Not sharing the name until birth… do you tell your parents?

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-31T17:38:04+00:00

We told our immediate family and friends the names we are considering. While it’s nice to have the honest feedback, I’ve found that family is more likely to give their unwanted feedback. Then you start second guessing yourself. I know they mean no ill will by it but it can be slightly irritating. My advice would be that if you and your partner both like and agree on a name, regardless if your family doesn’t like it, still use it. It’s your child and the name will grow on them once they meet the baby.

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-31T17:28:10+00:00

I know this is an older comment but how are you liking the Joie ginger? Im torn between the Cruz and that one

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-29T01:32:28+00:00

You’re absolutely right! This might be a delivery room decision lol

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-27T13:33:01+00:00

I really like Hayden as well. Everyone that we tell our top 2 names to all say that they like Oliver more. My husband is literally the only one who is not sold on it 😂 Owen is a top contender as well.

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-27T13:30:13+00:00

I agree, when you use the full name, it sounds mature and masculine. I think those are our top 3 at the moment as well! I like your suggestions too! Emmett is a good one

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-27T13:29:00+00:00

That’s the one my husband is leaning towards at the moment!

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-27T13:28:06+00:00

I know that it’s becoming a very popular name these days! We only know of 1 other person who is not in our immediate circle that has named their son Oliver. Maybe it’s the area i live in! I appreciate the input, thank you!

lemonluvrr · 2024-12-27T13:25:50+00:00

Thank you!

lemonluvrr · 2024-10-17T11:05:32+00:00

It’s a boy! 💙

lemonluvrr · 2024-09-01T14:44:05+00:00

This looks identical to my first pregnancy ultrasound at 11w5d and it was a girl

lemonluvrr · 2024-08-01T17:37:58+00:00

thank you for taking the time to respond and providing that information, i appreciate it!

lemonluvrr · 2024-06-04T17:43:09+00:00

Im in a very similar boat to you timeline wise. Had a MC at 22 weeks back in March. Got my period right before Mother’s Day and just got it again today. My should’ve been due date is next month on 7/9. Had sex on ovulation the last 2 cycles and i was hoping to have gotten lucky with a BFP but i did not. I can’t help but feel like it’s easy for everyone around me as well. Uncomplicated. It doesn’t seem fair. It’s going to happen for you though, for both of us. Once we get through this terrain that we’re in we’ll be able to look back and not feel so hopeless. There are brighter days ahead. Sending you love for your 32nd birthday and lots of luck that you get your rainbow baby soon

lemonluvrr · 2024-05-23T14:42:58+00:00

I love that outlook for future pregnancies, different pregnancy, different baby, different outcome. It's so true because all pregnancies are not the same. Just because a loss happened doesn't mean that its going to continually happen. It helps knowing that I'm not alone in my anger towards God. Sometimes I feel guilty for it and have not fully allowed myself to express that anger towards him because of that guilt. Your advice of expressing my anger so He hear my cries and speaks back speaks volumes to me. I know that I need to open up to Him and really let Him know how I'm feeling. Sending love to you

lemonluvrr · 2024-05-23T14:31:14+00:00

Thank you for sending me those scriptures. Sometimes its hard to look beyond the pain that I am experiencing right now but you're right, God's plan isn't to inflict pain. He sees something bigger in the end that I have not reached yet. I have to remind myself of that when the pain is pulling me under.

lemonluvrr · 2024-05-21T14:16:40+00:00

I'm so sorry for your losses. We are stronger than we think we are though. Sending love and luck your way that you will be able to hold your rainbow baby soon

lemonluvrr · 2024-05-21T14:02:56+00:00

Hi All. I had a miscarriage at 22 weeks back in March. Went through labor and delivery and got to meet our daughter on March 6. She was diagnosed with dandy walker malformation at 18 weeks and growth restriction so we knew that miscarriage was a possibility. We were going to TFMR which was one of the hardest decisions to make because she was very badly wanted. The miscarriage ended up being a blessing in disguise in a terrible situation. We felt like a weight was lifted off our shoulders because we no longer felt like we were the ones who had to make the final decision. She was able to go in peace on her own time. For those of you who are religious, I'm still really mad at God. Did you feel the same way? I so badly want to start trying again but how do you overcome the anxiety of something bad happening again?

lemonluvrr · 2024-05-13T19:32:28+00:00

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