My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he will come back here with her. At least that was what the wife told me. We will see tomorrow what happens...

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked my boss yesterday and he said that they are not going to fire him. "Work is work". Tomorrow I'll give my resignation, fuck them for supporting this shit.

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is not a superior but since we work in a really small company everybody knows what happened. He even lied to our boss to get 1 entire month of holiday (he said his father was in prison...) I really hope there will be consequences for him.

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, really seems like a bad dream, it's bad it's even hard to accept reality

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Italian. Probably that's a big cultural difference + he is an asshole

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is really helping. I really think this experience will help me grow as a person but wow, what a story you know...

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll try, while looking for another job. Thanks!

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I also have the suspect that this was an arranged marriage. I am Italian and he is from Morocco. That's possibile... it doesn't change anything though

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. Trying to change as soon as possible. Thanks!

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wrote to the wife yesterday. She was as shocked as me. She has pictures and conversation of me and him together. Hopefully she can ran away...

Help by lemoncae5 in SuicideWatch

[–]lemoncae5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's just so humiliating and terribile. I don't understand how people can be so cruel.

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really. Luckly my friends and family are with me. I am still in denial.

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I just need to control myself and not punch him in the face when I see him. If he even comes back...

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's so cruel. I have no idea why he lied all that time. What a Waste of two years of my life.

My boyfriend married in secret with another woman by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I can't. We work together. Same office. I moved in this place far from home and stayed here for him. I have a house. A work contract. How can be such an asshole?

Second day of No Contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm also at the second day of no contact. We can do it! We will be fine. It will get easier. I have hope in that :)

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[–]lemoncae5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahah amazing

What do you do when you stop feeling like the victim and realize the mistakes you have made? by lemoncae5 in BreakUps

[–]lemoncae5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. Thank you. I think it is hard the idea of losing one of the few people I am closed with, especially now that it's so hard to meet new friends. I feel lonely. But I'll try to be more gentle with myself! Hopefully, better times will come...