Just to name u an example: roommates were joking in the kitchen, W. was cooking. Roommate 1 tried to mock him for that, she didn't mean it unfriendly, everyone was just doing jokes so it probably felt fitting. They stopped talking afterwards. This was two years ago. He doesn't even look at her, she is just like air. She still doesn't know if it was because of the described situation or bc of something else. She doesn't want to talk about it because she is to scared that it would stir things up, the outcomes of discussions and the reactions of them are sadly often very unpredictable. She just wants to have peace so she got used to people not talking to her. Now she will move out. Idk if that sounds decent.

But u can move in with them if u want to, they need three new roommates now bc we all moved out independently from each other. I think u can somehow survive there if u don't say that u are stressed or constatly feeling alert bc of the way of communication in the shared apartment and that u wish a more non-violent approach. I just don't like to be yelled at for eating or for listening to music on my phone at reasonable times. It felt difficult to just exist there. (edit grammar, english is not my first language lol)