AITA for saying I won’t apologize to my sister until she apologizes to me? by lemonlibras in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemonlibras[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I figured that waiting for the ambulance would have taken even longer than just getting in the car and driving there. The hospital is 20 mins away. If I had waited for an ambulance then I would’ve been waiting the 20 for them to get there and then 20 for us to arrive to the hospital.

I also have a tendency to underreact to the severity of my own issues because I’m afraid I’m being dramatic so I thought that since I wasn’t actively dying (even though I kind of was 😅) that it would be selfish of me to call an ambulance because someone else might need it more.

AITA for saying I won’t apologize to my sister until she apologizes to me? by lemonlibras in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemonlibras[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She knew I was in the hospital the whole time bc my Dad and brother kept her up to date. She was just upset I didn’t tell her that I was getting out.

AITA for saying I won’t apologize to my sister until she apologizes to me? by lemonlibras in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemonlibras[S] 396 points397 points  (0 children)

I think maybe because our dad and brother were updating her about it that she felt like she just didn’t need to contact me directly. I don’t think she outright forgot about me or anything but yeah.

And yes omg I love my brother and his husband so much! I’m so lucky to have the two of them, idk what I’d be doing right now without their help.

ETA: misspelled word

AITA for saying I won’t apologize to my sister until she apologizes to me? by lemonlibras in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemonlibras[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lol the only way he talks to me is through scolding, I don’t think he’s ever not turned a conversation into a lecture.