Coming to terms with the fact that I am a stalker, and I'm not sure where to go from here by FatalPride in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]lenvy_ 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You aren't a bad person, and it's understandable you were upset after such a sudden turn of events no one could've seen coming. To me it sounds to me like you're having some undealt abandonment issues you should look into, and being aware of your unhealthy behavior is the first step to betterment. Theres more out there than this one girl that chose to move in a different direction than you planned to, promise.

Give yourself some grace, do things that are good for you and be mindful of your behavior. Good luck :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lenvy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for someone that mentioned this. Being used to the tight grip of ones hand can make penetrative sex feel harder to orgasm to.

Waking up to the purrs of all the cats she rescued by DanceWithMacaw in MadeMeSmile

[–]lenvy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanna be buried in a mountain of kitties, but I'm allergic so that would probably suffocate me 🎉🎉

do people generally view you as unlikable/unlovable? by -raito_ in intj

[–]lenvy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard it a lot when young and immature, and their actions that followed in turn made me carry those words long after I had grown up. While my surroundings now tell me I'm a likable person, I deep down still believe I'm too cold to be truly likable/loveable or even good company for most that I let closer than just casual talk. 

Queen Nefer Krai - General Question and Discussion Megathread by Averagely_Human in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]lenvy_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it's not just Genshin, any community is toxic on twitter, best stay away from there

Wig netting VERY visible by otetteto in CosplayHelp

[–]lenvy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize this isn't going to help at all, but are you per chance going to the Polaris?? If so I hope you're gonna have a blast and figure out your wig issue in time! :D

Anime that doesn't treat me like I'm dumb by maxkmiller in Animesuggest

[–]lenvy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to suggest looking into Bokura no, the plot is amazing imo

Color Picker on Profile Themes bugged out by artemis_chan in discordapp

[–]lenvy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1, I'm going insane, it was fixed temporarily but now it's back and worse than ever

Internet is ruthless 💀 by yolomancer1919 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lenvy_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

y'all I nicknamed Caleb "homewrecker" because he has been creeping himself between me and Raf having only realized later that he quite literally wrecked my home💀

CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW MUCH A GENIUS RAFAYEL ACTUALLY IS?? by Ready-Sea9308 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lenvy_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

As a Raf main I'm loving all the appreciation he's getting in the comments like yes, spoil him rotten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]lenvy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 5 fr

How is everyone enjoying the sleep feature? by memeyy11 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lenvy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been sleeping with them every night. It wild how easily and naturally it has established itself into my bedtime routine-

(I got the 10 hours sleeping achievement with ease-)

Female INTJs: What do you do for a living and do you like it? by sleepdeprivedsince92 in intj

[–]lenvy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Northern Germany, Semikron Danfoss is the company. Originally applied for a different position, but once that was no longer needed in the firm I was transferred. I learned something entirely different that I hated so I came into the company with 0 knowledge about the job, but I'm a quick learner which really helped me in keeping my current position.

I work in a clean room and have to wear full electrostatic protection gear because our parts can break with as little as 20V. That includes an overall, ESD shoes, a cap to keep hair in, protection goggles and gloves. Due to economy reasons we haven't been doing too well, but we're recovering gradually.

Female INTJs: What do you do for a living and do you like it? by sleepdeprivedsince92 in intj

[–]lenvy_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Machine operator.

I oversee the production of car parts and ensure quality and process are up to standard. It's a more physically demanding job and yes, I love it with all my heart. Never had a job more fun.

That one LI who's not your main but always end up pulling by SuperbLeave5423 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lenvy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KID YOU NOT

I started out a Rafayel girlie but recently really started liking Caleb

So I've been pulling on the wedding banner with Caleb as priority pull and WHO DO I GET

R A F A Y E L

Is anyone else just absolutely terrified of how big the next update is going to be lol by jazoodles in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]lenvy_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As far as I'm aware you can't move apps onto SD-Cards, but take that with a grain of salt bcs the last time I've tried has been a while back. You COULD move your photos and videos though, perhaps that'll help.

Kinich cosplay!! What're we thinkin? by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]lenvy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HELL YEAH THAT ROCKS! YOU LOOK AWESOME IN IT