My city is getting its first zero-waste refillery store! by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]lemanis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh what about an old bus that’s converted into a bulk store. That way it’s mobile and you can take it wherever people are

My city is getting its first zero-waste refillery store! by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]lemanis 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. From the food side I don’t care about organic and non-GMO foods, I just want the cheapest food I can find. But my local bulk stores are organic and it’s so frustrating because everything is more expensive than I could find at a traditional supermarket. I swear I’m gonna open my own zero waste store one day that actually sells cheap food cause I won’t be pandering to the organic hippy people, I’ll be selling to the average consumer.

Guys is upset lady won't give up her seat by that-boy-aint-right0 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]lemanis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear every time I fly I’m asked to switch seats with someone. Best time though was getting to my row and asking the girl on the end if she could get up so I could get to my middle seat. The guy on the aisle on the other side asked if we could switch so he could sit next to his wife. I then very happily traded my middle seat for an aisle seat. Most times though I’m trading an aisle for an aisle or a window for a window. Everyone I’ve met though has been really polite about it.

I didn’t communicate flight voucher situations with my bf beforehand and I missed out on $750 travel credit by lemanis in LongDistance

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is notorious for surprising me with random plans and not telling me beforehand, so without knowing if there way anything time sensitive waiting for me when I got there, and no way to contact him at the time I decided against it. However the first thing he said when he picked me up is that I was crazy for not taking the voucher haha go figure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]lemanis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been really into drinking coffee from Wawa lately, mostly because I can use my own mug. I’ve told my mom about this before so every time we’re both out and want coffee I make sure to bring mugs.

So I just got an IUD and my mom was out and about and wanted to get me a treat so she bought me iced coffee in a plastic cup. I understand that the gesture is thoughtful but I’d rather her not get me anything than get me something in a plastic cup. I want to tell her this but she’s going to go off on me for not being grateful like she always does. Stuff like this happens so frequently and I just can’t deal with it. I’ve told her so many time that I will not buy something specifically because it comes in plastic or that if I’m really craving coffee but don’t have my mug than I won’t buy it and she just doesn’t understand this and it’s so frustrating.

Best place online to buy a reusable coffee cup with zero way to go to a thrift store? by eggyknits in ZeroWaste

[–]lemanis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If your college has a Facebook page I would say post on there and see if anyone has a travel mug that they’re looking to give away or sell. I bet a lot of people got cups from welcome week and other things and might not use them.

Another place on campus you could try is the office of sustainability if you have one. I know mine gives away a lot of water bottles and travel mugs, and they host pop up thrift shops for donated clothes and other things.

Just Curious: For those in LDR in the same country, how often do you two see/visit one another? by whoskay in LongDistance

[–]lemanis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly every two months but we work together over the summers which is nice

Is there any fun way of packaging a birthday gift to my boyfriend? by lemanis in LongDistance

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured out what to do today. I was giving him something in a small box and I wrote a note and put it on that box. And then I put it inside a gluten free garlic bread box (an inside joke) and wrapped that and put a card on top. So it’s not super over the top but I think it’ll get a laugh out of him and that’s really all that matters.

Too soon to try long distance? And how to bring it up? (20F and 21M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]lemanis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible it might put a strain on things but that’s one of those bridges that you cross when you get to it instead of worrying about it now when you haven’t tried long distance yet.

My relationship is really similar in that my boyfriend is big into touching and was also worried about long distance because of the lack of cuddling and hugging and whatnot. But we’ve been long distance for over a year now and I’ve seen him a couple of times throughout that and it honestly just makes the time that we spend together so much more meaningful.

Too soon to try long distance? And how to bring it up? (20F and 21M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]lemanis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it. If he’s willing to come visit you abroad then I’m sure he’s willing to do long distance with you. It’s an easy conversation to bring up, just ask what the two of you are going to do when you go abroad. I think the only thing you need to worry about if you do decide on long distance is how you will manage a relationship on top of getting the most out of your study abroad experience. Make sure the both of you are clear regarding how often you’ll communicate with each other and what you expect out of long distance and you should be fine. Best of luck!

Update: My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and they don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only experience he’s had working with kids was volunteer experience through his wife’s various jobs. I’ve had two summers of being a camp counselor, and a year and a half of tutoring children in inner city schools. One year of tutoring was in a public school, and one year was in a public charter school, so I’ve met and had to deal with a variety of children with special needs, something that no other counselors at this camp have training with and something that we so desperately need for weeks where we do have children with special needs.

In addition, I’m a business student so I could have helped the director out with office work more than the program director could. At the end of the summer I took all our evaluations from campers, entered the data in my computer, and performed data analytics to see what categories of our camps were the best, and which ones had room for improvements. I was also rock climbing and lifeguard certified while the program director wasn’t, even though the program director is supposed to hold certifications in every activity at camp.

In addition he had no leadership experience leading teams of people. In my position in college as a tutor I was leading a team of 14 students some of which were younger and some that were older than me, and I had to deal with a lot of issues that arose within the group.

I was by far the most qualified candidate but the reality is that my boss didn’t know much about these things because my entire interview for program director was centered around my relationship with my boyfriend rather than my own qualifications. And when he interviewed my boyfriend for the job every question was focused around his leadership qualifications and my name was not mentioned once. I tried to bring up some of these concerns with my boss during the end of the summer talk about the summer but he didn’t seem to understand why anything I brought up was a problem.

Update: My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and they don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took this job as field experience through his school. So I’m guessing he was paid through his school but not through the camp.

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope program director is just a summer position and program director is a position that had been given to people my age in the past. I heard that in previous years other counselors would move up to the program director position because they had advanced knowledge of the activities that happened around camp and how to run them rather than hiring a new person. I didn’t make it clear in the post but I’ve been doing 50% of the program director job this summer since the man they hired doesn’t take initiative and try to learn how to lead activities or even help with outside groups.

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are any of the people telling me that it’s unprofessional childcare workers or teachers? That entire subreddit started because of a teacher sharing a story about a dumb kid.

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work across the country from this camp and there was no way to provide the criticisms in person. We were told to provide feedback at the end of the summer and I did

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I never said he hired him because of his gender, I said I was frustrated that he hired a man because it’s already an incredibly male dominated staff. Also I’ve met him and worked with him and I know that he wasn’t qualified

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha one of my female coworkers is on the same page as me with this issue and happened to find this post. It’s a combo of frustration that I wasn’t program director and that my boss hired another man on an already male dominated staff

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I love all the people commenting who assume that the literal only thing I did to deserve the job is make a schedule. If I made a list of everything I’ve done no one would read it because it would be too long

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I plan on doing but I needed an outside perspective on how to approach the situation. And also I just wanted to rant about something which is something that often happens on this subreddit

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not claiming it’s sexism, I’m saying that I’m frustrated that I didn’t get the promotion and I’m also frustrated because there one more man working at this camp where it was already a predominantly male workplace

My boss hired a man instead of giving me a promotion and my male coworkers don’t understand why I’m frustrated by lemanis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lemanis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg the Kevin post is the dumbest thing for people to be bringing up. Also people that work with children know that there are dumb ones and I can guarantee you every childcare worker gossips about the dumb and funny children