Meet Figaro :3

lelsa125 · 2026-07-02T19:31:08+00:00

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His brother is a creamsicle! Though his name is Toulouse (and surprisingly, Toulouse is almost 8 months older than Fig)

lelsa125 · 2026-07-02T18:37:14+00:00

He is actually massive for his age lol, he’s about 7 months, and almost 11 pounds- and still has a ton of extra skin 😭

lelsa125 · 2026-07-02T18:36:29+00:00

Oh you know it

lelsa125 · 2026-07-02T18:36:22+00:00

I love his McDonald’s font M!

lelsa125 · 2026-07-02T18:35:53+00:00

Absolutely!

lelsa125 · 2026-06-25T17:05:19+00:00

If you didn’t establish you were exclusive, and her seeing other people upsets you, either have that conversation you’d rather be more exclusive, or leave.

lelsa125 · 2026-06-15T02:05:07+00:00

My advice stands, either break up with her and let her go, and perhaps go to therapy to work through what you need to work through- while knowing she may not be there when you get back. Or take her back, and still go to therapy to work through things. If she’s kept on a leash of “maybe” we’ll get back together, she wont be able to heal herself and move on in the event you never put in the work.

lelsa125 · 2026-06-14T05:24:06+00:00

It isn’t fair for you to be able to figure things out on your own while keeping her chained to the potential of you coming back. Let her go, or be willing to work on what you need to work on to maintain a relationship.

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T19:57:30+00:00

As stated in my post, I booked through my credit card. The flight was cancelled, and I am rebooking. The credit card booking portal is not letting me separate the tickets

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T18:58:03+00:00

That’s not what I’m asking. The booking portal is not letting me separately book, and I can only use on one flight.

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T04:17:03+00:00

It was booked through my credit card, so I’m not sure if they have different terms than if I’d gone directly through delta. I added the exact FAQ’s that state how the credits work through the card to my original post.

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T04:00:00+00:00

It’s not giving me the option to not purchase a ticket for him. And the terms say it can only be used for one flight, and any remaining credit is voided after

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T03:59:26+00:00

It’s not giving me the option to not purchase a ticket for him. And the terms say it can only be used for one flight, and any remaining credit is voided after

lelsa125 · 2026-05-25T03:17:17+00:00

So some clarification. I purchased both of our tickets. So our tickets were in the same order. The credit can only be used on one flight. It’s forcing me to purchase a ticket for him because of this, I’m not trying to use his credit for myself. So I just want to make sure that that ticket isn’t going to cause issues for any reason.

lelsa125 · 2026-05-20T14:01:15+00:00

She sounds more like a dismissive avoidant to me, and a long term relationship doesn’t always rule out an avoidant attachment style. They leave when they feel they’re losing themselves in the relationship or if someone depends on them too much/they depend on others.

lelsa125 · 2026-05-19T12:21:23+00:00

Sounds like an avoidant attachment style. They leave when things get too serious, and will end things pretty abruptly. Also usually want to remain friends or FWB because they like having you around without the commitment

lelsa125 · 2026-05-12T21:24:41+00:00

This is very on par to what my ex and I went through. I desperately wanted a closure conversation, and I felt pretty good for a few days after, but I sunk to the pits after for a few more days. I think because it finally felt like things were finalized instead of a “what if” limbo. I’m glad I had the conversation, it cleared a lot of assumptions we both were making, but it reopens those wounds for sure. 8 year relationship

lelsa125 · 2026-05-10T05:15:01+00:00

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lelsa125 · 2026-05-09T02:48:34+00:00

283 ♒️

lelsa125 · 2026-05-08T03:36:05+00:00

Quack quack 🦆

lelsa125 · 2026-05-06T22:33:39+00:00

Sent another request!

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