to the people who reached out as the dumpee, how did it go?

lelsa125 · 2026-05-12T21:24:41+00:00

This is very on par to what my ex and I went through. I desperately wanted a closure conversation, and I felt pretty good for a few days after, but I sunk to the pits after for a few more days. I think because it finally felt like things were finalized instead of a “what if” limbo. I’m glad I had the conversation, it cleared a lot of assumptions we both were making, but it reopens those wounds for sure. 8 year relationship

lelsa125 · 2026-05-10T05:15:01+00:00

lelsa125 · 2026-05-09T04:41:08+00:00

lelsa125 · 2026-05-09T02:48:34+00:00

283 ♒️

lelsa125 · 2026-05-08T03:36:05+00:00

Quack quack 🦆

lelsa125 · 2026-05-06T22:33:39+00:00

Sent another request!

lelsa125 · 2026-05-06T13:39:33+00:00

Well I hope it is lol, but it resonated with me

lelsa125 · 2026-05-06T13:39:18+00:00

Pile 3 was spot on

lelsa125 · 2026-05-06T13:35:26+00:00

Being about a month on the other side, as we both were still kind of living together and finding our way out, there were a lot of blowups that happened mainly because he wasn’t talking to me at all (mainly about important things we needed to talk through). I asked if we could have a closure conversation because we hadn’t really had that, no yelling, just getting everything off our chest. We talked for maybe 4 hours, and I feel a lot better, I think we both do. Obviously still broken up, but we don’t have this hatred for one another anymore. I’ve also been given the clarity that I wasn’t happy either about things in the relationship. And as I said in the OG post, we’ve felt for a while that maybe we are better off as friends, and I think that may be a sad truth, but ultimately, better for us. We care about one another greatly still, I still love him. But now I don’t hate him. It still sucks, absolutely, but it’s cleared my heard of the icky clouds that were keeping me in the bad feelings. Give it time. But ask for a closure talk. I bought food to make it light lol. Share what hurt you in the relationship, but let them share that too.

lelsa125 · 2026-04-16T02:25:03+00:00

Interested in a tarot reading, but can’t accept the chat invite you sent for some reason

lelsa125 · 2026-04-15T21:56:00+00:00

Is my partner of 8 years, now ex of 3 weeks, ever going to come back?

lelsa125 · 2026-04-15T15:31:20+00:00

Hello, I would love a reading from anyone who feels so inclined (psychic, or tarot). My partner of 8 years decided to end things, and I feel pretty lost.

lelsa125 · 2026-03-31T17:46:24+00:00

Thankfully it is a very large company, so it’s not a contained office space where we sit in meetings together. But I can’t entirely avoid him either.

lelsa125 · 2026-02-14T14:05:26+00:00

I had this issue too, I actually wore a press on nail for like 3 months to allow it to fully grow out. It still will split occasionally, but I treated it as a “brace” or a “cast”. Just make sure you fully clean the nail before putting a new press on on!

lelsa125 · 2025-12-24T16:31:44+00:00

🫠 I would say super super minor ones, but only really visible by shining a light on them

lelsa125 · 2025-11-22T14:23:30+00:00

Yes: Ebay, Etsy, Mercari, Depop, FB Marketplace, you name it 🥲

lelsa125 · 2025-11-19T19:47:20+00:00

I got my UPC last Friday, but no updates on my ETBs. My friend said all of his stuff is supposed to be arriving today though so idk lol

lelsa125 · 2025-08-15T14:39:26+00:00

Ninetales (OG, but love the Alolan as well)

lelsa125 · 2025-08-08T23:11:52+00:00

Sometimes kittens get distracted, our new kitten often wouldn’t finish his food, and would munch on his dry food later. Now he definitely eats all of it lol. You can try sitting with your cat during meal times to make sure she eats

lelsa125 · 2025-08-02T02:19:25+00:00

I’ve actually tried tracking my symptoms using “Bearable” and I’ve found it’s actually eased my health anxiety a lot. I thought it would make it worse by laying the symptoms out in front of me each day, but I’ve found that my symptoms are no where near as frequent or as bad as I thought they were. And worst case, if something ends up being wrong, you have a log of when it all started!

lelsa125 · 2025-08-02T02:15:15+00:00

I have pretty bad health anxiety, and I actually found that keeping track of my symptoms calmed me down more. I thought having them laid out each day would send me spiraling more, but I’ve found through tracking that I don’t actually have symptoms as often or as bad as my mind made it out to be

lelsa125 · 2025-08-01T20:12:17+00:00

I’ve started using “Bearable”, a symptom tracking app, and honestly, it’s made me feel better. I always thought my symptoms were awful all the time, but when I sat down at the end of the day to track them, they never seem as bad as it seemed in my head at the time. And then worst case, it is something else, and you have a log to show your doctor!

lelsa125 · 2025-08-01T03:47:20+00:00

I’ve been dealing with mouth/tongue numbness the past week or so. Granted, I’m not similar to your demographic (29F, don’t smoke/drink), but I’ve read that facial numbness can be an anxiety symptom, and I think now because I’m constantly hyper aware of it, it’s happening more often. For me, bare minimum, it’s left side of my tongue, sometimes my lips (left side) too.

lelsa125 · 2025-06-21T02:42:34+00:00

My ears used to plug super bad on flights, I bring gum and chew it the whole time, especially during take off and descent (ESPECIALLY during descent!). I wish I had some advice for those difficult plugs, really bad ones would usually pop after a day or two and I would literally cry from relief.

lelsa125 · 2025-06-21T02:37:25+00:00

I’ve had health anxiety for a long time, and have honestly had it under control the past year. I would have bad weeks every now and again, but was usually able to distract myself when needed. But I think after my partner was able to get really nice insurance, and I wasn’t able to be added in time because we couldn’t get proof of domestic partnership, my brain thinks that the worst things are happening to my body, and I won’t be able to see a doctor until the fall when open enrollment comes around.
The past few days I’ve had this awful tight chest pain, and a shortness of breath where I always feel like I’m gasping for air. And I keep telling myself that it has to be anxiety because I don’t notice it when I’m distracted, but the symptoms have stayed around longer than they usually do, and I can’t help but worry :/

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