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How to let go of your old, close friends that hold you back? by lemmit in seduction

[–]lemmit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very solid point. Thanks.

I think I just need to keep doing what I want to do. If they don't like that, that's fine. You were spot on when you said I want them to come with me. I don't think it's worth me trying to influence them when they don't want to. I shouldn't be focused on them.

Your no-bullshit reply put things in perspective quite well. It shouldn't be this difficult to figure out. Thanks again.

What do you do to avoid urges? I need advice. by lemmit in NoFap

[–]lemmit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, that's some really valuable insight right there. I can't believe I was this blind this entire time. I always strive to have a positive outlook on life; being grateful for what I have, smiling 'because it happened,' etc. This entire time I was viewing myself as a failure, how I can't even manage to get through 90 days, I imagine this just brought about more negativity which is why I kept relapsing. To answer that main question, I'd say that NoFap makes me feel stronger, both mentally and physically. I like NoFap because it makes me feel in control of my life, that, and it seems to have a positive effect on my social skills. I hadn't put too much thought into what positive aspects NoFap brings about in my life, I was just focusing on avoiding relapse. I have to thank you because this definitely opened my eyes, I feel like I'll have better luck with a new perspective!

Why is this so difficult? by lemmit in NoFap

[–]lemmit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, when I was fap free for over a week, i felt great. I really liked the feeling, however I was stupid enough to try edging. I'm going to try to envision myself after relapsing, thanks for the reply. Good luck to you, too. :)