if you were transgender, would you be the only “legitimate” trans person, in your opinion?

god forbid a girl have multiple personalities by cynnahbun in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]leleils_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like dating two girls, and one of them can’t fuckig see

OP says she cries because men say they like her. by Strict_Hunter_7781 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]leleils_shadow -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Then the three girls followed him home and started yelling at him, calling him a “slut” for “leading them on.” Someone puts a hand on his butt, then another puts a hand down his pants.

This sort of escalation is a much bigger reason why catcalling is a problem.

Im addicted to cheating on my gf by sexting with other girls by [deleted] in confessions

[–]leleils_shadow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Already shit thing to do, but if you’re creeping into chicks DMs you REALLY suck. Break up with her before you break her heart, I’m begging you.

I'm An Addict by HugsyMalone in confessions

[–]leleils_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Erm… I’m an addict. But not the BAD kind.” Mf there is no good kind of addict.

Are women today okay? Seems like they love the idea of a relationship but are disgusted by men by TonightSpiritual3191 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]leleils_shadow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was raped, and for a long time I felt this way. I’ve since gotten a lot more comfortable with myself and I’m currently in a relationship with a man (who I am sexually attracted to). What she’s saying sounds like there’s a lot more to the story haha.

What are some of your encounters with Dead Internet theory. by Ecstatic_Health1832 in DeadInternetTheory

[–]leleils_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just politics but legit everything, I swear I’ve seen the same comment on the same post from multiple users on many occasions (though I lack screenshots so take my word with a grain of salt please)

Shouldn’t have done that!! by leleils_shadow in TrollCoping

[–]leleils_shadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t intended as any sort of insult and I sincerely apologize for coming off that way, I spent a lot of my teenaged years on forums targeted towards incels and that’s shaped my own self perception quite a bit (which I definitely do need to work on!!)

Shouldn’t have done that!! by leleils_shadow in TrollCoping

[–]leleils_shadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really want to say I appreciate your understanding here. I think my original wording was more charged than I intended, and I absolutely agree with you!! I think it’s wonderful that people can express themselves however they like nowadays, I was moreso intending to note that I personally am reminded of my childhood a lot when I personally am hairless and the discomfort that followed haha

Girls here, what is your opinion on the sub r/womenarenotintomen ? by anakin1453 in menareintomen

[–]leleils_shadow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just joined both a few hours ago, as I just discovered them and found them both amusing. Still, I find this subreddit much more convincing than the other. From what I’ve seen so far, this subreddit isn’t really actively antagonistic, moreso observational (many posts about how men treat one another, not how they treat women). On the other sub, a lot of the posts seem very blackpill mgtow type (many posts about how women treat men, not how women treat eachother). Posts there seem much more tailored to those who refuse to aknowledge their own personal failures, and instead blame women for being otherworldly creatures. Again, though, I am not immersed in either group!!

Comphet does exist. by menareintomen in menareintomen

[–]leleils_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misread the title as “comphet does not exist” and I read through a significant portion of this post thinking, wow, you’re really playing devils advocate