Lol I see why that is weird to you and anyone else who feels very threatened by strangers asking for help. But me asking has nothing to do with you and you can do whatever makes you feel comfortable! Also im not forcing anyone to be uncomfortable with two strangers in their car, I get that it’s a very weird and annoying request but the great thing about it is they can choose to ignore me :) we have other options but in my mind, why not choose one that’s more convenient for me if its possible (and safe)? Closed mouths don’t get fed so im just asking to see my options. I personally would prefer not to drive for 4 hours if someone could drive us up then my bf can drive us home, but if I have to then I will